My wife shaved her pussy. Should I be worried?

[out4fun]

I'm not sure what inspired the clean shave - she's early 40's and has never done it before. She's never been one to go for even a really close trim. She's always been more the natural type. She's quite fit and sexy, she's just never been into high maintenance down below.

Anyways, no discussion, now just a new, clean, bald pussy.

Our bedroom time has diminished to once a month at best - so I'm wondering if she did it for my benefit, her benefit, or a third party's benefit?

What do you think?

 

[Arena]

What did you say to her when you discovered that she shaved it all?
It would certainly make me wonder wtf?

 

[james t kirk]

She's definitely fucking around.....but aren't you?

 

[danzuchy]

I'm not sure what inspired the clean shave - she's early 40's and has never done it before. She's never been one to go for even a really close trim. She's always been more the natural type. She's quite fit and sexy, she's just never been into high maintenance down below.

Anyways, no discussion, now just a new, clean, bald pussy.

Our bedroom time has diminished to once a month at best - so I'm wondering if she did it for my benefit, her benefit, or a third party's benefit?

What do you think?

YES!!!!! Be worried. PI to follow and in a few days you'll have your man. Beenthere done that.

 

[keepmovingforward]

ur over thinking this shit. why doubt her motives unless its completely obvious? just enjoy, make her feel special and dive right in. for the record, u aint getting an answer here that will help you understand her motives. no one on this damn board knows her. u can get as many positive or negative answers based on who ever is trolling the forums. best to just make her feel good about it good luck buddy

 

[out4fun]

WTF was my first though...I told her I liked it, and then I went in for further inspection. I really liked licking her new clean pussy - but that was a month ago, and I've never even had a glimpse of it since.

 

[jbcuba2009]

I would have to agree with JTK's statement because if there wasn't a conversation with you prior to the shave then it would probably be for the benefit/requested by a third party.

 

[out4fun]

Maybe she knows about your hobbying....and she felt neglected and ignored, so she shaved it to impress you?...deter you from seeing SPs?...

I am much more of a lurker than a hobbiest - once a year maybe.

 

[fmahovalich]

I would think a discussion..to determine why???.... would work. You may have asked.,..and she may have 'sluffed you off' with an answer.

There are a number of ways to determine if something sinister is happening.

1) Tell her you prefer the hair there...and would she kindly grow it back (I know I know....it may be a lie..but tell her)

2) Get a keylogger on the home computer and find out who the hot emails and textings are going to. (Then get back to me on what to do about that)

3) Is her cell phone locked?....is the history cleared regularly? (as yours should be . Ask to use her phone as you 'forgot' yours....when you are out and about. Check for a reaction!!

4) P.I's... are expensive....but certainly an option. Talk to them...they like that they have an 'insider' to help them narrow down the surveillance. Hire them at 'opportune' times.

5) Cut off sex....see 'how bad does she want it from you'....tell her you prefer the hair or something....check for reaction!!


BEEN THERE>>DONE IT ALL.....IM GOING ON 5 YEARS SEXLESS!!!

 

[djk]

I would think a discussion..to determine why would work. YOu may have asked.,..and she may have 'sluffed you off' with an answer.

There are a number of ways to determine if something sinister is happening.

1) Tell her you prefer the hair there...and would she kindly grow it back (I know I know....it may be a lie..but tell her)

2) Get a keylogger on the home computer and find out who the hot emails and textgs are going to

3) Is he cell phone locked....is the history cleared regularly (as your should be . ASk to use her phone as you 'forgot' yours. Check for a reaction!!

4) P.I are expensive....but certainly an option. Talk to them...they like that they have an 'insider' to help them narrow down the surveillance. Hire them at 'opportune times.

5) Cut off sex....see 'how bad does she want it from you'....tell her you prefer the hair or soemthing....check for reaction!!


BEEN THERE>>DONE IT ALL.....IM GOING ON 5 YEARS SEXLESS!!!

Wow. Too much work. I'd just walk away and move on.

Then again, I wouldn't have said "I do.." and ended up in this mess.

