Xmas party and SP as a date ?????

[wellhungone]

So I have a Xmas function to attend this weekend. I was invited by the company that is hosting the party. There is going to be around 500 people there, one of those big corporate wing-dings. Originally decided to go solo, always the possibility that there might be some single women. But with the all the Ghomeshi stuff going on and the chances of taking some one back to my room seem very slim.

I was thinking of looking for some arm candy, having dinner and drinks then back to the room for the real fun.


So, my question to the forum is; Has anyone taking an SP to function as a date. Obviously there is some compensation for the evening. Would the SP be comfortable with attending ?

Any feed back is greatly appreciated.

 

[Goober Mcfly]

It is statistically possible that in a group that big someone may recognize the SP as a SP. So long as you're comfortable with the slight possibility that someone may figure out you are with a pro, I would say go for it.

 

[ron3221]

You also have to bear in mind that some SP's will only do multiple hour dates with repeat clients. You might consider taking a SP you have seen already.

 

[Titalian]

You also have to bear in mind that some SP's will only do multiple hour dates with repeat clients. You might consider taking a SP you have seen already.

I don't know why he would put himself in a predicament, like that???

 

[Born2Star]

I remember there was a long thread a few years ago about a guy who planned to bring an SP to a wedding, something like that. I don't have the link anymore but I remember the comments were quite mixed and extreme, and Fuji was standing out VERY against this. I don't remember if the guy ended up doing that.

To me, the SP herself needs to be comfortable doing that to start with, with you and in a situation with that many people.

I just replied another thread re a sad story of a girl being out'ted (she killed herself ) and when I think of this, if you're an SP esp. a good one, you'd have seen hundreds of guys if not more. And you GOT TO be able to stand up to yourself and live your life without hiding or looking over your shoulder all the time. How can one live under a shadow forever?

 

[IM469]

It is statistically possible that in a group that big someone may recognize the SP as a SP. So long as you're comfortable with the slight possibility that someone may figure out you are with a pro, I would say go for it.

Possible but highly improbable. I've gone to social events with dancers that I was dating at the time and never had a problem. Even if there is some recognition, it is highly doubtful that they would want to admit it.

The risk is that you have some confidence in the SP you are taking and you also keep your own behaviour in check. You don't want her flirting, acting stand-offish towards you or handing out business cards. Treat her with dignity and respect as you would a real gf.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Possible but highly improbable. I've gone to social events with dancers that I was dating at the time and never had a problem. Even if there is some recognition, it is highly doubtful that they would want to admit it.

You're very lucky then. I on the other hand did get caught and what made it worse was that it was by Goober himself.

Lucky farking bastard.....

 

[IM469]

You're very lucky then. I on the other hand did get caught and what made it worse was that it was by Goober himself.

Lucky farking bastard.....

Well on hindsight you must admit, even drunk Goober probably would recognize his own mom.

 

[Goober Mcfly]

That only happened once, and I was too drunk to get it up, thank God.

 

[Brolaf]

Hire a professional model or actress to pose as your date for the event. She'll likely do a better job for likely less money than an SP and with lower risk. Book a SP afterwards separately if you really need to get your rocks off.

 

[Chloë.]

Lots of SP's offer these types of arrangements and usually have separate fees listed on their websites for them.

I personally have been on plenty of these things as a companion, however it is shocking to hear about girls being standoffish or handing out business cards during an event.

That's like a girl answering her phone to talk shop, during an incall appointment.

If you hire a reputable SP who has experience, knows how to dress/act (nice pant suit/tasteful dress) or play the part of a new girlfriend or professional colleague from "the past", you shouldn't have a problem.

Some clients I have attended an event with were people I hadn't previously had a session with, however the email/phone correspondence beforehand was fine so I'd definitely say it is possible to pull off a viable meeting and party function if that is the case.

It is how you carry yourself as an SP that truly matters.
You don't want to make a fool of yourself or your client by blowing your cover with obvious "dont's". Most of them are common sense, really.

 

[goalie000]

So I have a Xmas function to attend this weekend. I was invited by the company that is hosting the party. There is going to be around 500 people there, one of those big corporate wing-dings. Originally decided to go solo, always the possibility that there might be some single women. But with the all the Ghomeshi stuff going on and the chances of taking some one back to my room seem very slim.

I was thinking of looking for some arm candy, having dinner and drinks then back to the room for the real fun.


So, my question to the forum is; Has anyone taking an SP to function as a date. Obviously there is some compensation for the evening. Would the SP be comfortable with attending ?

Any feed back is greatly appreciated.

Sounds to me like you need to get a hold of Chloe! Sorry Chloe can't figure out how to do the dots, lol

 

[Chloë.]

Sounds to me like you need to get a hold of Chloe! Sorry Chloe can't figure out how to do the dots, lol

Haha, it's a secret.

But OP, you may contact me if you are interested.

 

[saxon]

Several years ago I took a dancer I knew to a wedding of a co worker. Dancer was from Toronto and the wedding was in Hamilton so no issue of anyone recognizing her, I had been seeing her for a few years so we were both comfortable with the situation. It was a fun evening and I'm glad I took her, of course there was enumeration for her time.

 

[wellhungone]

Thank you all for the feedback and thank you Chloe for your input. Glad to get your opinion.

 

[lomotil]

I met one lady before from the trade at a wedding reception. I had done business with this working lady a few times before. She sat at an adjacent table in my line of site, we never spoke that night. Latter towards the end of the night another lady asked me for my business card, I innocently gave it to her and she walked over to working girl and put it in her hand. I saw working girl again as a customer several months latter, she now knew my real name and place of business and told me that she had recognized me in the wedding reception and remembered me as a lousy tipper.