From great to amazing: suggestions?

[genintoronto]

Inspired by this thread in the SC section, I thought it could be interesting to hear your suggestions to SPs for transforming a great experience into an amazing one.

To keep it productive and useful, lets stay away from suggestions such as "increase your menu", "drop your rates", and/or "clean your cooch".

So, aside from hygiene and acronyms, and assuming you are offering your suggestions to those SPs who are interested in offering you a great experience within their comfort zone, what are the little (or not so little) details that transform an OK experience into an amazing ones?

 

[doggee_01]

i really don't know how to answer that. apart from the obvious actually doing what is advertised gfe/pse/etc etc not trying to upsell services and arriving nicely dressed and fresh maybe with nice lingerie,
i guess the most important is personality and that you can't teach -if a lady has the right personality the session usually goes to amazing.....things usually get better second or third time of meeting

 

[Samurai Joey]

Hi gen. It is very difficult to come up with good recommendations that can transform an OK experience to an amazing experience because so much what a client thinks is amazing really depends on his/her tastes in terms of who he/she is attracted to, as well as what specific services the SP offers and if there is a "chemistry" that develops. There are also differences between regulars and newbies as well.

Nevertheless, here are a few suggestions that I could suggest (I suspect that you may already do these):

1. Start off with a little chit-chat to set up a friendly mood (but do not talk too long!) I often find that women who are articulate and enjoy a little pleasant conversation seem so much more attractive, and it helps to develop a little chemistry, which translates into great fun in the bedroom!

2. Try not to be a clock watcher. I understand that time is important in case of other appointments and such, but really every SP should be able to schedule their appointments so that there should be some wiggle room for clients.

3. For new clients who may seem a little nervous, smile often and hug them to help them relax.

4. Assuming that the client is hygienic and does not reek of bad breath, tobacco, or other odour problems, I would greatly suggest kissing (whether LFK or DFK), assuming that is within their comfort zone.

I hope this was helpful.

Samurai Joey

 

[Gomer123]

Take it in the butt.






Well seriously, I think it's all in the attitude. But then my SP experience (MP as well, for that matter) is very limited.

 

[SlitherySOB]

Hate to repeat, but the attitude makes the difference between a good and a great experience. Yes, more options available can make a good experience better, but I'd rather have an SP who I see, great attitude, great smile, gives the entire room an aura of happiness, and she offers a cbj and fs only, then an SP who offers bbbjcim, cof, greek, rimming, etc, is even more beautiful than the first SP, and the attitude is like that of a robot.
Chemistry as well, which can't be controlled. That first woman can give me a great experience because we just clicked. For another person, even with her same attitude, the experience for them may only be so-so.

 

[GDLLover]

Many things can contribute to a great session, it all boils down to both parties putting in an effort to have fun and enjoy each others company.

Here's some ideas:
a) Incalls should all have mouth wash available. This helps the lady relax a little more and gives the guy more confidence there is no bad breath issue.

b) Hate to repeat but attitude to want to have a good time is paramount.

c) Ladies that take a light hearted playfull approach make it easy to enjoy.

d) Light body caresses during pillow talk. This only happened once to me, the lady warned me she just likes to do it. While distracting at first a really nice touch to make you feel closer without any sexual activity.

 

[nolabel]

Gain their confidence.

Coax out of the client his hopes and fears about the time together. Make him feel liberated in telling you. The closer he feels to you, the better for you (less likely to treat as inhuman, etc), and the better for him (relaxed and excited, the best combo). Be prepared to do what's called "reinforce and redirect". Thus . . . he tells you hopes/desires, and you reinforce what you'll accomodate (being gentle about what you won't), and then you redirect to fears, and open him up a bit; he tells you fears, and you reinforce his hope that the fears are unfounded, and you redirect to the positives.

Basic psychological conditioning. Sounds manipulative, but it's therapy if used with good intentions. You already know all the acronym-related stuff and the value of attitude, etc, so just throwing something different into the mix.