 

[Cypher]

How is your communication in general? I'm sensing that might be worth some scrutiny as well. Do you still compliment her in general? Notice/compliment her clothes/new hairstyles?
Could she be thinking, "What do I have to do until he (you) notices/says something?" Try saying something to her about it, just make sure it's something complimentary.

 

[aviator57]

I'm not sure what inspired the clean shave - she's early 40's and has never done it before. She's never been one to go for even a really close trim. She's always been more the natural type. She's quite fit and sexy, she's just never been into high maintenance down below.

Anyways, no discussion, now just a new, clean, bald pussy.

Our bedroom time has diminished to once a month at best - so I'm wondering if she did it for my benefit, her benefit, or a third party's benefit?

What do you think?

Based on my own experience - you shouldn't but you MUST WORRY about a third party benefit! Dixit!

 

[Brill]

It depends on her attitude with you, why did the sex diminish? Is she the type who would try to inject something new into your relationship and worries she might be losing you?
It could be a girlfriend who said she tried this, it might be for you.

Without knowing her, I'd guess she found someone else. If you see other woman try not to raise the roof about it. If she is, do you want to win her back?
If so, give her more attention - communicate and tell her how you feel about her.

 

[Mia.Colpa]

I've bugging her for months to shave down there as it was a nuisance, and now t looks wonderful. Yea, you should be worried.

Lighten up bud, take advantage of it and go for it more, enjoy life, it's too short.

 

[Damondean]

Just keep checking the SP directopry on TERB and RedZone for a pic. ) Then demand your cut!

 

[tool_man05]

Why don't you just ask her. Could be any number of reasons that are innocent, as many as are not, lol. If you still are getting it only once a month it obviously wasn't totally for you. Hell once a month is once a month more than I've been getting it for a long time, lol.

 

[out4fun]

I would think a discussion..to determine why???.... would work. You may have asked.,..and she may have 'sluffed you off' with an answer.

There are a number of ways to determine if something sinister is happening.

1) Tell her you prefer the hair there...and would she kindly grow it back (I know I know....it may be a lie..but tell her)

2) Get a keylogger on the home computer and find out who the hot emails and textings are going to. (Then get back to me on what to do about that)

3) Is her cell phone locked?....is the history cleared regularly? (as yours should be . Ask to use her phone as you 'forgot' yours....when you are out and about. Check for a reaction!!

4) P.I's... are expensive....but certainly an option. Talk to them...they like that they have an 'insider' to help them narrow down the surveillance. Hire them at 'opportune' times.

5) Cut off sex....see 'how bad does she want it from you'....tell her you prefer the hair or something....check for reaction!!


BEEN THERE>>DONE IT ALL.....IM GOING ON 5 YEARS SEXLESS!!!

This is all good advice, but I'm not sure i really care to find out. I'm not the type to read someone's emails or check their phone history - I don't really feel its any of my business. I'm more curious (and confused) than jelous or spiteful. I think in the end, if she was having an affair, I could blame myself as easily as blame her.

 

[HG Hunter]

She's quite fit and sexy, she's just never been into high maintenance down below.

You mention that she's fit and sexy. Maybe she noticed some of the other women at the gym sporting the clean look and decided to give it a try. Just giving her the benefit of the doubt.

 

[fmahovalich]

Well then move on DUDE...you don't want advice..you don't want to know....don;t wanna investigate...you don't want to ask her...clearly don;t communicate with her....

Might as well delete the thread DUDE!!!

 

[Cypher]

You mention that she's fit and sexy. Maybe she noticed some of the other women at the gym sporting the clean look and decided to give it a try. Just giving her the benefit of the doubt.

Thread has moved so fast, my first reply was outdated before I pushed send. I was thinking possibly the same thing as HG, peer pressure, but that leans toward wishful thinking. This may seem out of left field, but just this year my friend's ex switched teams at age 45. She dropped her 2nd husband and now lives with the other woman.
But why speculate? It really sounds like the intimacy and communication between you and your wife is lacking. Time to open up to her first. I know that's easier said than done. My marriage failed because of a lack of effort and candor on my part.