I find this pretty disrespectful.

[wickedone]

I pm an sp from the other board and ask if she would be willing to offer a half hour.

Now on her ad she says sorry, no half hours. However a while back when I enquired about her rates, she replied with a half and an hour rate, even though at the time she did have the no half hour thing on her ad. Okay great.

So this time around I pm her and ask do you still offer half hour sessions? Christmas is kind of taking its toll financially and I don't have as much money to 'play' with.

Well, that was a week ago, and no response. I wouldn't be upset if she replied with a 'no, I don't offer half hours'; that is her perrogative and far be it for me to question it. However her lack of response altogether is simply rude. Even a quick 'no' would be fine. All I have heard is how nice and great this girl is. However, even if I had all the money in the world I wouldn't book with her now. And she has been on the board a good bit so it is not for lack of seeing the pm I would think.

Same reason why I always at least acknowledge a panhandler downtown. Whether I give them anything or not, I always say something. People are people, and we should all be treated with at least a minimum of respect and courtesy.

Anyway, maybe I am overblowing this. I don't know. Lack of respect just annoys me.

 

[out4fun]

Move along. No big deal.

 

[Brill]

Perhaps she knows that you asked the same question twice? I don't know.

She's probably tired of repeating what's in her ad. Anyway, it's hard to read each other through emails or PMs sometime, it's easy to misjudge or misunderstand. It's probably best to move on to another one.

 

[o-dog]

She says she doesn't offer 30 mins and you ask about a 30 min appt...who's showing disrespect?

 

[pencilneckgeek2]

Suck it up, princess. Move on.

 

[Tip-Drill]

I've often wondered about the wisdom of going into a 30-minute session. It's true that some ladies offer such services but that doesn't mean that it's their first choice by a long shot and it's unlikely they can provide the best quality of service in such a short time. That's why I tend to discount negative reviews that are based on 30-minute sessions. It seems to me that any lady appreciates being respected for who she is and that just can't be achieved in less than an hour. As for myself, I believe that 2-hour sessions are the best for getting to know the lady at a more personal and human level and showing some "respect" for who she is as a person.

The above are my personal opinions, of course, and others may disagree. But as I see it 30-minute "get it up and get out of here" sessions are not the way to go. Better to have one intimate and respectful 2-hour session than four 30-minute quickies in my opinion. Please don't crucify me for saying that though!

 

[calloway]

She gave you an answer... move on.

She does have the right to change her rules/policies... it's her body.

 

[o-dog]

If you're low on cash, don't have a lot of time, and have already established a connection, then I'd be ok with doing a 30 min appt. Think I only did that once and it still turned into an hour once we got to talking.

The way I look at it, doing those 15/30 min sessions with a girl I don't know makes me feel that I am treating them like a whore in the negative sense. But some people can look at it as any other type of service and they're alright with it.

 

[stevieray]

Well, maybe I`m going against the grain here, but i tend to agree, she should at least acknowlege your enquiry, even with just a simple `no`. Or make reference to her ad about no 1/2 hrs., whatever. It`s kinda like someone about to board a city bus that has, lets say, `downtown` on the sign, and the guy still asks, `do you go downtown?`. The driver can either ignore him, say something smart like `no einstien, I going to fucking Cuba, what do you think?`, or he can do the professional thing and confirm, `Yes, I`m going downtown`. Just my $.02.

 

[rayden]

I've often wondered about the wisdom of going into a 30-minute session. It's true that some ladies offer such services but that doesn't mean that it's their first choice by a long shot and it's unlikely they can provide the best quality of service in such a short time. That's why I tend to discount negative reviews that are based on 30-minute sessions. It seems to me that any lady appreciates being respected for who she is and that just can't be achieved in less than an hour. As for myself, I believe that 2-hour sessions are the best for getting to know the lady at a more personal and human level and showing some "respect" for who she is as a person.

The above are my personal opinions, of course, and others may disagree. But as I see it 30-minute "get it up and get out of here" sessions are not the way to go. Better to have one intimate and respectful 2-hour session than four 30-minute quickies in my opinion. Please don't crucify me for saying that though!

