why do men really go to see escorts? Is it just to get there rocks off or do they want us to have fun too? I guess its different for each person but i know sometimes it takes a little effort to make us squirt but is it worth it and why? lets get some opinions about a session and what we are and not suppose to do. What would be ur ideal session?(don't be bashful).
why do men really go to see escorts?
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It is just hormones. At one point you get tired of jerking off so you want to see someone to help you out without great financial and time consuming obligation. Or maybe you just don't have time for a girlfriend. That's why I tend to be rather selfish with escorts, there is no romance or love so why bother? If you're trying to portray a nice picture on the whole escort client relationship don't waste your time, it is just business. I pay to get fucked, nothing more to it.
the perfect session has to be fun & a 2 way street for the people involved. I love daty & love pleasuring a lady in various ways.
getting her to squirt is the tipping point for us both. giving & receiving is the only way to enjoy a visit. I treat each visit as a treat for me & try to share that treat with the other person.
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getting her to squirt is the tipping point for us both. giving & receiving is the only way to enjoy a visit. I treat each visit as a treat for me & try to share that treat with the other person.
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Whenever women answer this question, it always comes down to "They're unfulfilled emotionally."
That's when I started to LOL and cackle.
That's when I started to LOL and cackle.
I started seeing escorts because I haven't had much luck in the dating scene and have a high sex drive that only a woman can provide!
I think also think seeing escorts has helped with my confidence with women.
I look for SPs who offer DFK.
I think also think seeing escorts has helped with my confidence with women.
I look for SPs who offer DFK.
Well for me I really don’t think it is about sex and I know that because that doesn’t always occur
When I visit with one of you ladies I find it a very liberating, relaxing and uncomplicated experience as the boundaries (and total lack of other boundaries) are so well defined, this in contrast to the usually messy romantic relationship were one more often than not does not know up from down. Let’s just call it very uncomplicated company and companionship with benefits and no strings attached.
Well i have yet to visit one of the wonderful ladies. The reason i am planning on my first session is pretty crude. If you have ever watched the vagina monologues i am a Bob. I love the female form, the softness, the smell, the taste, the sound of a women. Cunnilingus is my favorite thing in the universe! I get pleasure from giving pleasure. So i am planning my visit because cant fulfill these desires without a partner. I have never been one to lie to get what i want. I have never been someone to take a trashed stranger home from a bar. Due to personal reasons i dont want a relationship at this time. This seems like perfect arrangement two adults getting together for mutal pleasure. Neither side has any expectations that it is or will become anything more than that.
Your pleasure is part of my pleasure. I don't care as much as with a girlfriend, but i still want to please the beautiful woman i have chosen to pass an hour with. Seeing excitement on her face, the deep breathing and the sounds coming with that are super exciting. And when you walk in the appartment/room/whatever, you know why you're there and know what to expect (if you did your homeworks here). The moment when i knock at the door and she gets the door open with sexy lingerie and smile is a total turn-on for me.
In no particular order here are 10 reasons, I could easily list another ten.
1. No boring ‘getting to know you’ dates - and many SPs and MPs are quite interesting to talk to.
2. Convenience. With minimal terb research you can find and book women who really know and are confident in what they are doing.
3. It’s selfish, but you don’t have to be concerned if the woman gets off or not. You can be as active or as passive as you want – after all, you’re the one who’s paying for it.
4. No promises made, no strings attached.
5. No follow up phone calls or emails required. It’s a nice courtesy but not mandatory; no need to provide reasons or excuses if you don’t want to see her again. She’s not going to show up banging on your door at 3 am drunkenly screaming “I swallowed your cum and now you won’t even talk to me?!”
6. No expectation that you’re going to change your FB status to “in a relationship”
7. While $250 for an hour seems like a lot, when you factor in the anticipation and the fond memories, it’s almost always great bang for the buck.
8. They have all been much younger and hotter than the women I could pull as a civilian
9. The endless variety. I don’t have a favourite ‘type’ and really enjoy sampling all the different sizes, nationalities, ethnicities available with just an email or phone call.
10. You can be open and honest about whatever sexual fetish or fantasy you want to play out without being judged.
1. No boring ‘getting to know you’ dates - and many SPs and MPs are quite interesting to talk to.
2. Convenience. With minimal terb research you can find and book women who really know and are confident in what they are doing.
3. It’s selfish, but you don’t have to be concerned if the woman gets off or not. You can be as active or as passive as you want – after all, you’re the one who’s paying for it.
4. No promises made, no strings attached.
5. No follow up phone calls or emails required. It’s a nice courtesy but not mandatory; no need to provide reasons or excuses if you don’t want to see her again. She’s not going to show up banging on your door at 3 am drunkenly screaming “I swallowed your cum and now you won’t even talk to me?!”
6. No expectation that you’re going to change your FB status to “in a relationship”
7. While $250 for an hour seems like a lot, when you factor in the anticipation and the fond memories, it’s almost always great bang for the buck.
8. They have all been much younger and hotter than the women I could pull as a civilian
9. The endless variety. I don’t have a favourite ‘type’ and really enjoy sampling all the different sizes, nationalities, ethnicities available with just an email or phone call.
10. You can be open and honest about whatever sexual fetish or fantasy you want to play out without being judged.
Great summary MattRoxx. An important addition for me is the anticipation, expectation and thrill of going to see a new lady for the first time. I usually book a few days ahead of time, and this tends to accentuate the anticipation. It all leads up to the knock on the door and finally meeting the lady.
I don't partake as much as most seem to on here, due to living out of Toronto a ways, but I'll add my 2 cents. I would say most of the reason I do it, is I'm looking for something,I don't get at home. Wasn't always that way, but thats the way it is. I don't have the stomach to leave, but am getting closer. Not happy at all. Anyway, a nice 2+hr session, is aways a nice cure from reality. While I don't see that many SPs, I always research ALOT before desiding to see someone. While I know alot don't post, on here, and other places, I always have seen someone who I could get a feel for, by reading some of their postings. Has always worked out. Have met some nice ladies over the years.
As far as just looking to get myself off? Not at all. Maybe I'm naive, but I have always tried to make sure who I see ,also has a good time. :biggrin1: I hope I'm right!
While I don't see that many SPs, I always research ALOT before desiding to see someone. While I know alot don't post, on here, and other places, I always have seen someone who I could get a feel for, by reading some of their postings. Has always worked out. Have met some nice ladies over the years.As far as just looking to get myself off? Not at all. Maybe I'm naive, but I have always tried to make sure who I see ,also has a good time. :biggrin1: I hope I'm right!
