Why Comment About Something If......

[Samranchoi]

In so many threads I see comments like “no DFK or CIM, pass” or “VIP, no CIM” and the list goes on. For someone who has asked a question about services and received a response, I can understand but for someone who just chimes in with the aforementioned comment, what is the purpose of that. For me, if I see something I don’t like about a woman in terms of service or price, I don’t comment, just move on. These type of posts are just useless garbage, in my opinion.

 

[Archer2012]

BRAVO!

 

[Scholar]

In so many threads I see comments like “no DFK or CIM, pass” or “VIP, no CIM” and the list goes on. For someone who has asked a question about services and received a response, I can understand but for someone who just chimes in with the aforementioned comment, what is the purpose of that. For me, if I see something I don’t like about a woman in terms of service or price, I don’t comment, just move on. These type of posts are just useless garbage, in my opinion.

I think it provides a bit of insight into what certain board members are into. An example that springs to mind would be celerystick. Everyone knows that no DFK is a pass for him. So, if you wanted to know which providers are great kissers you would probably get a decent list if you sent him a message and asked. If he didn't always post his no DFK = pass comments I wouldn't necessarily know about that. I guess my point is that no knowledge is useless.

 

[y2kmark]

PU -leeeze! Negative comments are always the most useful. People who read reviews know what they are or are not looking for. If it doesn't pertain to you move on. If content on this board offends you, there are curling websites that might be acceptable...

 

[Samranchoi]

I think it provides a bit of insight into what certain board members are into. An example that springs to mind would be celerystick. Everyone knows that no DFK is a pass for him. So, if you wanted to know which providers are great kissers you would probably get a decent list if you sent him a message and asked. If he didn't always post his no DFK = pass comments I wouldn't necessarily know about that. I guess my point is that no knowledge is useless.

What is more important to me is the service and price that a woman provides and charges. If that has been identified in the thread, that is all I need to know and I don’t need to see someone say no DFK, pass. A more relevant comment is someone chiming in saying I received DFK after someone says they didn’t (as seen in many threads). That is then a discussion point on YMMV which is more relevant. . I don’t need to see comments “VIP, no CIM, pass”. And actually that may be in violation of the rules here as we cannot comment on rates. I know others agree with my comment as evidenced by some threads but like you, a 3 word comment helps you to decide whether you want to see someone.

 

[explorerzip]

Then there are the MBA's that give "business advice" such as the girl is charging too much for the service she offers or she should not do this or that. Followed by a history of the industry where rates were lower and had fewer restrictions, etc.

Nothing more than thinly veiled complaints about rates.

 

[asuran]

I think it provides a bit of insight into what certain board members are into. An example that springs to mind would be celerystick. Everyone knows that no DFK is a pass for him. So, if you wanted to know which providers are great kissers you would probably get a decent list if you sent him a message and asked. If he didn't always post his no DFK = pass comments I wouldn't necessarily know about that. I guess my point is that no knowledge is useless.

PU -leeeze! Negative comments are always the most useful. People who read reviews know what they are or are not looking for. If it doesn't pertain to you move on. If content on this board offends you, there are curling websites that might be acceptable...

Negative comments are useful, but dismissive comments may be viewed as insults.

 

[doggystyle99]

I think it provides a bit of insight into what certain board members are into. An example that springs to mind would be celerystick. Everyone knows that no DFK is a pass for him. So, if you wanted to know which providers are great kissers you would probably get a decent list if you sent him a message and asked. If he didn't always post his no DFK = pass comments I wouldn't necessarily know about that. I guess my point is that no knowledge is useless.

Exactly.
Unfortunately some posters have been hard at work over the years trying to tell people constantly what they could and should post, are so self centered that they think their likes and dislikes should be the norm for everyone.
Even shaming posters whose taste in services, looks or attitude differ from their own as irrelevant or trying to label them non gentlemanly/misogynistic when they have different standards.
What's really amazing is that some people either are unwilling to understand that wants, and tastes of others vary, forget that we are on an escort review board, or in some cases so out of tune and understanding of other hobbyists likes that they think everyone should seek out SP's in the exact same way as them.

 

[asuran]

Exactly.
Unfortunately some posters have been hard at work over the years trying to tell people constantly what they could and should post, are so self centered that they think their likes and dislikes should be the norm for everyone.
Even shaming posters whose taste in services, looks or attitude differ from their own as irrelevant or trying to label them non gentlemanly/misogynistic when they have different standards.
What's really amazing is that some people either are unwilling to understand that wants, and tastes of others vary, forget that we are on an escort review board, or in some cases so out of tune and understanding of other hobbyists likes that they think everyone should seek out SP's in the exact same way as them.

Just look at your own sig... if not what is the point of having that sig?

 

[doggystyle99]

Just look at your own sig... if not what is the point of having that sig?

Those things are not my likes or dislikes they are a general expectations in the industry.
Never heard anyone describe CBJ as PSE or GREEK as Safe GFE.
Besides members shaming others for seeking out certain services that are provided willingly but is not what they are into is just that shaming and being self centered.

 

[squeezer]

“no DFK or CIM, pass”

Who exactly is a comment like this hurting? The member is passing, it doesn't mean others will pass. I can live without DFK or CIM as long as I get the BBBJ. CBJ, I'd pass but another might prefer a CBJ. It's a review board, I think. LOL

 

[doggystyle99]

“no DFK or CIM, pass”

Who exactly is a comment like this hurting? The member is passing, it doesn't mean others will pass. I can live without DFK or CIM as long as I get the BBBJ. CBJ, I'd pass but another might prefer a CBJ. It's a review board, I think. LOL

The same posters who do not like comments like "no DFK or CIM, pass" are the same posters who write essay type reviews with very little useful information such as details of services received like BBBJ, DFK, DATY, DIGITS....etc
They view other reviewers as disrespectful individuals who do give such detailed information, and a few of them have said so numerous times in their posts.
The sole purpose of TERB a review board is to get detailed information on SP's so a client knows what to expect from a session and if the SP in question is a great match for what he is looking for.
It significantly reduces the number of clients going into a session blind and leaving dissatisfied. It sure has helped me avoid those who weren't a match and helped me find the ones that were with a very high percentage of great success.

