WTF? Is all this cancelling stuff normal?

[hornydavid]

I am pissed off. I have been hobbying for a little over a year and have been stood up 3 times by SPs.

I was stood up the first time I booked! I spent ages getting to know a newbie in chat. I booked a multi-our session with her. I was going to be her second client! The morning of the booking I get a call and she tells me her first client has decided to keep her longer; impossible to re-book her. WTF?

Last 2 times I just get told “not available “. This is just not right.

BAD BUSINESS ETHICS

 

[M_an_b]

Indy's can be difficult to deal with... Which is why you have Terb. If you want to avoid all the BS that can come with this hobby, stick to well reviewed Indy's or reputable agency girls. If you go outside of this advice, you need to expect cancellations or you should consider what your back up plans are.

 

[dirkd101]

Indy's can be difficult to deal with... Which is why you have Terb. If you want to avoid all the BS that can come with this hobby, stick to well reviewed Indy's or reputable agency girls. If you go outside of this advice, you need to expect cancellations or you should consider what your back up plans are.

Sage advice. Heed this.

 

[69Shooter]

being told someone is "not available" is not being stood up. That's being told they aren't available. Happens all the time. Try booking in advance ...and for sure try a reputable sp who is well reviewed. Epecting someone who has only had one client to be professional is setting yourself up for disappointment, IMO. Good luck ; )

Whether it is being "stood up" or not; it is still frustrating. It's doubly frustrating when it happens on an advanced booking (unless there is plenty of notice about the cancellation so that an alternate booking can be made). As far as it happening "all the time"... I guess it happens to some (like the OP) more that others.

Having said that, the service(s) provided by an SP are completely different from anything else (this has been said many times before). Expecting the same experience that you might have with any other type of service professional is just asking for trouble!

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

being told someone is "not available" is not being stood up. That's being told they aren't available. Happens all the time. Try booking in advance ...and for sure try a reputable sp who is well reviewed. Epecting someone who has only had one client to be professional is setting yourself up for disappointment, IMO. Good luck ; )

I am man - I want dick wet now - woman say no = All woman bad!!!

Loss of blood to the big had, usually causes silliness like this.

I would recommend the OP find some pussy STAT.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Shooter did I misunderstand hornydavid's post? I thought he said he called and was told they were unavailable. If he prebooked that time and then called for last minute location details etc and was told that then I'm with you 100%... thats a no show and its definately frustrating. My apologies if I didn't interpret his post as he meant it.

1 was pre-booked, 2 were unavailable.

Gotta give it new lady credit. At least she told him the truth and didn't play games to bump him along until she could get client 1 out and keep client 2 waiting so she can keep both bookings.

 

[Buick Mackane]

Now a booking is just in pencil, you have to confirm to get a real appointment.

Did she cancel the confirmation? If so tell us who it is.

 

[69Shooter]

Shooter did I misunderstand hornydavid's post? I thought he said he called and was told they were unavailable. If he prebooked that time and then called for last minute location details etc and was told that then I'm with you 100%... thats a no show and its definately frustrating. My apologies if I didn't interpret his post as he meant it.

I see what you meant by your response. As for what OP actually meant... who knows? I just assumed that the circumstances were all similar but that in the first case there was at least an explanation as to why his booking was cancelled. If you're correct and he was told that the ladies he wanted to see were not available when he called to book his appointment then, of course, that's not being "stood up" and it does happen all the time.

 

[Mod100]

Truism

Men are strong willed and correct.

Women are bitchy and never wrong. :Eek:






Runs like hell and hides behind 99

 

[mynameisearl11]

I am pissed off. I have been hobbying for a little over a year and have been stood up 3 times by SPs.

I was stood up the first time I booked! I spent ages getting to know a newbie in chat. I booked a multi-our session with her. I was going to be her second client! The morning of the booking I get a call and she tells me her first client has decided to keep her longer; impossible to re-book her. WTF?

Last 2 times I just get told “not available “. This is just not right.

BAD BUSINESS ETHICS

This reminds me of an old episode from King of Queens. Carrie couldn't get any appointments from Asians spas after her initial misunderstanding with them! Make sure you are not being black listed,bud.
Don't get piss off because at least you saved your money right there. Take that money and spend it on future hot girls. This girl is not the one and the only one for you,is she?
Welcome to the game btw,rookie!

 

[MissCroft]

I'm not saying it's alright for SPs to cancel last minute. It's definitely not unless there is a valid reason. BUT I just wanted to say that a lot of clients cancel at the last minute too, sometimes with the worst excuses. I got so sick of it that it's one of the reasons I decided to mostly stick to regulars who I know are serious when they want to book me. Not into the silly games anymore....

Just wanted to say that it does work both ways - it's not just SPs that behave irresponsibly.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I am pissed off. I have been hobbying for a little over a year and have been stood up 3 times by SPs.

I was stood up the first time I booked! I spent ages getting to know a newbie in chat. I booked a multi-our session with her. I was going to be her second client! The morning of the booking I get a call and she tells me her first client has decided to keep her longer; impossible to re-book her. WTF?

Last 2 times I just get told “not available “. This is just not right.

BAD BUSINESS ETHICS

For her to admit that her 1st client extended his session to bump you off her schedule is a slap in the face. To not be available for you to re-book in the future is a sign that she doesn't want you to book her. Maybe you said something in chat (or got too close to her) to change her mind.


P.S. I'm sure that SPs may tell white lies to get out of a booking for whatever reason, so as to not offend a customer but to re-book at a future date. That's okay.

 

[Hangman]

For her to admit that her 1st client extended his session to bump you off her schedule is a slap in the face. To not be available for you to re-book in the future is a sign that she doesn't want you to book her. Maybe you said something in chat (or got too close to her) to change her mind.

This sounds like a pretty clear indication that she doesn't want to see the guy...

 

[hornydavid]

This sounds like a pretty clear indication that she doesn't want to see the guy...

I had pre-booked with newbie for 2 hrs the morning of her 3rd day of her first week working in Toronto. She told me her first client had extended his booking for all the time she was going to be in Toronto. I was so pissed I did not want to hear about booking for her next trip to Toronto.


Why pre-book if you are going to just get bumped?

Other 2 bookings were through agencies and booked a couple of weeks ahead I was cancelled the day before and the other time the day of the booking.

 

[diverdown]

Would rather be cancelled than show up and find a b&s or worse a lady who was obviously having an off day.

Best to roll with the changes OP and follow the research advice you've been given. Don't let it frustrate you, in this instance patience is a virtue and is rewarded.

 

[hornydavid]

I just got cancelled on this morning. Happens all the time dude it's not just you.

I hate the bastard with deep pockets. Just not fucking right that just because he has money he gets what he wants and freezes me out.

 

[bobistheowl]

Maybe the OP was trying to book MrsCaLoki's second appointment, and he has to wait for the old guy to croak now...

 

[69Shooter]

Maybe the OP was trying to book MrsCaLoki's second appointment, and he has to wait for the old guy to croak now...

LOL... I actually had the same thought myself!