Who thinks Virgin John should go see a pro?

[Dark Chimera]

Who thinks Virgin John should go see a pro?

The following is some of his excerpts:


I am a Virgin Terbite -- hence my alias Virgin John.

Yes, I am a Christian. I just go on this discussion board and get off on the pics and descriptions of people's reviews of escorts. The concept here is that I'm going on a head-on collision with for chastisement for this path since I'm in a depressed state of mind. The Bible says the Lord loveth whom He chasteneth and corrects. I await to see what such chastening will be if a path of deliberate sin is pursued, because I already feel chastened on the fact I don't have a girlfriend because of my c0ckblocking parents. So, I'm responding to that by coming on sites like this and doing what I'm doing.

If you love the Lord your God then you will not have sex with other women you are not married to since you are commanded to be married to whomever you have sex with. Big conflict.

I have failed here because I exist here. While not having sex with anyone, I'm lusting after reviews and pics and using a fleshlight (debatable violation of Matthew 5:28 -- not to lust after women -- but debatable). However, I have life very hard with women and therefore self-pity myself and have, out of pity, allowed myself to exist here as a release for the frustrations in normal life.

Will God still love me and understand me while I'm on here? The only variable sins is masturbation and viewing pics I'm not supposed to look at. This is not as serious as going with anyone. It's light stuff. After all, I have needs and cant get married to anyone -- even the Bible acknowledges that people have needs and should get married -- but if you cant get married, then what?

So yeah, my existance represents a struggle between sexual repression, issues of faith, and extremes such as viewing reviews between escorts and clients and seeing pics.

It's good you mentioned this thread. I was just masturbating on escort Cheryl. She's really good doggie-style, I like seeing her breasts move as I hump her from behind and slapping her butt. I hear from her reviews she loves doggie-style too. Then I saw this thread here -- so this is why I did this.

I also pray to God to remove my sex-drive sometimes, so that I wont be interested in porn. He has not answered those prayers. It's my fine-print. At least I'm trying.


And he said:


My life is just a mess (not a moral type of mess), I cant move out from home, that's all I can say.
I'm 33 years old. Have lots of money, but don't have the confidence I can make it in this world since I don't have a stable source of income or a job.

My cockblocking parents aren't that bad anyway -- it's not bothering me to the extent where I would actually go all the way and use an escort. Just bothering me enough to look at softcore porn, which could include escort pics (and hardcore with Jazzmine's website - only exception to hardcore stuff).





If you thiunk he should go see one, the next big question is who?

Has to be gentle with first timers for absolute sure.

 

[Aardvark154]

Who thinks Virgin John should go see a pro?

Why just one of your choices? Assuming John is for real, unless he is from a very self-flagellating denomination and is happy with that - seeing a Cleric, seeing a Clinical Psychologist or Psychiatrist are all in order. Perhaps joining a new denomination that meets John's spiritual needs better. Last on John's list should be seeing an escort.

 

[grooverider]

If he is Catholic, this is a no-brainer. Go see a pro and then go see a priest for confession and get absolution for the sin committed. Then he gets the experience and is forgiven for the sin. At this point he can decide if sex is worth all of the fuss. Problem solved.

Of course that is, as Aardvark said, he is real and not someone trying to stir up crap.

Always in the Groove...

 

[alexmst]

Explain to me where in the Bible it says single guys can't see an SP?

My former pastor once said to me in conversation that the whole "Christianity is against sex" thing was a misunderstanding that the Puritans had, which is why they had to leave England for the New World haha. His opinion was Christianity is all for sex and sex is good - I agree.

 

[Rockslinger]

His opinion was Christianity is all for sex and sex is good - I agree.

I know from many many encounters that good Catholic Irish ladies have no problems with sex. Maybe that is why there are so many Irish ladies. (You know, Irish ladies engaged in sex produces more Irish ladies.)

 

[Dark Chimera]

If he is Catholic, this is a no-brainer. Go see a pro and then go see a priest for confession and get absolution for the sin committed. Then he gets the experience and is forgiven for the sin. At this point he can decide if sex is worth all of the fuss. Problem solved.

Of course that is, as Aardvark said, he is real and not someone trying to stir up crap.

Always in the Groove...

But then he has to pay twice! Once for the trim and once for the absolution.

But are we not assuming he is Catholic?

There is a name for paying off your sins with cash. I think it i called "an indolence." Some Priests sure got rich off it in the past.


Look, I want to make something clear.



I established this poll not to ridicule VJ but to try to give him some honest feedback.

He can accept it or reject it.

