When you're not allowed to come on the MA

[rexscott]

I had this happen for the first time my last time at a spa. About to come, asked where I could do it, and she pointed my member at the towel and said, "Here."

Have never had that happen before. Usually tits or ass is the preferred, and allowable, target.

So, would this be a dealbreaker for you guys? I know it's a small part of the experience, and it should be measured against the entirety of how she makes you feel, but it kinds of ends things on a sour note.

 

[ButtMonkey]

Communication is key… discuss expectations before, not after. Everybody has their limits.

 

[John_Jacob]

I had this happen for the first time my last time at a spa. About to come, asked where I could do it, and she pointed my member at the towel and said, "Here."

Have never had that happen before. Usually tits or ass is the preferred, and allowable, target.

So, would this be a dealbreaker for you guys? I know it's a small part of the experience, and it should be measured against the entirety of how she makes you feel, but it kinds of ends things on a sour note.

this has never come up for me. I’m curious, are you finishing yourself in this scenario?
talking with one mp, she does prefer her body over the floor… now I know why they don’t want their clothes to hit the floor.

 

[ButtMonkey]

this has never come up for me. I’m curious, are you finishing yourself in this scenario?
talking with one mp, she does prefer her body over the floor… now I know why they don’t want their clothes to hit the floor.

 

[rexscott]

this has never come up for me. I’m curious, are you finishing yourself in this scenario?
talking with one mp, she does prefer her body over the floor… now I know why they don’t want their clothes to hit the floor.

I've rarely even touched my own thing in a session. Heh I do that at home; in a spa it's for the girl to handle.

I suppose it could/should be discussed at the outset. But my outset rules-establishment has been about where I can touch and where I can't and if kissing is allowed. I've never even thought to ask about where I can come at the end. I suppose I might do that now, just so that I can either avoid the sudden disappointment, but also potentially have something to look forward to.

 

[John_Jacob]

I've rarely even touched my own thing in a session. Heh I do that at home; in a spa it's for the girl to handle.

True. Then I assume it's for the girl to decide where you cum I suppose as she's the one "directing"? Then again, I like her to keep going for a few minutes after so I suppose it's always over me..meh.

 

[rexscott]

True. Then I assume it's for the girl to decide where you cum I suppose as she's the one "directing"? Then again, I like her to keep going for a few minutes after so I suppose it's always over me..meh.

Ugh, that's the worst. I do not want to spray the fire hose all over my own body, would rather she point me over the side of the bed/table and let me shoot it on the floor :/

 

[Capital Amatuer]

Ugh, that's the worst. I do not want to spray the fire hose all over my own body, would rather she point me over the side of the bed/table and let me shoot it on the floor :/

What spas do you guys visit ? I'll make sure to wear my rubber boots. Maybe my thigh high fishing waders...

 

[Kendalldoll]

I used to let guys finish on my tits, but it shot me in the face (by complete accident, poor guy felt SO bad) once so now I don’t unless I know the guy and know it doesn’t shoot everywhere .
I rarely have guys even ask “where” they can finish, they just do it in the position we’re currently in.
But yeah just discuss things before a session! Twitter is really good for that or some spas let you do quick 2 minute consultations before deciding. Communication is key.

 

[John_Jacob]

Ugh, that's the worst. I do not want to spray the fire hose all over my own body, would rather she point me over the side of the bed/table and let me shoot it on the floor :/

I'm all sweaty, she's been rubbing her body and private parts all over me, what's one more fluid that I'm going to shower off? In for a penny, in for a pound.