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PookieMoo

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I'm feeling fed up and frustrated with what's been a rather sheltered and unsocial life. Social stuff kinda scares me (big chicken) and instead I've spent most of my young adult life buried in work (can't really complain as it's all paid off well). I'm normally a shy and reserved person although eventually open up. I don't have any friends who would go to a strip club (never been to one, don't know any thing about them) with me and hold my hand so to speak.

Are there any places that are more newbie women friendly?? Is it normal for a single woman to walk in alone? I would love to have an experience with another women. Do those exotic massage places allow women or are those men only type places? Just how far do they go? Would that be a good place to start or are there better "options"? Do I rent a hotel room and hire an escort?? I've looked into the classified ads like Craigslist but the thought of "dating" and screening just seems daunting and time consuming. I'm actually not interesting in dating or a relationship, just some fun and relief.
 

Brill

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You might find there are quite a few women in your situation, just looking for a bit of fun without the hassles.
Strip clubs welcome single women, but it might be better to go with someone else so you aren't hit on by guys. Club Paradise seems to be the most female friendly that I've been to.
Massage parlours also welcome women.
I think a better option is an independent female escort who is also into women, many have their own place or you can rent a hotel, it depends on the person. Many would love a session with you.
If you tell us your preferences you'll get lots of recommendations or maybe you already have someone in mind.

Good luck, hope you enjoy yourself.
 

PornAddict

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I'm feeling fed up and frustrated with what's been a rather sheltered and unsocial life. Social stuff kinda scares me (big chicken) and instead I've spent most of my young adult life buried in work (can't really complain as it's all paid off well). I'm normally a shy and reserved person although eventually open up. I don't have any friends who would go to a strip club (never been to one, don't know any thing about them) with me and hold my hand so to speak.

Are there any places that are more newbie women friendly?? Is it normal for a single woman to walk in alone? I would love to have an experience with another women. Do those exotic massage places allow women or are those men only type places? Just how far do they go? Would that be a good place to start or are there better "options"? Do I rent a hotel room and hire an escort?? I've looked into the classified ads like Craigslist but the thought of "dating" and screening just seems daunting and time consuming. I'm actually not interesting in dating or a relationship, just some fun and relief.
Why don't you just go to a lesbian or a gay club...pretty sure you will get some one night stand of fun and relief.
 

afterhours

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how fat are you?
 

cute-bald

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^^^ Ya, exactly!! Never know attractive, average /slim women in this city not getting swarmed with attention. Try being a SHORT GUY!
 

Ladyraven

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Hun.. if you are interested in a escort I would love to see you .. thats if you are able to travel to Brampton.. I am sure there are many Ladies here who would enjoy a session with you ..
no need to be shy with us .. we are use to making one feel comfortable.. take your time . choose one who is perfect for you . I agree with Brill . don't go to a SC alone. may invite some unwanted attention.
 

MissCroft

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I am sure there are many Ladies here who would enjoy a session with you ..
I know I would! I wish there were a few more female clients. I've been advertising my availability to women for a while now but I've only ever seen one. Another one chickened out at the last minute. :-(


It's probably because it is quite easy to pick up some one-night stand action at lesbian bars/hangouts....don't ask me how I know. ;-)
 

5hummer

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I'm feeling fed up and frustrated with what's been a rather sheltered and unsocial life ...
I think you should consult with a Shrink for a few sessions and go away (by yourself) on a exotic vacation (Europe, South America, etc.) and EXPLORE.
 

PookieMoo

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LOL you guys are funny.. I guess only fat people have problems :cool: I must be the only attractive slim person out there that does not fit the social party 90210 stereotype.. yay for braking barriers!

Thanks for the advice
 

Brill

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Have you been opening yourself up, PookieMoo?
There's a whole world to explore and we want you gettin' some! :)
 

GotGusto

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It could be worse, Pookie. You could have slept around and got genital warts.

Pornstar Faye Reagan has them and she's barely over 21 years old, the poor thing.


 

Dewalt

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That is an awesome article! Today she is seen as an empowered woman, back in my day she would have just been a slut. Amazing how times change.
 

djk

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That is an awesome article! Today she is seen as an empowered woman, back in my day she would have just been a slut. Amazing how times change.
LOL. She's still a slut, she just thinks she's empowered. ;)
 

syn

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never mind the negative comments from the peanut gallery.

if you want someone to simply take you to a strip club - try posting in craigslist or even in terb for someone to accompany you.

if you want to make a new friend for social stuff - simply make friends here on terb. you will connect with like minded people in no time. we are a little community of sorts.

if you want to book a session - do your homework. figure out whose style, appearance and fees appeal to you. i was a shy newbie once myself. i remember being to scared to call an agency back in the day. and i recall being way to scared to book a session at a MPA when the mood hit. a little bit of nerves is a good thing.

syn
 

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Sorry to hijack the thread! But the article was quite crazy.. She reminds me of the movie, " species", hunting for sex except she doesn't want any babies.

Going back to your case... I think if you are shy about your sexual orientation... Just book an escort if you have the $$, otherwise, if you are attractive, I am sure you will meet many other girls who want to sleep with you...

Also, I have seen many girls go to strip club alone... Try whisky-n-agogo.. The atmostphere is more like a party and people would care less about your presence.
 
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