I 'casual date' and pickup. I like 'civi-girl' variety for sex. If I'm in Lub I can be dragged in a monoto- err- monogamous relationship. In that formative and glowy phase I give up SCs, after that glowy phase I give up anything that involves fluid exchange or me spooging in a SC... With that being said, my longest relationships have been measured in years... At about the decade mark I might very well be 'hunting for more'.