Have any of you guys had an escort or massage girl hit you up with a fake crisis story to get some money from you? It has happened to me twice now,I am embarrassed to say and it is making me very cynical about SP's generally.
One girl, a dancer that I had exchanged phone nos with, texted me that she needed a bus ticket to get back from Montreal as she was broke. When I texted back that I would buy the ticket she then asked me for money (which I gave) to pay rent on an apartment that I later learned she does not have! I later learned as well that she did not even use the bus ticket that I bought her! After that she called me once at 5 in the morning,and left a message sounding all teary and whiney, and saying she was in a bad situation. I did not call back, as I am sure she would be claiming to be stranded somewhere again. A few days later she was calling me from an Ottawa number so she obviously made it home! She gave me a fake email address, and stood me up for lunch as well!
The other girl is one I met at a massage joint and she became my favourite regular. Then she sent me a text at 2:00 in the morning asking me to call her as soon as I got the message, and left a voice mail as well which I could not understand because she was (pretending) crying alot.
So i called her and she told me that her twin sister had just died the night before in Europe, AND, her roomates had stolen all her cash, AND she did not want to ask her mother for the money for plane fare so could I please lend her $100.00; as soon as I said yes she then upped it to $700.00! I felt from the start that this had to be bullshit, but at this point was emotionally involved with her to the point that I could not refuse. She was very cagey about where we would meet and showed up in shabby clothes and sunglasses on a rainy day. She kept up the crying act, but I could tell it was fake.
This has definitely taught me that girls in this business care nothing for us clients other than as targets for cash. If they sense they can rip you off they will, since that is an easier way of getting money. For some of them, setting you up emotionally for the big sting is the plan from the beginning!
I have also noticed that alot of dancers tell you the same stories to make you more sympathetic to spending money: She is saving up to go back to school, and she just broke up with her boyfriend.
I have not decided whether to give up this hobby entirely, or just to avoid becoming a regular of any one SP or dancer; as well, I would not exchange phone nos with any more girls!
Anyone else have a similarly embarrasing tale? It feels good for me just to share this!
One girl, a dancer that I had exchanged phone nos with, texted me that she needed a bus ticket to get back from Montreal as she was broke. When I texted back that I would buy the ticket she then asked me for money (which I gave) to pay rent on an apartment that I later learned she does not have! I later learned as well that she did not even use the bus ticket that I bought her! After that she called me once at 5 in the morning,and left a message sounding all teary and whiney, and saying she was in a bad situation. I did not call back, as I am sure she would be claiming to be stranded somewhere again. A few days later she was calling me from an Ottawa number so she obviously made it home! She gave me a fake email address, and stood me up for lunch as well!
The other girl is one I met at a massage joint and she became my favourite regular. Then she sent me a text at 2:00 in the morning asking me to call her as soon as I got the message, and left a voice mail as well which I could not understand because she was (pretending) crying alot.
So i called her and she told me that her twin sister had just died the night before in Europe, AND, her roomates had stolen all her cash, AND she did not want to ask her mother for the money for plane fare so could I please lend her $100.00; as soon as I said yes she then upped it to $700.00! I felt from the start that this had to be bullshit, but at this point was emotionally involved with her to the point that I could not refuse. She was very cagey about where we would meet and showed up in shabby clothes and sunglasses on a rainy day. She kept up the crying act, but I could tell it was fake.
This has definitely taught me that girls in this business care nothing for us clients other than as targets for cash. If they sense they can rip you off they will, since that is an easier way of getting money. For some of them, setting you up emotionally for the big sting is the plan from the beginning!
I have also noticed that alot of dancers tell you the same stories to make you more sympathetic to spending money: She is saving up to go back to school, and she just broke up with her boyfriend.
I have not decided whether to give up this hobby entirely, or just to avoid becoming a regular of any one SP or dancer; as well, I would not exchange phone nos with any more girls!
Anyone else have a similarly embarrasing tale? It feels good for me just to share this!