 

[legmann]

The same posters who do not like comments like "no DFK or CIM, pass" are the same posters who write essay type reviews with very little useful information such as details of services received like BBBJ, DFK, DATY, DIGITS....etc
They view other reviewers as disrespectful individuals who do give such detailed information, and a few of them have said so numerous times in their posts.
The sole purpose of TERB a review board is to get detailed information on SP's so a client knows what to expect from a session and if the SP in question is a great match for what he is looking for.
It significantly reduces the number of clients going into a session blind and leaving dissatisfied. It sure has helped me avoid those who weren't a match and helped me find the ones that were with a very high percentage of great success.

Well said.

 

[kherg007]

In so many threads I see comments like “no DFK or CIM, pass” or “VIP, no CIM” and the list goes on. For someone who has asked a question about services and received a response, I can understand but for someone who just chimes in with the aforementioned comment, what is the purpose of that. For me, if I see something I don’t like about a woman in terms of service or price, I don’t comment, just move on. These type of posts are just useless garbage, in my opinion.

Too much thoughtful sensible intellect in your post. Pass.

LOL

 

[Samranchoi]

Too much thoughtful sensible intellect in your post. Pass.

LOL

No problem, I do the same to 100% of your posts as well (well 99.9% now). It’s all good

 

[explorerzip]

The same posters who do not like comments like "no DFK or CIM, pass" are the same posters who write essay type reviews with very little useful information such as details of services received like BBBJ, DFK, DATY, DIGITS....etc
They view other reviewers as disrespectful individuals who do give such detailed information, and a few of them have said so numerous times in their posts.
The sole purpose of TERB a review board is to get detailed information on SP's so a client knows what to expect from a session and if the SP in question is a great match for what he is looking for.
It significantly reduces the number of clients going into a session blind and leaving dissatisfied. It sure has helped me avoid those who weren't a match and helped me find the ones that were with a very high percentage of great success.

We're talking about escorts that you spend a couple of hours with at most. Not someone you're going to spend your life with. If it 's not a "match" then you've only wasted some money and time.

There's no way to know if someone is a match or not based on reviews. Just because one guy got specific acronyms does not not mean that you will. You're not going to get even close to an accurate representation of the human factor no matter how descriptive a review is. You've been around long enough to know that. How do you know if someone is not a match if you've haven't seen them before? Is she really not a match for you just because she don't offer specific things? Surely you can enjoy time with an escort even if she doesn't offer 100% of what you want every time.

Most of us should know this, but you avoid being dissatisfied by keeping reality and expectations in check. You're spending time with a human being and not a doll. You have to be able to communicate your wants particularly with escorts.

You also have to be willing to see the bigger picture. Do you focus on not getting a specific act or the time overall? If you only focus on not getting something then you're always going to be disappointed. It won't matter how many great reviews an escort might have. Sadly, there are people that cannot have a good time if just one thing is out of place. There are also people that have one bad experience and can never enjoy anything ever again.

The fun of seeing escorts is getting a slightly different experience every time. To me, it's exciting not fully knowing what's going to happen. You are definitely risking disappointment, but that's true of everything in life.

If you want to be absolutely sure you have the same experience every time then get a doll.

 

[doggystyle99]

We're talking about escorts that you spend a couple of hours with at most. Not someone you're going to spend your life with. If it 's not a "match" then you've only wasted some money and time.

There's no way to know if someone is a match or not based on reviews. Just because one guy got specific acronyms does not not mean that you will. You're not going to get even close to an accurate representation of the human factor no matter how descriptive a review is. You've been around long enough to know that. How do you know if someone is not a match if you've haven't seen them before? Is she really not a match for you just because she don't offer specific things? Surely you can enjoy time with an escort even if she doesn't offer 100% of what you want every time.

Most of us should know this, but you avoid being dissatisfied by keeping reality and expectations in check. You're spending time with a human being and not a doll. You have to be able to communicate your wants particularly with escorts.

You also have to be willing to see the bigger picture. Do you focus on not getting a specific act or the time overall? If you only focus on not getting something then you're always going to be disappointed. It won't matter how many great reviews an escort might have. Sadly, there are people that cannot have a good time if just one thing is out of place. There are also people that have one bad experience and can never enjoy anything ever again.

The fun of seeing escorts is getting a slightly different experience every time. To me, it's exciting not fully knowing what's going to happen. You are definitely risking disappointment, but that's true of everything in life.

If you want to be absolutely sure you have the same experience every time then get a doll.

It’s unfortunate with you being on here this long you still haven’t realized or found the value in reviews and found reviewers whose views are inline with yours. Responding to those who have found a way to utilize the board in a positive manner to avoid average or bad sessions and attempting to equate it to the need for getting a doll instead is another level of ignorance.

 

[Mod123]

“no DFK or CIM, pass”

Who exactly is a comment like this hurting? The member is passing, it doesn't mean others will pass. I can live without DFK or CIM as long as I get the BBBJ. CBJ, I'd pass but another might prefer a CBJ. It's a review board, I think. LOL

If something is not to your liking, screening methods, rates, service provided. etc. Just move on, unless you have this experience with this particular provider then you may review it.

Terb welcomes all offers in the industry and dismissive or marginalizing comments are unwelcome and should be removed.

There are differences between negative comments and dismissive comments.