Who are these guys at restaurants with SPs?

[Kracker]

Been out a few times recently at high end downtown restaurants and there are always a few tables with a 40/50 year old guy and a 20/30 year old girl out of their league.

I hobby mostly with agency incalls but have had a quick drink out with a few before or during longer sessions.

For those of you who regularly do outcalls, what do you assume when you see a young beauty out with an older guy? That it’s a date? Or is probably a paid session?

And if paid is it generally a lock that they’re headed back to fuck?

What’s a whole evening like that cost?

I honestly have trouble thinking of many SPs I’d want to spend that kind of time with.

 

[NotADcotor]

For those of you who regularly do outcalls, what do you assume when you see a young beauty out with an older guy? That it’s a date? Or is probably a paid session?

When I see any dude with a chick out of his league for whatever reason, I usually assume either the guy is rich or a drug dealer or something to that effect. Maybe the guy is famous in a way I don't know or has valuable connections. I suppose it's prostitution via barter but meh.
If it's an age thing it could be a girl with severe daddy issues. I had something like that fall into my lap once, really attractive to my fugly chudness about 20 years younger. I don't have money or status or connections but she had severe daddy issues and issues in general. Sadly she bolted.

There is a world beyond the hobby.

 

[Jaguar17]

When I see any dude with a chick out of his league for whatever reason, I usually assume either the guy is rich or a drug dealer or something to that effect. Maybe the guy is famous in a way I don't know or has valuable connections. I suppose it's prostitution via barter but meh.
If it's an age thing it could be a girl with severe daddy issues. I had something like that fall into my lap once, really attractive to my fugly chudness about 20 years younger. I don't have money or status or connections but she had severe daddy issues and issues in general. Sadly she bolted.

There is a world beyond the hobby.

Assume what you want.
Clearly there are other possibilities.
Perhaps she just likes my company. And enjoys our time together. And a free meal doesn't hurt either.

One of my faves wanted to go to a French restaurant after our make-out session. She brought a 2nd outfit.
Changed into a pink beret with a pink foo-foo blouse, burgundy mini-shirt, and red stilettos.

Lots of people staring at us. No doubt whispering too! Couldn't give two shits about that.
Relax! She was but 39 years my junior.

J17

 

[celerystick]

Been out a few times recently at high end downtown restaurants and there are always a few tables with a 40/50 year old guy and a 20/30 year old girl out of their league.

I hobby mostly with agency incalls but have had a quick drink out with a few before or during longer sessions.

For those of you who regularly do outcalls, what do you assume when you see a young beauty out with an older guy? That it’s a date? Or is probably a paid session?

And if paid is it generally a lock that they’re headed back to fuck?

What’s a whole evening like that cost?

I honestly have trouble thinking of many SPs I’d want to spend that kind of time with.

Seems to me you're the one with too many personal "issues", obsessed with the private behaviour of other people ??
Your comments remind me of the old blues song line "mind your own business and you won't be minding mine" !!

 

[Soup]

I know a guy in his mid 70s who's pick up line is: "I might be very old, but I'm also very rich". He told me that at his gf's 29th birthday party.

Apparently the previous location of Hy's Steakhouse was a prime location for such meet-ups - not sure about the new place, though. Heard that the bar at the Hazelton Hotel is similar.

And, of course, the couple the OP saw could very well have met on one of the primary advertisers here: Seeking Arrangement.

 

[jalimon]

Once I brought the girl to an open kitchen restaurant. The cooks and other clients were looking at my girl like crazy. I did not give a shit.
It's only when we were leaving that I told her. She went in front of the kitchen, said hello guys thanks for the food it was awesome. Then flashed them her beautiful tits haha

Many older clients do dinner date it's quite common. Some pay only for that so it's hard to compete!

 

[pickeringrob]

I assume they're rich. We’re in an age where young women don’t want to work and actively seek sugar daddies.

 

[Micber]

Could be a father taking out his daughter?

Why does it matter anyway?

 

[ivyrosequinn]

I have nothing to add regarding the relationship between strangers, but it depends on the provider... Some girls charge the same for their time regardless. Some girls charge different amounts for dates that involve dinner or other activities outside of the bedroom.

