Who needs the opposite sex more?

Who needs who the most?

  • Men need a woman

    Votes: 59 72.8%
  • Women need a man

    Votes: 22 27.2%

  • Total voters
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stang

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I'm contemplative and wondering.
While I know how I feel, I have no idea how the opposite sex feels.

So who needs an SO and can't do without more?
I'm not necessarily talking just sex. It's a factor of coarse but maybe the answer is deeper.
 

LKD

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we could argue for either... I think men need women more for sex, while women just need a guy to call him her man, for the most part
 

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I think men need women more....I think it falls in to the fact that they were mothered, and still feel that need. Women on the other hand can get by just fine without.

I know alot of seperated or widowed people and it seems that 90% of the men get remarried, but not the women
 

steeverus

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Men DEFINITELY need women more.
Just look at the escort industry. How many male agencies(non gay) can you come up with - not that I've checked but I'm sure they're no where near as many as female.
As for women needing men - there's never a hole big enough that shopping can't sustain - of course it always helps when she's spending a guys money.
 

LKD

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steeverus said:
Men DEFINITELY need women more.
Just look at the escort industry. How many male agencies(non gay) can you come up with - not that I've checked but I'm sure they're no where near as many as female.
As for women needing men - there's never a hole big enough that shopping can't sustain - of course it always helps when she's spending a guys money.
yeah I don't think anything, not even shopping, can beat a man's need for pussy
 

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steeverus said:
Men DEFINITELY need women more.
Just look at the escort industry. How many male agencies(non gay) can you come up with - not that I've checked but I'm sure they're no where near as many as female.
As for women needing men - there's never a hole big enough that shopping can't sustain - of course it always helps when she's spending a guys money.
There's no male escorts because any 1/2 decent looking woman can get laid any and every night.
 

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just doesn't add up...

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ang said:
I know alot of separated or widowed people and it seems that 90% of the men get remarried, but not the women
90% of the men get remarried? but not the women??? Then may I ask just who the fuck all those men are remarrying???
 
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A Very Clear Point!

One thing that most definitely needs to be cleared up here:

Who NEEDS the opposite sex more?

vs.

Who WANTS the opposite sex more?

I will state, from personal experience women NEED the opposite sex more in order to satisfy their need for security, children, loneliness and aging. Sex is secondary to all these NEEDS. Women will go to great lengths in order to not be alone.

Men, I find, WANT the opposite sex more. The ultimate male dream is to have sex with any woman you want, anytime you want, anywhere you want with no sense of commitment, consequence or responsibility. Men still want their life, their family and their children. They just want to have recreational sex at their leisure without it impacting their fundamental life. Men can separate Sex and Love easier than women can. Sex is primary to all these WANTS. Men will go to great lengths in order to have good sex.

I am very much looking forward to all the varying opinions that will follow this post.
 

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Men need women more. Most to replace their moms. Most single men I know are pathetic. And the married ones have a women to keep them in line. Whereas most women can take care of themselves. Although the need for motherhood leads them to some pretty bad mistakes. Thus the 50% divorce rate which I believe is low. Most of the remaining 50% want out.
 

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wop said:
90% of the men get remarried? but not the women??? Then may I ask just who the fuck all those men are remarrying???
The math does add up because women outnumber men 3 to 2 pass the age of 50. So, the 2 men marry 2 women and there is still one woman to spare.

I think women outnumber men 3 to 1 pass the age of 55 in Russia. There are very few men in Russia over the age of 55 and that is why Russia is quickly depopulating.
 

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Bridgeman said:
One thing that most definitely needs to be cleared up here:

Who NEEDS the opposite sex more?

vs.

Who WANTS the opposite sex more?

I will state, from personal experience women NEED the opposite sex more in order to satisfy their need for security, children, loneliness and aging. Sex is secondary to all these NEEDS. Women will go to great lengths in order to not be alone.

Men, I find, WANT the opposite sex more. The ultimate male dream is to have sex with any woman you want, anytime you want, anywhere you want with no sense of commitment, consequence or responsibility. Men still want their life, their family and their children. They just want to have recreational sex at their leisure without it impacting their fundamental life. Men can separate Sex and Love easier than women can. Sex is primary to all these WANTS. Men will go to great lengths in order to have good sex.

I am very much looking forward to all the varying opinions that will follow this post.

I agree.

The funny thing about Sharon Stone's quote is that men aren't necessarily faking the relationship. The quote assumes that for men, the sexual exclusivity is the foundation of the relationship. The actual truth is, notwithstanding what people think or say, is that sexual exclusivity is not that important to men and definitely not as important to men as it is to women (except maybe her exclusivity to him, but not his to her).

Anyways...

