When is it warranted?

[Tomoreno]

I noticed a common complaint. Seems like hobbyists go to see some SPs who's photos or profile description don't live up to reality. Also, there's an issue of services being advertised but not performed.

We spend quite a bit of time and money doing this. You're already invested when you knock on that door. Being dissapointed because of inaccurate representation is not a good start because you can't help but feel deceived.

At what point do you consider canceling and walking out? What would that threshold be?

 

[harbourhavoc]

If you feel there is misrepresentation, you should walk out as you so please. For me personally, it would take a huge downgrade from pics to real life for me to walk out. I’ve done it, but very seldom.

 

[Tomoreno]

Of course you can choose to leave unless you walk into a law enforcement operation.
I don't see leaving as an easy option though. First of all it'd suck for you and her/them. Secondly, common practice is to hand over donation, then take a shower.
At point do you decide this isn't happening and how?
Do you have a long look and decide if you want to come in or decide after shower and ask for money back? On what grounds? Do you give a reason?

 

[harbourhavoc]

Once you hand the money over all bets are off. The point I decided this wasn’t happening is when I see her in real life for the first time. Yes it does suck to walk out and for me it has to be a major downgrade. Pretty much to the point where I would not want it for free.

 

[RLTF]

When I show up to the location and it's an old mama-san instead of a 20 year old hottie, and a bedsheet divides the living room. I'm outta heeerrrrre.