 

[CarGuy23]

Why do you care? I smell insecurity from miles.

 

[jalimon]

Why do you care? I smell insecurity from miles.

For myself it's not insecurity it's jealousy!

Just kidding

 

[jerbear15]

Been out a few times recently at high end downtown restaurants and there are always a few tables with a 40/50 year old guy and a 20/30 year old girl out of their league.

I hobby mostly with agency incalls but have had a quick drink out with a few before or during longer sessions.

For those of you who regularly do outcalls, what do you assume when you see a young beauty out with an older guy? That it’s a date? Or is probably a paid session?

And if paid is it generally a lock that they’re headed back to fuck?

What’s a whole evening like that cost?

I honestly have trouble thinking of many SPs I’d want to spend that kind of time with.

I go with my reg on special occasions etc birthday's and Xmas. I enjoy it and it's a hobby and it's meant to be fun. Sometimes it's on the clock and sometimes it's not.

 

[nut goodie]

I’ve gone on dinner dates off and on starting in my 40s when the age difference wasn’t a big deal. More recently in Montreal in my late fifties with a provider in her mid-twenties. That got me a lot of WTF looks from other patrons (tbh, she was much younger looking than her stated age).

I’m not a rich guy; on occasion I just like to have an enjoyable evening this way with the ladies. They’re all interesting in their own way to talk to, once you get out of the ‘office’ they tend to let their guard down if you’re being respectful.

The last dinner date was in TO almost two years ago, in my early sixties… last play visit anywhere since the shit hit the fan. Went out with a lady I had seen twice before for play only. Had a great time, no one really batted an eye; she’s a more mature lady. Even felt like a genuine GF date…got admonished a bit back at her incall for my choice of wine with our dinner

it can be much fun, just don’t get hung up on what others think. That’s one benefit of being an older man, I just don’t worry about it.

 

[KittyCaterina]

I regularly go on dinner dates, usually with "dessert" afterwards.

Do I charge for my time during dinner? Or do I just enjoy the company of the person I'm with during dinner? Does it depend on the client?

As someone said above, who knows? It is nobody's business.

 

[foxxxy lady]

I assume they're rich. We’re in an age where young women don’t want to work and actively seek sugar daddies.

I believe it has always happened throughout history these young girls or more mature woman are very professional and are providing companionship and sexual services. It is totally a profession that requires many skills.

Xo Amber aka Jessica Rabbit.

 

[Kracker]

Ok cool - mostly what I thought, generally paid of some sort and client not caring about the look.

I do a lot of industry dinners that involve younger pretty girls but generally we’re not necking in a dark corner so the difference in relationship is relatively clear.

 

[NotADcotor]

Or.. you can put on a major show of public display of affection and when people start looking, with your best redneck or newfie accent say
"It's allright, she's my daughter/niece."
Double down and give them something to really talk about.

 

[massman]

Been out a few times recently at high end downtown restaurants and there are always a few tables with a 40/50 year old guy and a 20/30 year old girl out of their league.

I hobby mostly with agency incalls but have had a quick drink out with a few before or during longer sessions.

For those of you who regularly do outcalls, what do you assume when you see a young beauty out with an older guy? That it’s a date? Or is probably a paid session?

And if paid is it generally a lock that they’re headed back to fuck?

What’s a whole evening like that cost?

I honestly have trouble thinking of many SPs I’d want to spend that kind of time with.

Not that I’ve done it, but if I had the time, opportunity, there are definitely a few regular girls I’ve seen before that I’d gladly do a dinner date, with “dessert “ after. I usually can’t block off an entire evening for such an encounter tho

You did remind me of a story from a long time ago. I was out at a then fairly exclusive downtown TO restaurant, I think it was during TIFF. At the next table was a very famous (now deceased) actor, with two smoking hot women, “out of his league” if not for the fact he was a rich actor. It was fairly clear from the way they interacted that they did not know each other well. I assumed they were SPs (or maybe “groupie” types, who knows), and that he was going to have a very good double dessert when he got back to the hotel.

 

[Soccersweeper]

Could be a mistress. The Chase was a prime spot for that pre COVID.

 

[lurkerdick]

If you have to ask - it's out of your league.