What's your idea of hot?

[Paladin]

The Toronto Star has an article in the Idea section on "What's your idea of hot?"

http://www.thestar.com/NASApp/cs/Co...le&cid=1108207451814&call_pageid=970599119419

The four panelists attempt to distinguish between "hot", "sexy" and "beautiful". It's all very subjective, but there is an argument that "beauty" can be defined more objectively than "hot" or "sexy". The basic thesis is that there are certain commonly accepted physical characteristics and traits that define "beauty".

I tend to agree that "beauty" can be measured as a generally accepted set of physical physical characteristics and traits, but "hot" and "sexy" are purely the perception of the individual observer.

The fundamental problem is that most people don't establish a distinction between what they consider "hot", "sexy" or "beautiful" when they talk about someone.

I would define a "goddess" as a woman who is simultaneously considered to be "beautiful", "sexy" and "hot" by 95% of the people who gaze upon her.

 

[pool]

I think there are some common elements that characterise "beautiful", "hot" and "sexy". All are subjective to some degree as well as each one having the ability to enhance another. There are also different "universal" preconceived stereotypes that help people define who is hot, beautiful and/or sexy.

I didn't read the article - it's too confusing

 

[Svend]

I'd say all the terms are equally subjective.
Each pocket or niche in a society tends to narrow down the definitions to come to some agreements.
For me in a women, it's the enthusiasm or awareness factor you see in her eyes or smile that really makes a difference.
A nice firm round ass too.

 

[Berlin]

... 34 degrees celcius, 80% plus humidity. Farking hot.

 

[ThePunkPanther]

hmmm now that requires thought....

lots of brains [smart is sexy]
lots of body art [tongue piercings and things]
healthy [ie: NOT morbidly obese]
tight black shiny stuff [PVC/Latex/Leather]

and last of all......

no weird headtrips/headgames/issues ...

thats about all i can cum up with off the top of my twisted skull

cheers

 

[y2kmark]

Hot?

If she posts a picture of herself with her ankles behind her head - that's hot!

 

[nautilus]

Beautiful: She spits

Sexy: She swallows

Hot: She gargles

 

[pool]

sexy

hot

beautiful

 

[FunSeeker27]

sexy

hot

beautiful

Damnn Poolie....you are definately right!! Throw in Angelina Jolie, and I think we have the makings of a very wet dream.

 

[goodtime]

Beauty from within

...Hot, sexy and beautiful has more to do with how one feels about themselves then what OTHER people judge it to be. I'm no Miss Canada, but those that love me love me lots *Big Grin* I once didn't have ANY self esteem, but then I started travelling the world and realized North American's standard of beauty is very different from the rest of the world. African, latin americans and a lot of americans find me "goddess" like..... At the end of the day it's a hard life to live by your physical beauty ONLY, because no matter how hot you are, you will grow old and time will take ahold unless your Sophia Loren or Isabella Rosselini, but then again they are hot because they are confident, strong, empowered and independant women

Reading Jenna Jameson's biography you realize it doesn't matter how hot/sexy/beautiful you are perceived to be, because if you feel ugly on the inside, nothing can take that away.

I personally would prefer to be judged by my intelligence, whit, charm, compassion, strength and my ability to "blow" you away then beauty. LOL For every body/shape/type there is someone who will find you beautiful! For instance one of my many types is toothpick skinny geek white guys LMAO Now most ppl wouldn't find a toothpick sexy, but I do *winks & shrugs* And as many men do find fake boobs sexy, I don't, so I don't date girls who have fake boobies. The natural boobie is such a beautiful thing!!!! At cute and kinky I'm privileged to be surronded by the most diverse collection of real & beautiful boobs (just want to reach out and touch em all) roflmao.

So to each his own, I subscribe to the belief that we are all beautiful!

So true. Beauty comes from within. When one is confident of their outward appearance, they give off a positive energy that people like to be close to and admire.

Paige, as you said. You may not be the N.American Vogue coverpage, but as you radiate that sexual kama, I'm sure not many man can turn you down. Picture Paige sucking on a red cherry lolipop in a see-thru gown.

My personal preference are petite women as BBW may be too much for me to handle. Perhaps I'm not experienced enough. Regardless, plus size women can be beautful and object of desire. Beauty are from with-in.

 

[pool]

So true. Beauty comes from within. When one is confident of their outward appearance, they give off a positive energy that people like to be close to and admire.

true dat ... I love a sexy calm cool confidence that just is, with no effort.

I also appreciate a certain quiet shyness with a large dose of humility yet smoldering secure beauty.

Then again, there's nothing like self assured genuine overt sex appeal ...

I've met many people who are outwardly attractive upon first glance, but once you know them it becomes hard to see. Although, there's always beauty. Sometimes, they just don't know which part of them is truly appealing. On the other hand, many times beauty is not initially apparent.

As long as there's light, textures shadows and expression of emotion there are no ugly people, just ugly actions.

yeah, it's late ... shit, I got no smokes left ...

 

[Dash]

This train of thought, or concept of measuring beauty is along the same lines as applying a number rating to someone to judge their level of physical attractiveness, or beauty...from 1-10.

For example, that hot, long legged, tall, curvaceous, young pedestrain is a definite 9 out of 10 and I wouldn't have a change in hell of her going out with me if i walked up to her right now, on the street and asked her out because I'm only a 4 out of 10.

This is only an example. But same concept. Many times, people try to use some sort of way to measure beauty in people, to be able to express a better, more vivid description when telling a story of their encounters with the person, especially if its a romantic encounter, date or especially when she/he is pretty.

Another example a girl might use,
He's a 6 when he's wearing his casual clothes. But when he's all attired in his uniform. He's a definite 9/10.