Him: He's young (mid-late 20's). Seemed nice at first, but things progressed in a way which made it less than comfortable.
Where: Outcall to his residence in central Whitby.
-Finances clearly not typically an issue based on location, clothing, vehicle, etc. so I didn't insist up front.
When problems arose: Interaction wasn't ideal once things changed from a verbal to a physical discourse. There was a push for extended services I wasn't really comfortable with. I insisted on coverage for activities and got the "even for your bum". He was less than thrilled but I held my ground on coverage. It was a matter of picking my battle and I chose to bend my will on another point.
Quite frankly I have been so spoiled by the sweet men I typically spend time with it caught me off guard to be walking out the door 2 hours later without any financial aspects handled, and feeling more than a little violated.
I have to do some reevaluation. I've gone with the finances at the end all along and am truly saddened to think this will potentially change how I handle a first meeting from now on.
Email divinely.lily@gmail.com for information please from your provider email only. I don't take sharing of information lightly, and will verify you are a provider before sharing any details. I did clear my inbox here but really would prefer to keep that from being overloaded.
I have:
Cell number, email address, residential address & photo.
Where: Outcall to his residence in central Whitby.
-Finances clearly not typically an issue based on location, clothing, vehicle, etc. so I didn't insist up front.
When problems arose: Interaction wasn't ideal once things changed from a verbal to a physical discourse. There was a push for extended services I wasn't really comfortable with. I insisted on coverage for activities and got the "even for your bum". He was less than thrilled but I held my ground on coverage. It was a matter of picking my battle and I chose to bend my will on another point.
Quite frankly I have been so spoiled by the sweet men I typically spend time with it caught me off guard to be walking out the door 2 hours later without any financial aspects handled, and feeling more than a little violated.
I have to do some reevaluation. I've gone with the finances at the end all along and am truly saddened to think this will potentially change how I handle a first meeting from now on.
Email divinely.lily@gmail.com for information please from your provider email only. I don't take sharing of information lightly, and will verify you are a provider before sharing any details. I did clear my inbox here but really would prefer to keep that from being overloaded.
I have:
Cell number, email address, residential address & photo.
