Why is there no BBW version for men?

[angrymime666]

There was a survey that showed that many women like dad bods

https://www.sfgate.com/living/article/Dad-bod-still-making-women-swoon-study-finds-11222826.php

Here's another article

https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/wellness/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys/

while I cannot cite surveys, studies or stats regarding dad bodies I would think that men having dad bods would support their own needs in maintaining the marital relationship. if a man is in excellent shape he would attract more attention from other females who are not his mates. men later in life usually garner higher income and have accumulated greater wealth. typically women are attracted to older and established men. would it not make sense that women would want a lower value male(dad bod) so that this man would not leave her? when a man has options he may be more apt to split.

as well; as stated before, I believe women would want a less attractive and fit man because of their own self esteem.

 

[frankcastle]

Our equivalency to BBW would be to find an enduring term for a man that can barely get by financially.

Artist, bad boy, hippy, activist, musician?

But I think this is a tangent into what women find attractive. The short answer is it depends on the woman. And for each woman her tastes can change over time.

Fat, short, poor, bad boy etc. there will be women who find those traits attractive while others will not.

It's not different that our tastes for women. Men don't all agree on it either.

I think this conversation hinges on whether or not you believe fat/heavy guys can be looked upon positively. I would also say that not everyone feels BBW is a positive term.... I'm sure many dudes if they see those three letters in an ad or review may move on depending on their tastes.

 

[frankcastle]

while I cannot cite surveys, studies or stats regarding dad bodies I would think that men having dad bods would support their own needs in maintaining the marital relationship. if a man is in excellent shape he would attract more attention from other females who are not his mates. men later in life usually garner higher income and have accumulated greater wealth. typically women are attracted to older and established men. would it not make sense that women would want a lower value male(dad bod) so that this man would not leave her? when a man has options he may be more apt to split.

as well; as stated before, I believe women would want a less attractive and fit man because of their own self esteem.

I'm not sure about that I see couples where the two look different.... one heavy and one not.

There are probably some insecure men too who might be concerned if their wife is too hot that she might cheat on him.

But what we're talking about is an extra dynamic.... relationships. The articles I linked deal strictly with whether or not women find a body type attractive.... not picking a mate.

 

[Smallcock]

I'm not sure about that I see couples where the two look different.... one heavy and one not.

There are probably some insecure men too who might be concerned if their wife is too hot that she might cheat on him.

But what we're talking about is an extra dynamic.... relationships. The articles I linked deal strictly with whether or not women find a body type attractive.... not picking a mate.

One of your links states exactly what he did.

https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/wellness/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys/

Everyone Looks Thin Next To A Fat Guy

Let’s face it—for every one study that says men aren’t judged for their bodies, there’s another 10 saying that women are positively flayed for theirs. So partnering with a man who’s not obsessed with his body might make a woman feel a little more secure about her own. This, of course, on top of the literal comfort of cuddling with your cozy dad bod.

 

[frankcastle]

One of your links states exactly what he did.

https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/wellness/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys/

Key word in that quote from the article is "might" there can be many reasons why a woman likes dad bod. Regardless of the reason, my point stands that some women find dad bods attractive.

 

[angrymime666]

I'm not sure about that I see couples where the two look different.... one heavy and one not.

There are probably some insecure men too who might be concerned if their wife is too hot that she might cheat on him.

But what we're talking about is an extra dynamic.... relationships. The articles I linked deal strictly with whether or not women find a body type attractive.... not picking a mate.

I agree but there are always exceptions to the rule. example a really overweight woman with a really skinny guy.

I have seen your second point in real life as well.

I would be curious to the demographics of the survey. those single/married and age. just from my own experiences, most women I have worked both married and single swoon over channing tatum and guys with hard muscular bods.

 

[frankcastle]

I agree but there are always exceptions to the rule. example a really overweight woman with a really skinny guy.

I have seen your second point in real life as well.

I would be curious to the demographics of the survey. those single/married and age. just from my own experiences, most women I have worked both married and single swoon over channing tatum and guys with hard muscular bods.

Yeah Channing probably gets more love than Jonah Hill.

I'm not saying all women like chubby men. But enough that heavy set guys don't have to fear being alone.

