You want a girl to improve her service and get to know the ropes a lkittle more,but when she tries to feel and she asks you how she's doing(especially if you are making no sounds of pleasure or nothing to show her it feels good) and then say that she was annoying you. Why do you guys just insult the girl instead of giving a review. On reviews if you did not enjoy the service why say you wouldn't recommend her just because YOU didn't enjoy the experience...everyone has diferent opinions. Why not say I didn't enjoy it,it wasn't what i was hoping for or expecting but you may like her. this guy may not like the service but that guy may love it. So please start taking it easy on the girls gents.
Why Are Guys So Harsh On Sp's?
- Thread starter sexy_olivia
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We just want to bring the ladies down to our level.
Constructive criticism should be ok so long as it is constructive.
Some ladies think way too much of themselves especially when compared to their services and general mental and physical attributes. Some of us can't help trying to knock such ladies down a peg or two.
That being said , I don't know you Olivia, and consequently don't have an opinion.
Should I; know you that is ?
Constructive criticism should be ok so long as it is constructive.
Some ladies think way too much of themselves especially when compared to their services and general mental and physical attributes. Some of us can't help trying to knock such ladies down a peg or two.
That being said , I don't know you Olivia, and consequently don't have an opinion.
Should I; know you that is ?
Olivia you make some good points and I guess there is always room for improvement, even by us guys in the way we review the ladies.
I personally always to try and be fair about a session even if it wasn't the greatest. We all have preferences in looks, service etc and I guess we tend to compare against the best we have had to date rather than looking at the potential of a situation.
As for teh questioning during a session I have always taken the stance of if I have a problem with something you are doing, I will tell you. Otherwise carry on doing what you are doing, I am enjoying it. As for vocalizing pleasure that is a very personal thing, the same as some ladies, while we are all the best lovers they have ever had, we also know that sometimes we just can't hold a candle to other guys.
If you are really interested in getting feedback on your sessions, you may want to ask the gentlemen prior to beginning so that they can look for possible areas of improvement. I think that you will find most guys willing to accomadate you on this if you ask. Generally I think most guys wait until the review for fear of upsetting the lady.
I don't think it is right for the guy to slam a lady in a review. I agree that sometimes the chemistry just isn't there.
I personally always to try and be fair about a session even if it wasn't the greatest. We all have preferences in looks, service etc and I guess we tend to compare against the best we have had to date rather than looking at the potential of a situation.
As for teh questioning during a session I have always taken the stance of if I have a problem with something you are doing, I will tell you. Otherwise carry on doing what you are doing, I am enjoying it. As for vocalizing pleasure that is a very personal thing, the same as some ladies, while we are all the best lovers they have ever had, we also know that sometimes we just can't hold a candle to other guys.
If you are really interested in getting feedback on your sessions, you may want to ask the gentlemen prior to beginning so that they can look for possible areas of improvement. I think that you will find most guys willing to accomadate you on this if you ask. Generally I think most guys wait until the review for fear of upsetting the lady.
I don't think it is right for the guy to slam a lady in a review. I agree that sometimes the chemistry just isn't there.
Most of the reviews I read here seem fair. There are the odd few idiots who post crap.
I would say to you Olivia, you provided a service you advertise and not all customers will be happy all the time. As long as you feel you gave it your best, what else can you do. If you get repeats, then you have to feel good about that.
Perhaps you shouldn't read reviews.
I would say to you Olivia, you provided a service you advertise and not all customers will be happy all the time. As long as you feel you gave it your best, what else can you do. If you get repeats, then you have to feel good about that.
Perhaps you shouldn't read reviews.
I generally don't talk about my feelings during a session, if I'm quiet it doesn't mean I'm not enjoying myself. I don't scream out or cry or laugh unless I'm very comfortable in a long term relationship.
We should remember that we're dealing with a real human being with feelings, she's opened herself up to a stranger. There's no need to criticize their looks, especially if the pictures are accurate. We can give a negative review and still be respectful.