If you can do this in under 10 mins and then knock his socks off in the bedroom (or wherever), he's like any guy, he'll come back.

 

[calloway]

Sex is great... but the overall experience is what makes it amazing.

Professionalism during the booking process... quality of incall location and amenities (towels, soap, hot water pressure, cleanliness)... room temperature, music and lighting (candles... hopefully lit) bottled water, soft drink offered... impeccable hygiene... respect... the need for great acting if necessary... sincere... caring service... and a farewell kiss/hug at the door.

My most memorable "amazing" experiences were when I never felt there was a business transaction.

 

[tboy]

Well, I have to agree with Joey up there: to me, chemistry is just about the MOST important thing to make a session go from "good" to "wonderful".

It has been a while since I've been with Gen and due to things happening here on terb, don't know if I ever will again, but to me, the times I spent with her were awesome because we seemed to get along more like lovers as opposed to a customer/sp.

My ATF who has retired was fantastic simply because she truly seemed to want to be there with me. There are two now that I see (semi) regularly and with both, there is a connection that has nothing to do with sex. The sex is great because of that connection.

I hope (if she reads this) she won't be PO'd at me but just recently one sp said to me: I don't normally come with a client, why do I with you? I think it is because I really care about her, and I think she (at least a little) cares about me. THAT, to me, makes it happen.

 

[blank_dave]

3. For new clients who may seem a little nervous, smile often and hug them to help them relax.

This is one suggestion that could back fire, IMO. I'm inclined to be nervous and have personal space issues, so a hug could have the exact opposite results. Now we all know Genevieve greets her guests with a kiss on the cheek. Something like this could have increased my anxiety if a) I hadn't already known it was coming, b) I hadn't already been chatting to her via PM. What I found settled me more were her subtler touches, where she would touch the back of my hand, wrist, or knee whilst talking.

But the points I most agree with....

c) Ladies that take a light hearted playfull approach make it easy to enjoy.

d) Light body caresses during pillow talk. This only happened once to me, the lady warned me she just likes to do it. While distracting at first a really nice touch to make you feel closer without any sexual activity.

Now that sounds delicious.

My most memorable "amazing" experiences were when I never felt there was a business transaction.

It has been a while since I've been with Gen and due to things happening here on terb, don't know if I ever will again, but to me, the times I spent with her were awesome because we seemed to get along more like lovers as opposed to a customer/sp.

Calloway and tboy hit the nail on the head here. Now, I'm not where as experienced as others here, but when you feel like you've just spent some time with a lover, rather than receiving a service then you've hit the right spot.

 

[smylee52]

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The easiest thing an SP can do is "close the gap " . If at anytime during the session an Sp is more than an arm's length away from me she loses points for chemistry . The best sessions are with the ladies that greet you at the door with a nice smile and at least a handshake .Many make the mistake of letting you in and then walking away towards the bed or bedroom .

The good ones stay close and walk you to where you will disrobe and provide the donation .

Next they offer a shower and actually walk you to the bathroom and point out the mouthwash for your convenience and which of the plastic containers has the body wash . Best service is when they start the water and get it to the right temperature . Caring and classy . Of course this is the Non Asian version becasue they generally get in the shower with you but it isn't required for a superior session and there are probably guys who would rather shower on their own .

The good Sp is waiting outside the door for the end of your shower. If the door is open she steps in and takes your towel to dry you off . Point being she acts like she wants to be with you every minute of your time together .

When it comes to the sex kissing is critical to the superior session for some hobbyists but not required or even entertained by others so the SP needs to figure out what works for each guy.

Silence during sex is not fun . SP should be moaning ang groaning when pleasure centres are stimulated . Save the fake stuff . when hobbyists tries daty, dato or digits just move his tongue or finger away if you aren't into it rather than listing your restrictions . Never let him see you glancing at the clock .

After the client cums don't treat his juice or his dick like it is toxic waste . After intercourse allow a minute of him relaxing inside you before getting off or moving way. If you are a spitter them suck him dry before slowly moving to the bathroom .