We need each other. Men produce sperm, women have the eggs. Without both, extinction ensues. Simple as that.
 

hinz

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Men need women more and women know it, except many of them are nice, discrete enough not to say the obvious-cause women have pussies and men love them, not the feline :rolleyes:

Personally I am single and self-sufficent the majority of the time. I am at best getting sick and tired and at worst mad when the civilian chicks, hottie in particular taunt to men they are indispensible and they could get away with everything.

Having read many "chick" stuffs (maybe never enough) and experienced interactions the first hand, all I could say women needs men equally more, except women are good at manipulating the situation to their advantages.

Some, Asian chicks in particular are consummated like a pro to give the men false impression that after men giving/bribing gifts from LV, Prada, Cartier, Hermes and buying expensive dinners, she's going to appreciate and get intimate but it turned out you are in her control and she's mind-f**king you all along. To add insult to injury, she did this on purpose even though she earns more than you do and dump you once you are short of both patience and cash flow. She's essentially prostituting without providing FS and thus in her own mind, she feel she has higher morality than the SPs/MPAs.

For others, women would need men more due to a combination of women's laziness and lack of financial disciplines. This is especially obvious when the man's family (not necessarily himself) is wealthy. To her, he's a ticket for DB plan (Define benefit pension plan)/annuity, even for the Ladies who have financially rewarding careers.

It's hard to resist the tempation for those Ladies who earn high paying jobs to date the men who are deemed "wealthy" enough to pay recurring expense using his own money, while having him to transfer his portion of "fun" money to her so that together with her take home pay, she could spend heavily, even incurring significantly debt loads on luxurious items mentioned above cause she is entitled and deserved it !!

Again, not all Ladies are going to these two extremes but for the majority of those who are somewhere in between, you are out of luck cause many of them consider men as either hardcore "hobbyists"/"pigs" or grown up/immature teenage boys who could not be "trained" by them and instead absorbing himself to the world of comic books, Xbox 360, PSP 3 but not Nitendo Wii!!
 

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hinz said:
It's hard to resist the tempation for those Ladies who earn high paying jobs to date the men who are deemed "wealthy" enough to pay recurring expense
Interesting comment. Has anybody ever seen a woman date "down" the economic/social ladder? (BTW SC dancers don't count for this survey.) In my experience, it seems that all the women date "up".
 

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SkyRider said:
Interesting comment. Has anybody ever seen a woman date "down" the economic/social ladder? (BTW SC dancers don't count for this survey.) In my experience, it seems that all the women date "up".
Women, Asian chicks/"hotties" in particular do not date, let alone marry "down" the economic/social ladder by choice. They usually date "up". The word always could be too hot for some to handle ;)

Plus, that depend on the colour of the guys in question. Many hotties, regardless of the colour prefer to date first white or Jewish guys, then Latino or Black dudes and lastly Arabs, Persian, South Asian or East Asian men assuming the economic/social ladders for all these guys are identical. It sounds politically incorrect but that's the norm. Still there's a glimpse of hope the barriers are breaking down.
 

jeezy

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its true, asian chicks are gold diggers, especially towards outside the race, when the last time you've seen an asian chick dating a guy who's poor?
 

hinz

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jeezy said:
its true, asian chicks are gold diggers, especially towards outside the race
LOL, it's soooo common that I think it's normal :rolleyes:

BTW, it could happen to hotties of other colour, except the Asian ones have higher profile.....

jeezy said:
when the last time you've seen an asian chick dating a guy who's poor?
Do you mean Asian guy?? He could be poor White guy who is still wealthier than some Asian guys......
 

jeezy

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i find asian women to be so tight, their demands are too high, they want university guys from top schools, wealthy family, the guy has to have a otp notch vehicle, top job, he cant be a drinker, he cant smoke, too much demands, i notice this in indian women too, at least with a white girl thats non-european (a newfie) she only cares that you like to party and have a pulse.
 

hinz

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jeezy said:
i find asian women to be so tight, their demands are too high, they want university guys from top schools, wealthy family, the guy has to have a otp notch vehicle, top job, he cant be a drinker, he cant smoke, too much demands, i notice this in indian women too
Wonder why those men, though told to be small in size would rather hobbying to date these high maintenance wannabe.

BTW you forget to mention those guys must be fully aware that the numbers of LV, Prada, Hermes, not Coach bags she receives as gifts are more than just trophies. They're the reminders of the number of anniversary they are still together.

And don't even dare to give the made-in-China counterfeits or being on the cheap, cause these are just a "down payment" for 2+ carat diamond wedding ring if by now you still have the resources to marry her :eek:

jeezy said:
at least with a white girl thats non-european (a newfie) she only cares that you like to party and have a pulse.
Regarding non-European, do you mean EE? They could share similar trait to the Asian and Indian counterparts mentioned above.
 
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