 

[Parker@TDL]

Yeah Channing probably gets more love than Jonah Hill.

I'm not saying all women like chubby men. But enough that heavy set guys don't have to fear being alone.

I would totes fuck Jonah Hill!! Quite possibly over Channing Tatum. It would depend on who was more fun to talk to. If both were equally fun then I'd aim for a threesome. Not that I think either would definitely want to fuck me(I'm not that full of myself)...this is obviously all hypothetical

 

[james t kirk]

Channing Tatum was good in Logan Lucky. Which if you haven't seen, I highly recommend.

 

[Nesbot]

Fat chicks have garnered a lot of attention in recent decades by trying to convince us that they're hot. They have invented terms like BBW (Big Beautiful Woman), have been featured in commercials, model runways, and graced magazine covers like Cosmopolitan (https://twitter.com/Tess_Holliday/status/1034807072687177729 ) - poor health be damned. I've even started to believe that all they eat is salad instead of cake due to the amount of propaganda shoved in my face.

Why hasn't the "body positivity" movement extended to men? Who is out there championing fat men and calling them studs that shouldn't be ashamed of themselves and encouraged to wear speedos at the local pool? This is a double standard that needs to be rectified.

Go for it man. You talk the talk, now walk the walk. Don't just talk about change, make it happen!

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Key word in that quote from the article is "might" there can be many reasons why a woman likes dad bod. Regardless of the reason, my point stands that some women find dad bods attractive.

Why are you fighting with him? I gave him three terms that are often used and he decided to ex them because they didn't fit his narrative.

Dad bod is real and like for more then just his wallet. Sadly the women haters won't agree but whatevs

Teddy bear is a big, portly man with a good amount of fur. Usually on the shorter size, under 6 foot.

Mountain man is more of the taller, broad shouldered look but not with a six pack unless we are taking beer.

He doesn't like that discription that we - as women - have labeled. Again, because it doesn't fit his narrative. Anything other the BBM is unacceptable.


As for who to take to bed, I will take the Teddy Bear over Channing. Unless I want him to dance, I have no use for him. The Teddy Bear is going to let me ride his face all night long, until I have cum so much, I have to call it quits. Then he will tuck me into bed and maybe finish himself in the morning with a second round.

 

[Smallcock]

I would totes fuck Jonah Hill!! Quite possibly over Channing Tatum.

As for who to take to bed, I will take the Teddy Bear over Channing.

While I think this could be one of those "trust what women do rather than what women say" moments, I'll accept your answers as genuine.

It actually falls in line with the studies that say women prefer older men... men well into their 50's - dad bod Heaven.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

^^^^ Oh, ty so much for allowing me to choose my own sexual partners in this hypothetical situation. Glad to know that someone has given me permission. LOL

There is a difference between eye-candy and actual fucking. The "good-looking" ones don't try. Men know this from their own experience.

So again, if Channing wants to dance for me, great. He can be my fluffer, but I will take the teddy bear to bed because as I said, he will let me ride his face until I am done, tuck me into bed and then wait until I am ready in the morning for another round, where he will finally be able to bust his nut.

See, I want it all about me for a few hours and TB will give that to me. CT will probably not. Anyone with any real sexual experience knows where to get the good stuff and where to look at good-looking things.

 

[Parker@TDL]

^^^^ Oh, ty so much for allowing me to choose my own sexual partners in this hypothetical situation. Glad to know that someone has given me permission. LOL

Bahahaha how kind of him!! Now I definitely know what I thought I knew now that he's told me that I was being honest about what I know...that made sense right? Lol

While I think this could be one of those "trust what women do rather than what women say" moments, I'll accept your answers as genuine.

What a weird thing to lie about in the first place. It's not like I'm worried about hurting Jonah Hills feelings and so I'm pandering to him. He most likely definitely doesn't come on this board...or maybe he does...HI JONAH

 

[onthebottom]

Superficially women are judged on their looks and men on their success/confidence.

 

[TeeJay]

Fat chicks have garnered a lot of attention in recent decades by trying to convince us that they're hot.

Hahaha
Oh cmon how can anyone think a person in poor health is attractive