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Anywhere. It is not about the place but about your attitude. Just be social, go out with people to do whatever interests you, and you will meet lots of people--half of them women.
So rephrase the question as "how do I meet PEOPLE", make new connections both male and female, single and couples, and as you get involved in more activities you will just naturally run into more single women, to whom you won't be a creepy stranger but introduced by a friend.
If you ONLY want to meet women you will have to reconsider the online thing. There isn't any place women go hoping to meet strange men. At all. Not even clubs. They expect to socialize with friends.
Yes you can walk up to strange women and try the pickup lines but if you were the fit, charming attractive sort that works for you wouldn't have started this thread, and even fit, charming, attractive men do better with women they meet through mutual friends.
So rephrase the question as "how do I meet PEOPLE", make new connections both male and female, single and couples, and as you get involved in more activities you will just naturally run into more single women, to whom you won't be a creepy stranger but introduced by a friend.
If you ONLY want to meet women you will have to reconsider the online thing. There isn't any place women go hoping to meet strange men. At all. Not even clubs. They expect to socialize with friends.
Yes you can walk up to strange women and try the pickup lines but if you were the fit, charming attractive sort that works for you wouldn't have started this thread, and even fit, charming, attractive men do better with women they meet through mutual friends.
Co-ed sports leagues like Toronto Sports and Social Club.
Lots of activity groups on Meetup.com or EventBrite
Take a course
Join a singles tour group and go on a trip
Volunteer
Lots of activity groups on Meetup.com or EventBrite
Take a course
Join a singles tour group and go on a trip
Volunteer
Lol I remember a couple of guys in undergrad invited me to go church hopping with them on Sunday mornings. They mapped out the service by time and the hotness of the girls.
They said Catholic girls were the best!
Did you draw the line at funeral hopping?Lol I remember a couple of guys in undergrad invited me to go church hopping with them on Sunday mornings. They mapped out the service by time and the hotness of the girls.
They said Catholic girls were the best!
Take night courses at the university: a lot of girls that are single and looking to advance their professional career will be there, most of them are looking for SO ... i m talking from experience
Take dance lessons: I did take dance lessons and boy it was overwhelming.... a lot of girls and a few guys.
and last there are sites like meetup.com where bunch of singles organize social activities for fun and also to meet new friends... this is not a dating site so there is no pressure and it s fun.
Take dance lessons: I did take dance lessons and boy it was overwhelming.... a lot of girls and a few guys.
and last there are sites like meetup.com where bunch of singles organize social activities for fun and also to meet new friends... this is not a dating site so there is no pressure and it s fun.
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Billy Joel..."Only the Good Die Young"Lol I remember a couple of guys in undergrad invited me to go church hopping with them on Sunday mornings. They mapped out the service by time and the hotness of the girls.
They said Catholic girls were the best!
Time to look in the mirror
1 do you present yourself well in terms of appearance?
2 Are you a social introvert who cannot converse well around females?
If the answer is yes to 1 and no to 2 then the answer is everywhere and nowhere
By that I mean it can be anywhere if you get lucky and by that I mean you meet someone you like and she likes you but it is up to luck
So keep your self open to such luck but do not desperately pursue it and it will happen on its own
Not in my experience as guys out number girls as Goodlife does have clubs that are female only. The girls often have headphones
What is your experience?
My only positive experience at Goodlife happened a few years ago but it is my favorite one . You will soon learn why
I noticed a cute spinner who worked there and was very outgoing
She noticed I had noticed and would look away whenever I was near
I took that to mean I had bothered her
That happens, unfortunately, when playing the game
The game goes something like this, according to experts who study the ritual of human mating
1 You notice a girl or she notices you
2 You, or she, now have to make the other party notice that you notice
3 the other party now has to respond.
4 If the other party is a male it is your job to initiate conversation
5 If the other party is female she has to signal interest IE one signal is to smile when she thinks you are watching. Another is often subconscious signals such as hair stroking. These signals are often not understood through your conscious, so having them explained by a scientist who has studied them is quite interesting. There are internet vids on them
6 But the cute spinner would look away, which is a signal of disinterest, so I now feel awkward so I pretend my noticing of her was not intentional
One day I was on a machine when she poped out of nowhere and took up the machine next to me. The machine was a pec fly. I soon noticed she had taken off her bra and her nipples on her small but perky breasts were now flagrant erect pokies which she was proudly displaying. A rather bold body language signal of interest (I told you she was very outgoing)
She saw I was alone beside the pec fly machine so she made a quick decision to take advantage of the opportunity and went into the the change room and took of her bra then get on the pec fly
Now that I reflect upon it, she had to quickly play with her nipples to get them hard. Maybe she licked them or rubbed ice on them.
Her original looking away from me was not one of disinterest. It was a female signal of interest by pretending to be shy. No way was she shy.
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The game is subtle.
Do not buy this guys stuff as info can be found for free in documentaries which is where he probably got his info. But the 7 signals he mentions seem solid. As I mentioned in step 5 her smiling is the biggest signal of interest. The hair stroke I mentioned is number 6 signal n this vid
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But are they not Christians ? and Christianity says sex outside marriage is a venial ("forgivable" ) sin
I think it may even be a mortal sin if (according to St Thomas Aquinas)
1.the act was grave matter
2.the act was done with full knowledge of the grave and sinful nature of the act
3. the act was done with full consent of the will
It seems to me adultery may qualify
There are plenty of women I know that go to church (especially ones raising children), that don't necessarily follow all the rules.
Seems to me they want to lay a foundation for their children.
understood that not all Christians are fundamentalists , but a couple of TERBS are making it sound like a pick up place
lots of babes at a church because they look so good dressed up so maybe it wishful thinking
You should join clubs and do extracurricular activities consistent with your interests and therein you have a likelihood of meeting others whom you would share a mutual interest.
I didn't have in mind the church being a place to
pick up chicks for fun. I don't go to church myself
and I believe its teaching is based on falsehood.
That doesn't change the fact that attending church
as a social activity is pretty normal in our society.
Large proportion of visa students in my school
years were involved in some on-campus religious
organizations in my student days. A lot of immigrants
from Asia would participate in church activities as a way
to widen their social circle. If you ever settle down in a
small town far from the city church is one place where
you might get to know the locals. If you don't hold
any animosity against religion I guess going to
the church with finding a wife/husband in mind is fine.
I won't be surprised if there are atheists going to
Sunday church.