Tip Drill 75% of my sessions are 30 minute sessions and I wouldn't have it any other way. I could not stand it and would feel confined if I had to have 2 hour sessions. I don't mind an hour, but more than that I loose interest.

Some of us do not go to SP's for companionship and conversation. I admit, I am strictly in it for the sex and variety without any strings attached. Having said that, it's different strokes for different folks, so hobby as you see fit, as long as it's fun it's all good.

 

[o-dog]

Well, maybe I`m going against the grain here, but i tend to agree, she should at least acknowlege your enquiry, even with just a simple `no`. Or make reference to her ad about no 1/2 hrs., whatever. It`s kinda like someone about to board a city bus that has, lets say, `downtown` on the sign, and the guy still asks, `do you go downtown?`. The driver can either ignore him, say something smart like `no einstien, I going to fucking Cuba, what do you think?`, or he can do the professional thing and confirm, `Yes, I`m going downtown`. Just my $.02.

Now take that same driver and ask him that same question 40 times in one shift, meanwhile throw in a few other guys inbetween asking him if he'll shit in their mouth or can I fuck your mother? And some of those guys were at the stop saying they'll get on the bus, but never do -they just stand there with their pants at their ankles and talking for 2 minutes.

 

[Tip-Drill]

Tip Drill 75% of my sessions are 30 minute sessions and I wouldn't have it any other way. I could not stand it and would feel confined if I had to have 2 hour sessions. I don't mind an hour, but more than that I loose interest.

Some of us do not go to SP's for companionship and conversation. I admit, I am strictly in it for the sex and variety without any strings attached. Having said that, it's different strokes for different folks, so hobby as you see fit, as long as it's fun it's all good.

An excellent post, Rayden, and I sincerely respect and admire your forthright reply. Different strokes for different folks indeed, as you indicated. I wasn't intending to be patronizing in any way, I was just expressing how I personally feel in my own mind and now you have expressed how you yourself feel in your own mind. That's the good thing about these forums, we can get a better understanding of how other people feel and learn from them. One thing is certain though, quickie 30-minute sessions are probably very good for avoiding any possible emotional attachment to the SPs which, as I see it, can be a major problem in this business.

Based on what you've said I think I'm inclined to experiment with some 30-minute sessions for my own education! Yaya here I come lol!

Anyway, thanks for not crucifying me lol!

 

[Anynym]

Who are you to judge how she handles the boatload of correspondence she might receive in a day?

I mean sure, she probably doesn't respond to the ads for Viagra and penis enlargement, and she probably does respond to the ads which she considers to be serious, but somewhere in between there's gotta be a bit of grey.

Unless, of course, you identified yourself as Brad Pitt. In which case I'm sure she knew it was just more spam clogging her day.

 

[stevieray]

Now take that same driver and ask him that same question 40 times in one shift, meanwhile throw in a few other guys inbetween asking him if he'll shit in their mouth or can I fuck your mother? And some of those guys were at the stop saying they'll get on the bus, but never do -they just stand there with their pants at their ankles and talking for 2 minutes.

Gee, that sounds like the same losers that were at my bus stop the other day....... lol

 

[ekimout]

You said that you sent her a PM through the other board. That's different than one of the countless anonymous e-mails she would receive. She actually has some info on you as a member, and should have just sent a simple reply.

"No"

"I'm not offering that anymore"

"I don't offer that, sorry"

Yeah, I can see how hard it was to come up with those.

Just move on.

 

[kih]

Possible your private message was never read. Did you request a read receipt?

 

[TRman]

That is a great movie avitar thing

Well done. One of the best i have seen.

She gave you an answer... move on.

She does have the right to change her rules/policies... it's her body.

 

[Cobra Enorme]

maybe she didnt get your pm. did you try pming again? I cant imagine why anyone would turn down your money, you seem like a fun guy to hang out with.

 

[GlavaMan]

I have had SP's on cerb not reply to my PM. Not a big deal, I just move along to another provider. I also had a well-known SP here on Terb that was coming to Ottawa from out of town. I had an appoinment booked via email & she was to let me know the hotel details when she got here. I didn't receive an email with hotel details so I emailed her again to ask for them. I never heard back. Not a big deal, I just move along. No point in taking it personally or being offended by lack of corespondence, this is supposed to be about having fun!