The Ask-A-Hooker Thread

[Rockslinger]

I do pay attention to how a client is dressed, to his shoes, to his hands, etc.

Dear Miss Hooker,
How are most clients dressed when they are standing at the door? Suit and tie? Jeans and shirt? Do most of them wear a "Coors Light" baseball cap ? Would you like a free "Coors Light" baseball cap? Curious minds would like to know.

 

[genintoronto]

Dear Miss Hooker,
How are most clients dressed when they are standing at the door? Suit and tie? Jeans and shirt? Do most of them wear a "Coors Light" baseball cap ? Would you like a free "Coors Light" baseball cap? Curious minds would like to know.

Since I'm only working incalls downtown, typically during daytime and early evenings on week days, most of my clients tend to be business men and professionals taking a "lunch" break from their work day: therefore, most are dressed either business casual or in a suit.

 

[smylee52]

Thanks Smylee. I just replied in the thread.

I'm really honored to be playing in one of your movie. They are so dirty in a hilarious kind of way. I loved it.

Thanks for making me laugh today.

Always a pleasure to put a smile on a lady's face . You are most welcome .

 

[smylee52]

How have I not seen these yet? Smylee, you rock



I don't know but this was number 4 in the series . I'm happy to hear you find them entertaining .

 

[moresex4me]

Track pants? Seriously this thread has been reduced to talking about wearing track pants?

I wore dressy jeans and a nice golf shirt once (sorry Kyra) and felt fairly self-conscious until we got nekkid. It's like Gen said, you're going to an intimate encounter with a lady, don't dress like a schlub.

And track pants are for lounging at home or working out in. They do not constitute proper dress for stepping out in public. IMHO. Right up there with Crocs, actually.

Smylee, why is my SO or one of my kids always around when you post your little videos?

 

[Twinklegirl]

Track pants? Seriously this thread has been reduced to talking about wearing track pants?

I wore dressy jeans and a nice golf shirt once (sorry Kyra) and felt fairly self-conscious until we got nekkid. It's like Gen said, you're going to an intimate encounter with a lady, don't dress like a schlub.

And track pants are for lounging at home or working out in. They do not constitute proper dress for stepping out in public. IMHO. Right up there with Crocs, actually.

Smylee, why is my SO or one of my kids always around when you post your little videos?

I think it depends on where you are. I am not in Toronto. My city is more of a working class, so I get clients in suits, in construction clothes, city workers...you name it. (so far no police uniforms. lol) Sometimes if they come after their sporting event, they'll be in sweat pants or their baseball uniform etc. I don't care as long as they are clean.

 

[Rockslinger]

in construction clothes,

Don't you love those huge "X" reflectors on the back of their overalls? I see that at CB all the time, even when they go into the darkness known as the VIP you can still see those reflectors.

 

[Samurai Joey]

Well, here are some of my questions for the ladies

I have not been posting very much recently, but I figure I'll pose some of my questions for the ladies here (forgive me if these have been asked already, I have not looked at all of the posts on this thread):

(1) I am curious as to how you first started out to work as an SP. After all, it's not as if people dream of or plan on becoming SPs while they are growing up. Also, do most of you work as SP only on a part-time basis, while holding down other employment?

(2) I am curious as to whether any of your friends or family know that you work as an SP.

(3) I am curious as to whether you afraid that any of you friends or family will find out that you work as an SP.

Those are my questions for now. Thanks!

Samurai Joey

 

[genintoronto]

I have not been posting very much recently, but I figure I'll pose some of my questions for the ladies here (forgive me if these have been asked already, I have not looked at all of the posts on this thread):

(1) I am curious as to how you first started out to work as an SP. After all, it's not as if people dream of or plan on becoming SPs while they are growing up. Also, do most of you work as SP only on a part-time basis, while holding down other employment?

(2) I am curious as to whether any of your friends or family know that you work as an SP.

(3) I am curious as to whether you afraid that any of you friends or family will find out that you work as an SP.

I think all of those questions have been asked and answered already indeed, but the thread is so long now, I too can't be bothered to go back to find my answers to them. So here it is again:

1) I was eating ramen noodles (only thing I could afford at the time), while doing school work on my computer *cough cough* searching for porn *cough cough* when it hit me: I don't like ramen noodles, but I do like sex, and I'm good at it. So why not use the later to avoid the former?

From there, I started doing research on my different options and sex work in general, and after a few days of reading, I called Jillian @ Cupids and the rest is history.

I escort only part time, a few days a week. I also have another job (which doesn't pay much) and I'm in school full time.

2) A few close friends know, not many.

3) I'm not particularly afraid that they will find out, as I am careful to not let it happen.

 

[calloway]

Knowing that every woman is different... what general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques?

 

[moresex4me]

Knowing that every woman is different... what general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques?

Kyra? Kyra? This one was served up for you... you'll have to tell the chiclet in a baggie story...

 

[smylee52]

Smylee, why is my SO or one of my kids always around when you post your little videos?

Shit. Sorry . I forgot to post the warning that there is sound . You aren't the first to mention this . I hope to remember if I do another one .

 

[moresex4me]

Shit. Sorry . I forgot to post the warning that there is sound . You aren't the first to mention this . I hope to remember if I do another one .

No problem. I was alone when I saw the first one so I knew. I was complaining more about not being able to view them because of the sound. My kids are young, so when I'm home, my SO and kids are almost always home as well.

I guess I'll have to use earphones!

 

[genintoronto]

Knowing that every woman is different... what general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques?