A nice little cuddle after orgasm is nice followed by an offer for a cool down shower. Walk client to the shower and repeat opening shower ritual with running of the water to the right temp . . Dry client off when he gets out and maintain closeness by walking him back to where his clothes are .

Not necessary to help him get dressed but maintain that less than arm's length closeness and engage in normal conversation .

Walk him to the door and thank him for coming to see you maybe a last squeeze of his package , a kiss , a hug and he's on his way .
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[Rockslinger]

Personally, I value the "preamble" and the "postamble" off the clock. Although some guys claim otherwise, I think that every minute spent with an SP is on the meter. Not so with many (but not all) SC dancers.

 

[Amanda_kirby]

Being psychic...

I have a book on this somewhere (hah, what subject DON'T I have a book on)...I'll start working on honing this skill...

 

[Vegas]

I like to be surprised. Bring up something you want to try or really enjoy and ask me if I'm up for it ... maybe find something to get me out of my comfort zone.

I hadn't thought much about watching myself in a mirror with an SP until I was told she was into it.

 

[marikiss]

Being genuine is important, feeling as if the lady isn't selling her time or menu but genuinly wants you there genuinly wants you to take advantage of the full menu offered. everyone wants to feel wanted.

Managing expectations, making sure the guy understands what's not on the menu is important so he doesn't feel disappointed or rejected. but also exceding his expectations, for example: say your rate is $250 an hour for the full menu, but in your head or figuring out what you want your rate to be adjust it so $250/hr is listed but have it in your mind that you're offering 70 min that way the guy thinks he's getting something extra or special. And/or leave something you do/like off the advertised menu. for example CIM offer COF COB etc but when the time comes for a pop offer to eat it or whatever. the idea behind all this is to make the client feel like he's getting something extra special the whole time you may know that these things are on the schedule but he doesn't and it adds a wow factor.

 

[rgkv]

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[blowfelt]

Great to amazing

I agree with Calloway. His and the other posts differentiate a courtesan from a provider.

A courtesan is focused on you and does it so well it appears genuine. There is a connection beyond good physical release.

Many of us have limited experience at this, and are not hobby fiends. We seek great experiences on an occasional basis.

A provider may provide great service and fun, but it tends to be more mechanical and gives the appearance of a lack of experience. That doesn't mean bad, just different.

This is where lying about age might actually work. If an SP says she is 27 and I can add 5-10 on that, I can bet I am more likely to get a courtesan experience. If an SP is truly 22, I can expect a provider experience. If I was 22 it might be different, and is likely a function of my age and experiences as much as the providers.

That is not meant as a slight on the younger providers. It seems most seek the younger spinner types so I may be in the minority anyway.

If I am paying, I seek the amazing experience. If I could provide it, maybe I wouldn't be paying. I can only make up for my weaknsesses with cash and by treating the lady with respect and being a gentleman. I sympathize with the SPs who have to provide that connection and the challenges each day that brings. They have to have their game face on all the time.

I think Gen and her Pink crew may have this more figured out than most. I haven't seen any of them yet so that is a guess on my part, but you don't see bad reviews of these ladies at all. And, just the fact that Gen asks the question indicates an interest in improving the experience.

 

[calloway]

Say hello when I come in the door

What do they normally do with you? Leave?

 

[GDLLover]

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I think Gen and her Pink crew may have this more figured out than most. I haven't seen any of them yet so that is a guess on my part, but you don't see bad reviews of these ladies at all. And, just the fact that Gen asks the question indicates an interest in improving the experience.

Your 100% correct on this, they give the full experience. Sex is great, but there is more to it than that. There is a true interest to make sure were happy. I will add that the feeling of the sessions is more of a close friend sharing, taking the GFE to the next level.

If you haven't seen any of them, start setting up an appointment with your chosen lady and you won't be sorry.

 

[blank_dave]

If you haven't seen any of them, start setting up an appointment with your chosen lady and you won't be sorry.

Can't agree more. Time well spent.