IMHO, that is what he has been asking for in a kinda not so indirect sort of kinda subconscious like sort of like Freudian kinda way, not that know WTF I am talking about. It is just a guess.


My first thought was this guy is not real.

Even if he ain't, cats like this are around and some Terbites may have these same issues.

So have some fun and vote.

But do it with consideration, not with humour in mind.

 

[Rockslinger]

My concern is that a poll like this can really fuck up (excuse the pun) someone's life. It is like when the white man "discovered" the New World and messed up the indigenous ecosystem that had been around for a billion years.

 

[genintoronto]

I'll go with my usual approach on life for this one:

I give people the same credit and respect I expect from them, ie, I assume that they are the best judge to make the decisions and choices over how they want to live their lives. In plain english, it means that it's not my place to make the call on what John should do, and insofar as he is not hurting me or others with his life choices, I have no fucking business discussing and judging his life.

 

[grooverider]

My concern is that a poll like this can really fuck up (excuse the pun) someone's life. It is like when the white man "discovered" the New World and messed up the indigenous ecosystem that had been around for a billion years.

Bad comparison. Changing up the eco-system is one thing, if it had it's own chance to grow and develop with minimal influence. That is wrong.
This guy has been affected by many influences in his life that have been affected in the same way as him. Most likely he was rarely, if ever, exposed to an opposing opinion as strongly as he was raised with. He wasn't given a "fair" chance to explore this subject without being told that sex is an "evil dirty sin" unless you are married .
It's obvious that he wants to try it, he's just looking for a push in that direction. Whatever he choses it's still his choice and it's up to him to deal with the fallout.

Always in the Groove...

 

[Rockslinger]

I'll go with my usual approach on life for this one

Gen, is that you? Are you back? Your usual approach sounds fine to me.

 

[genintoronto]

Gen, is that you? Are you back? Your usual approach sounds fine to me.

Yah, it's me. I'm going for a gradual detox style, rather than quiting cold-turkey. My doc thinks it has better odds of success in the long run.

[/back to lurking]

 

[Dark Chimera]

I'll go with my usual approach on life for this one:

I give people the same credit and respect I expect from them, ie, I assume that they are the best judge to make the decisions and choices over how they want to live their lives. In plain english, it means that it's not my place to make the call on what John should do, and insofar as he is not hurting me or others with his life choices, I have no fucking business discussing and judging his life.

First, it is him who has discussed his life. These are his quotes.

Second, I think he is asking for help, I am not ridiculing him, like other have been.

Third, this is the place to do it because of the total anonymous factor.

So I do not believe I am being a jerk here, at least I hope not.

Fourth, I suspect this guy is not who he says he is and is just getting off on pretending. Which means he does have issues but not the ones stated.

My only reason I think he may be real is that he does have some knowledge of the bible, otherwise I would be calling shill on this one.

 

[oil&gas]

My former pastor once said to me in conversation that the whole "Christianity is against sex" thing was a misunderstanding that the Puritans had, which is why they had to leave England for the New World haha. His opinion was Christianity is all for sex and sex is good - I agree.

What your pastor meant to say, I guess, was his
particular congregation is all for sex. Oh boy, I
wish I can find a church like that to join.

Believe it or not there is this church active on
the campus of the school I attended
whose pastor I got to know well during my
student years would take to arrange marriages
among the members. I presume none of them
engaged in pre-marital sex as the pastor was
pretty strict in enforcing the behaviour code.
The male and female brethrens mingled together
most of the time only in social activities such
as Bible-group-studies. Prior to their marriages
the soon-to-be-married guys and gals hardly
ever touched each other let alone having sex
One of my schoolmate even speculated that
dating was not permitted until after the
wedding ceremony in this church.

To be fair those couples from the arranged marriages at least
on its surface appeared to be living happily. Even as
an unbeliever I do wonder if having a common faith could be
beneficial.

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[Rockslinger]

I presume none of them
engaged in pre-marital sex as the pastor was
pretty strict in enforcing the behaviour code.

I think Bryan Gumbal went to the same school. They were taught that even having thoughts of sex was sinful.

 

[Dark Chimera]

I think Bryan Gumbal went to the same school. They were taught that even having thoughts of sex was sinful.

Hardly unusual. We were taught that such thoughts were wrong and one should ask forgivness but they were natural and not to feel guilty.

This always fucked me up.

This is natural and you must feel guilty and ask for forgiveness but do not feel guilty because it is natural.

Typical Christian nonsense.

Oh yeah, do not argue with the minister was another one.