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Arabian Guy

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Why do men have to pay women for sex? i mean its like a guy paying and pleasing a woman with his Mr Happy, its not fair, i mean both should pay or no one pays at all


What you think?

I mean the rates are WOHOOOOOOOO, high
 

Geminixoxo

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have you ever heard of male sps'??? women pay too...it's your choice...if you don't want to pay for a ladies/mans' time....DON'T
 

Haywood

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Sheik said:
We are not paying for the sex buddy......

we are paying them to leave us alone after the sex.


Wasn't that Charlie Sheen's justification for hiring Sps?

Not bad logic lol
 

stang

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Men have always, and will always, pay for sex. And believe me I'm not necessarily talking about money!
 

Arabian Guy

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Ok then why pay them for the company?

Dont they enjoy our company too? or what is the deal

after all women wana be equal to men , dont they?

so why not just do it for the fun of it
 

xarir

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Dude - get real. If you don't want to pay for sex then don't. Get out there a hit the clubs, the bars, lavalife ...

There are benefits and drawbacks to paying for sex. YMMV, caveat emptor; it's as simple as that.

And how does paying for sex place men and women on an unequal footing?
 

rayven

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Even I (a girl) thinks it just makes sense sometimes...I think that the "paying them to leave us alone" explanation is exactly right. Sometimes you really do just want sex to be about having fun - no strings, no cuddle time or breakfast the morning after...just fun.

Honestly, if we can get real here for a second (calling all girls) we have to admit that as girls we can be annoying, exhausting even - there are times when we talk too much!

I'm usually the "go between" - so to speak - when we're having threesomes so that my man can roll over and go to sleep when we're done - leave the room even, whatever - I'll deal with our little playfriend so that he doesn't have to and most of the time I'd really love to tell her to 'please, shut up' - not nice, I know, but realistic. Anyway, all in all - sometimes paying just makes sense, saves a hassle!
 

Geminixoxo

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....also some married men don't get enough at home and they'd rather not deal with a mistress/girlfriend that would cause them problems and they don't mind paying the girl to keep their secret.
 

Geminixoxo

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again sheiky...........haven't we been through this already???

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO and one more time NOOO

lol (sheik) <----thats a hug
 

Maryln

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paying for sex

I know it may seem unfair but women can have all the free, no commitment sex they want. One little ad in a swingers or adult site will generate hundreds of replys. Even "middle-aged fat lady with no teeth desires no strings sex" will do it lol. hugs, Maryln
 

sp free

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Re: paying for sex

Maryln said:
I know it may seem unfair but women can have all the free, no commitment sex they want. One little ad in a swingers or adult site will generate hundreds of replys. Even "middle-aged fat lady with no teeth desires no strings sex" will do it lol. hugs, Maryln
Hell, she could charge for it.
 

flyingdgn

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I have a theory about this.

DITB (Dick in the Brain). The thought processes of men are often dicktated before sex by their smaller brain (the dick). When this dick gets in the brain we lose control of our senses and try to find the fastest way to release sperm from our testicles. It can be seen in bars, SCs, MPs and even on dates. We can be seen spending extravagant amounts of money, saying the dumbest things and acting like fools while we have DITB. The proof of this theory is evident just after the release. Just after we cum, we are compelled to say something stupid to the one we are with. (just listen to yourself the next time you are at an MP) Once the sperm has left the body, the normal brain takes over. This is why so many of us wonder why we spend so much money on this hobby just after the session and not before. Normal brain is responsible for sleep, work, food and finances. DITB returns frequently and when it does, it makes you do things like pay for sex.

Women on the other hand have PITB (Pussy In The Brain). Due to the different physiology of women, the Pussy lies dorment until they have sexual relations with a man. The Pussy however can distinguish between paid sex and free sex. The pussy can ignore paid sex easily (more evolved?) But free sex is where it comes into play. Once they give themselves to a man, PITB takes over and starts to put crazy ideas into their heads. This is why so many women like to cuddle, have the man sleep over, etc.... Sometimes this can be worse than DITB because it can plague the woman for a lengthy period after sex. Questions like is he happy? Will he call me again? Why is he not calling me? How does this affect our relationship? How does he think of me now? How long is this relation going to last? Why is he not answering the phone? Why is he not calling me back?

If women could pay money to have men act in an ideal manner after the sex, women would spend just as much money as men.

I could be wrong, but I think it's a responsibility of man to try to understand the differences between men and women. Unfortunately, it is also the destiny of man to fail at this task.
Even more unfortunate is the fact that if we do not try to understand this, the woman will be pissed off and we will not get sex anymore and DITB will run rampant and we will end up paying more money for sex.
 

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Re: paying for sex

Maryln said:
I know it may seem unfair but women can have all the free, no commitment sex they want. One little ad in a swingers or adult site will generate hundreds of replys. Even "middle-aged fat lady with no teeth desires no strings sex" will do it lol. hugs, Maryln


mmmmm...no teeth.
 

baci2004

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rayven said:
Even I (a girl) thinks it just makes sense sometimes...I think that the "paying them to leave us alone" explanation is exactly right. Sometimes you really do just want sex to be about having fun - no strings, no cuddle time or breakfast the morning after...just fun.

Honestly, if we can get real here for a second (calling all girls) we have to admit that as girls we can be annoying, exhausting even - there are times when we talk too much!

I'm usually the "go between" - so to speak - when we're having threesomes so that my man can roll over and go to sleep when we're done - leave the room even, whatever - I'll deal with our little playfriend so that he doesn't have to and most of the time I'd really love to tell her to 'please, shut up' - not nice, I know, but realistic. Anyway, all in all - sometimes paying just makes sense, saves a hassle!
*Grins* The woman of my dreams.
 

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Arabian Guy said:
Why do men have to pay women for sex? i mean its like a guy paying and pleasing a woman with his Mr Happy, its not fair, i mean both should pay or no one pays at all What you think? I mean the rates are WOHOOOOOOOO, high
AG: I think maybe this is not the right place to ask this question. Maybe you should go on a radio or tv talk show and ask them. Try MOJO for starters. :)
 
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