Women downtown ... WTF?

[twir]

Any fellow terbers working downtown can enlighten me ?.

Been downtown lately for some business and I noticed the business women downtown
seem to have such an attitude.

They seem snobbish, indifferent and all bothered to have men around. The attitude seems to be correlated
to hotness or looks. Even the low 3s or 4s seem to think they are 9s or 10s? just mind boggling...

 

[Funny321]

Any fellow terbers working downtown can enlighten me ?.

Been downtown lately for some business and I noticed the business women downtown
seem to have such an attitude.

They seem snobbish, indifferent and all bothered to have men around. The attitude seems to be correlated
to hotness or looks. Even the low 3s or 4s seem to think they are 9s or 10s? just mind boggling...

Nope, it's just you and categorizing women based on looks.

 

[nobody123]

Even the low 3s or 4s seem to think they are 9s or 10s? just mind boggling...

Indeed. The question of why they are not tripping all over themselves to fawn over a charmer like you is a mystery for the ages.

 

[Titalian]

Indeed. The question of why they are not tripping all over themselves to fawn over a charmer like you is a mystery for the ages.

Charmer or farmer ??

 

[twir]

There is a thread active right now started by an escort displaying the exact same sort of attitude the OP in this thread is complaining about.

I am no charmer nor farmer. I was there for business not to pick or hit on anyone.
It was my observations over lunch watching my surroundings and actually other fellow guys trying to make moves.

 

[canada-man]

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?515840-What-the-actual-fuck

 

[Insidious Von]

You should be gently undermining their resistance not making moves. I must be really old, these days guys want everything on a silver platter.

 

[whitewaterguy]

Please fill us in...their urban armour is much thicker than............(enter city)........... Where everyone is all smiles with every other pedestrian?

 

[T.O.tourist]

Any fellow terbers working downtown can enlighten me ?.

Been downtown lately for some business and I noticed the business women downtown
seem to have such an attitude.

They seem snobbish, indifferent and all bothered to have men around. The attitude seems to be correlated
to hotness or looks. Even the low 3s or 4s seem to think they are 9s or 10s? just mind boggling...

Are you short?

 

[Titalian]

You should be gently undermining their resistance not making moves. I must be really old, these days guys want everything on a silver platter.

Your right and sometimes they end up with paper plate and left overs.

 

[MissCroft]

I think some of these young women are getting a little too high on themselves. I cannot tell you the number of times they bump into me (I think intentionally - in a "get out of my way bitch" kind of way), give me dirty looks, roll their eyes, etc.

When I was their age, I was hotter than a lot of them. Without the need to hide myself under a pound of makeup, etc. They need to get over themselves. Society and the media is creating these little divas. Sorry - my rant for this evening. Good night.

 

[twir]

Please fill us in...their urban armour is much thicker than............(enter city)........... Where everyone is all smiles with every other pedestrian?

In San Francisco, Seattle, Paris, Rome, women do not have the "do not look at me" attitude I seen downtown TO.
Mind you women in Europe are more flirty than in Canada.

In TO it seems, women have huge ego and they think every man they cross is going to hit on them.

 

[Titalian]

In San Francisco, Seattle, Paris, Rome, women do not have the "do not look at me" attitude I seen downtown TO.
Mind you women in Europe are more flirty than in Canada.

In TO it seems, women have huge ego and they think every man they cross is going to hit on them.

Again I'm going to point my finger at single parent up bringing. Mostly dealt with by female mothers, Which affects both young males as well as females, with their perceptions in life on both sexes. JMT

 

[canada-man]

In San Francisco, Seattle, Paris, Rome, women do not have the "do not look at me" attitude I seen downtown TO.
Mind you women in Europe are more flirty than in Canada.

In TO it seems, women have huge ego and they think every man they cross is going to hit on them.

it is easy to read body languages

 

[thailover]

what i have noticed from my younger male co-workers that they fawn over the over rated white/westernized women at work or in our society
they would stab a fellow bro in the back or sell him out to appease 1 of these overbearing women(they dont believe in the bros over hos motto)

 

[legmann]

I think some of these young women are getting a little too high on themselves.
They need to get over themselves. Society and the media is creating these little divas.

In San Francisco, Seattle, Paris, Rome, women do not have the "do not look at me" attitude I see in downtown TO.

At the risk of over-generalizing, I will say there is some truth to the above. Whatever the social mechanisms involved, I have rarely seen as many disengaged, indifferent, self-absorbed young people as I do today.

We recently had to let go a cute little number at my office, so (apparently) high on herself she didn't think it important to even try and appear friendly, engaging, or approachable toward her new co-workers. Being shy or merely guarded is understandable; openly conveying an attitude of 'I won't talk to you if I don't need to', is not - certainly not in a professional environment.

 

[ms9795]

I would have to agree a bit with this. It isn't just in the business district either. I've noticed it going out here vs other places. Maybe there are more jerks here that force the ladies to put up more of a guard but in other cities I've lived in or been to, the girls' attitudes are much more friendly and open on the whole. This is just observational based on my personal experiences so maybe I was lucky elsewhere and met some girls with a bad attitude here but I do agree. Don't get me wrong, I've met some great women here but there seem to be more with that bad attitude

 

[maniac1911]

Any fellow terbers working downtown can enlighten me ?.

Been downtown lately for some business and I noticed the business women downtown
seem to have such an attitude.

They seem snobbish, indifferent and all bothered to have men around. The attitude seems to be correlated
to hotness or looks. Even the low 3s or 4s seem to think they are 9s or 10s? just mind boggling...

Welcome to Toronto. Its not a bad thing these women drive up business for SPs.

 

[Insidious Von]

Pay attention fellas - words of wisdom.

 

[Serpent]

i have a theory and you guys can tell me if it's whack. My theory is that this behavior is because of the message "you are the best and you deserve the best" that is passed on since childhood. Toronto women:

a. with mediocre looks and accomplishments are likely to overlook significant ones in a guy because he's not the "best" (in looks, money and other things)

b. with the exception of some (and those are there too!), do not strive to better themselves because hard work and achievement are not part of this society's message to people (both men and women in 20s and 30s). Everyone is guaranteed a certain level of income even with a high school diploma and AA degree. When you get most things easily, you can afford to live in a world of self delusion that you're awesome and top-shit! Someone mentioned in another thread that even welfare mommas and HS diploma chicks have high standards for men absent honest self-assessment of what they bring to the table.

Men fawning over doesn't help, especially older men.

By the way: they are not bad people/bad human beings. Just entitled.