Specific meaning of "GFE" in toronto

[zenosarrow11]

I'm making my first trip to Toronto soon. Down her in Virginia the term GFE has deteriorated to the point it means you get vaginal intercourse, and implies nothing else.

I get the impression that it means a bit more in Toronto, although I know my MMV.

I talked to Cupids and, while they couldn't say outright, they seemed to imply that it meant DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and intercourse, which I assume would be covered (I'm not interested in BBFS).

Other agencies advertise certain girls as "full GFE" or "safe GFE". If anyone could enlighten me on if the term has more specific meaning in Toronto than it does in the 'states I'd appreciate it.

Thanks!!

 

[PokeyJer]

Full GFE would be what you posted DFK, BBBJ,DATY etc
Safe GFE would most likely be CBJ and possible restrictions on Kissing perhaps no DFK

It's all YMMV as usual but at a minimum Safe GFE = CBJ IMHO

 

[speedmetal]

I'm making my first trip to Toronto soon. Down her in Virginia the term GFE has deteriorated to the point it means you get vaginal intercourse, and implies nothing else.

I get the impression that it means a bit more in Toronto, although I know my MMV.

I talked to Cupids and, while they couldn't say outright, they seemed to imply that it meant DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and intercourse, which I assume would be covered (I'm not interested in BBFS).

Other agencies advertise certain girls as "full GFE" or "safe GFE". If anyone could enlighten me on if the term has more specific meaning in Toronto than it does in the 'states I'd appreciate it.

Thanks!!

Uhhh I don't think you would find BBFS on any SP's menu

 

[zenosarrow11]

Uhhh I don't think you would find BBFS on any SP's menu

...and a good thing that is.

 

[Riley.Royal]

There is no true meaning of GFE, GFE label was determined by men here to put women in categories.

 

[freespirit]

Wow, keeping digging that hole Riley.

Have fun in China.

 

[nolabel]

There is no true meaning of GFE, GFE label was determined by men here to put women in categories.

You're right that GFE varies a bit, there's no doubt about that, but as posters above note, there's general enough agreement about the basics (DFK, BBBJ, CFS). But rather than guys boxing women in, maybe it would be more useful if you kept in mind that guys also want to make reasonable judgments about what kind of experiences they might want. That's why it's always available to you just to write Safe GFE if you're not comfortable with GFE alone. As guys on Terb note all the time, many want Safe GFE. Categories do not have to box anyone in if we keep in mind that providing information works for both clients and SP's.

 

[roblestone]

Along with kissing, bj and full service I think GFE also means the SP pretends to like you, cuddles etc. She is not mechanical, clock watching and aloof.

 

[Meister]

There is no true meaning of GFE, GFE label was determined by men here to put women in categories.

Actually if you think about the acronym it is girlfriend experience. Now I know you may not have had a girlfriend in the past, but all the (longer term) girlfriends that i had were into dfk, bbbj, daty.... I am sure most other guys can concur. If you ever had a girlfriend who would only do intercourse (with a condom), she would probably be not a girlfriend for very long.

 

[nolabel]

That's so logically sound it's scary to think anyone would dissent.

 

[poker]

Full GFE would be what you posted DFK, BBBJ,DATY etc
Safe GFE would most likely be CBJ and possible restrictions on Kissing perhaps no DFK

It's all YMMV as usual but at a minimum Safe GFE = CBJ IMHO

That hits the basics...

Remember, we're not trying to box anyone in with labels.... Its just a term we use that helps us understand what to expect... If I read that Chanikwa the Cheetah is full out GFE, and Handy Mandy is a Safe GFE, well I know what to expect if I book either of them, to a point.

If I'm totally into the BBBJ and love DFK..... or perhaps I have an SO, and I'm paraniod about bringing something home, but I still want a li'l somethin on the side.

I find its a great tool to get this info out, without going into every detail of time I spend with the ladies... Even though the ladies PM and beg me to post every single intimate detail of our encounters for strangers to read in a public forum... (you know, what she did, how she did it, how i felt about her doing that.... that way.) I prefer simple acronyms.

And the GFE label has been around longer than some of girls on this board have been alive....

Cheers!

 

[Medman52]

I thought it meant there would be some passionate kissing going on.

 

[Brill]

It's completely meaningless since there isn't an agreed definition. Same with PSE.
With GFE Safe you know a little bit more, that the bj is covered.

If you're looking for something specific, check her menu or ask her and read the reviews.

 

[Questor]

Perhaps meaningless to some. But I think its meaning has been outlined above by other posters. I certainly understand what it means.

 

[GDLLover]

I thought it meant there would be some passionate kissing going on.

Kissing has more to do with chemistry.

LFK or DFK is more to do with SPs menu/comfort level.

 

[Brill]

Perhaps meaningless to some. But I think its meaning has been outlined above by other posters. I certainly understand what it means.

Are you having sex with those other posters?
If the definition isn't the same with the woman you're contacting, it's not only a meaningless term but it will leave one of you disappointed. I've seen women use it for various menus.

 

[nolabel]

It's completely meaningless since there isn't an agreed definition. Same with PSE.

You and I probably won't agree on a precise definition of what makes Brill Brill. But I would hope you would agree that fact doesn't make who you are "completely meaningless"? Exact replica of definitions is not required for there to be meaning conveyed, though I of course take your point that if client and SP do use the terms in precisely the same way, they each know where the other stands. It seems more useful to not push for the exact replica condition, and to realize 'broadly accurate' is more feasible and thus worthwhile. Note most see the elementary distinction between GFE and Safe GFE (they're not getting hung up on exact replica)?

 

[sleazure]

In a review, it probably means a good time was had by all. In an ad, it's just hype, no more honest than saying that the girl is young and beautiful.

 

[poker]

Kissing has more to do with chemistry.

LFK or DFK is more to do with SPs menu/comfort level.

= GFE Varies.


Cheers!

 

[69Shooter]

= GFE Varies.


Cheers!

= It really means nothing at all! It's always YMMV, "NO means No" (which I am in complete agreement with) and "your only paying for time and companionship". Personally, I prefer to read a list of what an SP won't do as opposed to what she will do. You won't be dissapointed very often relying on the former.