Does your Wife / Girlfriend know you hobby?

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Does your Wife / Girlfriend know you hobby?

  • My wife / girlfriends knows. We are in a open relationship.

    Votes: 3 2.9%

  • My wife/ girlfriends knows and is somewhat ok with it.

    Votes: 5 4.9%

  • My wife / girlfriend knows and is trying to get me to quit.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • My wife / girlfriend knows and dislikes it, but she stays with me.

    Votes: 4 3.9%

  • My wife / girlfriend knows, dislikes it, and we will most likely breakup because of it.

    Votes: 1 1.0%

  • My wife / girlfriend doesn’t know hopefully she will never know.

    Votes: 37 36.3%

  • My wife / girlfriend doesn’t know/ I feel GUILTY about it.

    Votes: 13 12.7%

  • My wife / girlfriend doesn’t know / I DON'T I feel guilty about my hobby.

    Votes: 19 18.6%

  • My wife / girlfriend doesn’t know / I don’t care if she finds out or not.

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • none of the above apply

    Votes: 20 19.6%
  • Total voters
    102
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alex6

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Maybe it’s too early to ask these follow up questions to my “Why do you Hobby poll”

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79063

But here goes:

To all those who answered either

a) I am in a relationship but enjoy varity

b) I am in a relationship but my partner doesn`t satisfy me

I NOW ASK:

Does your Wife / Girlfriend know you hobby?
 
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alex6

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OrientalJennifer said:
I know this question is not posed towards sps or other women in the industry, but no my SO does not know I participate in this lifestyle. I will eventually have to tell him.
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Do you feel guilty about not telling him?

I ask because I know someone who caught a serious STD from their SO (who was getting free side action.) The wife had no idea the husband was getting any side action and now she has to suffer the serious consequences.
 
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alex6

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OrientalJennifer said:
Some what.

We both go to different schools in different cities so we hardly see eachother. I feel betrayed by him, the other night I phoned and a woman picked up saying she was his girlfriend :eek: . So what I am doing for fun and money should be the least of his concerns, but for some reason I feel he would judge me.
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Maybe you need a to get a new BF. However would you tell him or your SO if you where serious about each other or just quit the lifestlye?
 
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too2shy

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Imagine the flip side bud.. imagine he found out his SO was sleeping with men for money.. I'd think he'd feel pretty betrayed..
 
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alex6

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too2shy said:
Imagine the flip side bud.. imagine he found out his SO was sleeping with men for money.. I'd think he'd feel pretty betrayed..
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VERY TRUE! GOOD POINT!
 
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GIMME

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When I am with a girl, I don't hobby at all. I don't know what I would do if I was married for 10+ years, I might hobby and probably not tell.

I do visit strip clubs when I am with a girl, and she knows when I go. Each time I go I invite her along!
 
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enidob

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When Gimme is with a guy he doesn't tell either. It would be impolite.
by the way when was the last time u were with a girl that didn't bark?
 
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GIMME

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enidob said:
When Gimme is with a guy he doesn't tell either. It would be impolite.
by the way when was the last time u were with a girl that didn't bark?
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OK, to have it personally in for me, you must be yennut. Keep going, this is going to be interesting again!
 
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Bearlythere

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Aug 20, 2001
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One of the guilty ones..

I am with a SO, and I do feel guilty. I go about once every 6 months, and it is as much for financial reasons as anything else. She knows what I pay for bills a month, and also has an idea of what I have coming in, so I have to hide money to do the deed. I mainly do it, and realize I have a great lady at home, but after a few months, the itch starts to come back and I go through an agonizing process of trying to justify it. I always seem to enjoy that one trip, but I realize I cannot go back any time soon or it will warp my feelings for home.

In short, I feel guilty for going in the hobby, because I know I would be dead meat if caught, but yet, I do enjoy being with a lady who is a) concerned only with sex, and b)different in how she looks, carries herself and does what she does in bed.
 
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