My own likes and dislikes:

• Show some enthusiasm.
• Voice your appreciation for what you see.
• Know your work area, and don't be afraid to move from one section to another.
• There's more to cunnilingus than only licking. Mix it up a little: licking, sucking, light biting (I said LIGHT biting), nibbling, etc. Mix up the intensity and the pace too.
• Don't be afraid to dig in: if your chin and nose aren't glistening in pussy juice by the end of it, you are not doing it right.
• Pay attention to her body reaction: if she pushes her hips in your face, it probably means you're doing something right. Carry on. If she starts breathing heavily, same thing. If she just lay there without much of a reaction, it's time to try something else.
• If she will let you do so, and of course, if your hand/fingers are impeccably clean and well manicured, add some finger-banging action. Tip: slowly bring your hand/fingers closer to the area: if she moves your hand away, you'll know the fingers aren't welcome. If she let you go, proceed more closely to your intended goal.
• On finger-banging: I personally find that one finger isn't enough, 2 decent size male fingers is good, three is better. Here again, mix it up to find what she likes: maybe it's deep and fast banging, maybe it's the crochet-like technique to get to her G-spot, or a combination of both, or something else. Pay attention to her body reaction.
• While it is expected that a little bit of your spit will mix with her own juice, try avoiding drenching her in your spit. I personally don't like feeling spit running down my butt-crack, but it might just be me.
• Be closely shaved.
• You're not a dog. Don't lick it like you are one.
• Breathing is over-rated. Breath through your nose or ears if need be.
• If she has a vibe/dildo, it's fun to include it in the action.

 

[calloway]

You are an amazing woman Genevieve... truly one of a kind.

Ever thought about having your own sex show on TV or radio?

My own likes and dislikes:

• Don't be afraid to dig in: if your chin and nose aren't glistening in pussy juice by the end of it, you are not doing it right.
• You're not a dog. Don't lick it like you are one.

 

[Rockslinger]

My own likes and dislikes:

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  Thanks Gen, I wrote all that down in permanent ink on the back of my left hand. BTW Should I remove my "Coors Light" baseball cap too ?

 

[sleazure]

hehe, the peak will prolly get in the way if you don't at least turn it around backward

 

[jimmydean007]

oki got one,a friend of mine is a peeler at one of the trinity clubs. the other day a guy took her friend into the vip and did the deed and then didnt pay her. staff did nothing and the guy walked out. is this common? guys takes service and doesnt pay? nothing happens? i was surprised.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Kyra? Kyra? This one was served up for you... you'll have to tell the chiclet in a baggie story...

I'm being lazy and the story is too long to type out, I will however share the 'tip'. Oh and it's a tic-tac.

If you want to DATY well you can do exercises to strengthen your tongue and jaw you might want to try these -

Eat a sucker - try getting one like a chupa chups (the sphere) and when you have it in your mouth circle your tongue on it and keep circling for as long as you can.

Eat a peach or plum - try sucking on it instead of biting. When the fleshy bits come off in your mouth keep sucking on it until you reach the pit then use your tongue - no hands - to loosen and remove the pit.

Put a tic-tac in a ziplock baggie - try sucking on it and getting it from one side of the baggie to another, think of sucking it through the baggie if at all possible.

I was given these tips a few years ago from a well known sex educator and they really will help strengthen your mouth for some long and intense DATY.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

My own likes and dislikes:

• Show some enthusiasm.
• Voice your appreciation for what you see.
• Know your work area, and don't be afraid to move from one section to another.
• There's more to cunnilingus than only licking. Mix it up a little: licking, sucking, light biting (I said LIGHT biting), nibbling, etc. Mix up the intensity and the pace too.
• Don't be afraid to dig in: if your chin and nose aren't glistening in pussy juice by the end of it, you are not doing it right.
• Pay attention to her body reaction: if she pushes her hips in your face, it probably means you're doing something right. Carry on. If she starts breathing heavily, same thing. If she just lay there without much of a reaction, it's time to try something else.
• If she will let you do so, and of course, if your hand/fingers are impeccably clean and well manicured, add some finger-banging action. Tip: slowly bring your hand/fingers closer to the area: if she moves your hand away, you'll know the fingers aren't welcome. If she let you go, proceed more closely to your intended goal.
• On finger-banging: I personally find that one finger isn't enough, 2 decent size male fingers is good, three is better. Here again, mix it up to find what she likes: maybe it's deep and fast banging, maybe it's the crochet-like technique to get to her G-spot, or a combination of both, or something else. Pay attention to her body reaction.
• While it is expected that a little bit of your spit will mix with her own juice, try avoiding drenching her in your spit. I personally don't like feeling spit running down my butt-crack, but it might just be me.
• Be closely shaved.
• You're not a dog. Don't lick it like you are one.
• Breathing is over-rated. Breath through your nose or ears if need be.
• If she has a vibe/dildo, it's fun to include it in the action.

Above all remember that each lady is individual and that you need to learn to watch her responses. There is a lot of 'specific' instruction in the above post that I could say would be a definite turn off for me or would not be reading me correct.

The same rules apply for giving head, everyone is different and gives a different reaction in order to express pleasure, discomfort or disinterest in the current technique. When you are unsure ask, a simple 'You like that?" or "how does this feel" opens the conversation to a little direction and hopefully your partner will respond with either a Great, Fucking great, Harder, Faster, Slower, etc.
Your 'civilian' dates will generally do to you what they like (SP's are different) so watch what her techniques are and start with that. If she is sloppy and wet with her blowjob then she likely likes it sloppy and wet, if she uses hard pressure and a little teeth then she probably likes that done to her, etc.
If you provide feedback to your partner she will most likely do the same for you. In general saying things like "that's great, keep going" and "slower baby" or "i love it when you suck on the head (or go deep)" will be enough direction for your date and when you return the favour you'll find she'll be much more open to offering suggestions and feedback as well.