We should remember that we're dealing with a real human being with feelings, she's opened herself up to a stranger. There's no need to criticize their looks, especially if the pictures are accurate. We can give a negative review and still be respectful.
Honestly i have already tried that,but whenever i do their response is either, "i don't know do whatever" then sometimes post a bad review or they reply "i don't know,your the expert!" with a silly grin on their face making me feel stupid.Dodger said:
Another thing sometimes when i get visitors and i try to start convorsation or i try to make them feel comfortable and joke around a little bit (remember, you're a stranger to me too! i need to calm MYSELF down as well and feel you out,see how you are) and their response of body language is usually like, uhh, why are you talking to me?
I have feelings to, i usually am a very cuddly kind of girl i'm not a gfe but i could be a really fun person.
Everyone like to be comforted and feel comfortable. When people do that to me that makes me feel stupid as well, and then they rush out when they are done.
Even though your job s basically to be treated as an object, guys don't make it so obvious, us girls want to have fun and enjoy ourselves too!
And it doesn't make it any easier when guys talk to us like trash,or be rude and nasty.....
It was very clear that I_am_the_man didin't enjo ythe session but god! He really beat me up!
But yet there are people laughing like it's funny. This is a REVIEW BOARD not a place to insult people. Have respect for the ladies.
Most of us sp's try to be what everyone else wants you to be and that could be difficult at times, and sorry I_am_the_man for not being a sex machine that greeted you at the door with a french kiss..
The only thing that bothered me about the review is that he wrote it with so much passion as if he had a grudge against me or something.
I don't mind people voicing their opinions even though at times it may sting but thanks what you need to change what you need to change to make yourself better...i guess.
And noone can say i haven't improved from since i first got here.
Olivia.
Okay, I just checked out his review and it`s easy to see why he didn`t enjoy the session. Right from the beginning he was running an obstacle course, no wonder he was harsh.
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=97211&highlight=olivia
I think the session just got off to a wrong start which is hard to fix.
Her pics are great, she`s a knockout!
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=97211&highlight=olivia
I think the session just got off to a wrong start which is hard to fix.
Her pics are great, she`s a knockout!
Men who talk are over rated. I prefer them to just shut up and fuck me. And, if they don't co operate... well, that's why I own ball gags.
Olivia, this clip reminds of you:
http://media.putfile.com/mahnamahna
Of course thats you in the middle
http://media.putfile.com/mahnamahna
Of course thats you in the middle
Some guys like to insult a woman to try and bring her down to his level, usually b/c he's insecure about himself. I know there are websites out there "teaching" guys how to pick up women and advocating putting women down so you can prey upon their lowered self-esteem. Personally, I don't think that makes much of you as a man. I had a friend try to tell me how you should "put a girl in her place" so she'll be too self-conscious to stand up for herself; all I can say is that he's an idiot and I don't talk to him anymore (and, yeah, his mommy still made his meals and cleaned his clothes!).
The other angle is that a lot of guys think since they've paid for a girl's services, they "own" her and can do whatever they please with her. That's why you get a lot of fuckups who are exceedingly rough/perverse with escorts, since sex is just a commodity to them. Basically, they're morons.
Personally, I make it a point to let a girl know if she's doing a good job b/c I've found that they generally like to know. I could just as happily stay silent the whole time, but some of my best experiences have been with girls who got really into it once we kept communicating throughout.
The other angle is that a lot of guys think since they've paid for a girl's services, they "own" her and can do whatever they please with her. That's why you get a lot of fuckups who are exceedingly rough/perverse with escorts, since sex is just a commodity to them. Basically, they're morons.
Personally, I make it a point to let a girl know if she's doing a good job b/c I've found that they generally like to know. I could just as happily stay silent the whole time, but some of my best experiences have been with girls who got really into it once we kept communicating throughout.
