What would you have done ?

[Yoga Face]

I was at a singles dance and my friend said he found this particular female attractive because she "dressed slutty"

I agreed

When i saw my friend was not making a move, as she sat there alone, I walked over and politely pointed out my friend ( who is not short or bald) and stated he thought you are very attractive but he is a bit shy so can he come over and buy you a drink

With a curt no she moved away



Why does someone dress up to go out then just sit there ?

 

[Brill]

Aren't shy people a bit self centred? They often don't realize this.

I don't see she has a problem, she just decided your friend wasn't her type. It would have been nice if she thanked him, but he didn't even approach her.

 

[Swallowme]

She was right in turning him down. Who would wanna date a guy who does have balls to come upto her and express his feelings ? She may have dressed slutty doesn't mean she is available.

Have your friend approach her himself. Women like men with self-confidence. Because, thats what she can see even without undressing a guy.

my three and half cents!

disclaimer: i am not great at picking up girls at the bar either.

 

[luv4lust]

rent a hooker

 

[cute-bald]

Swallowme you are right on. I would NEVER , NEVER get a guy to do my introductions. That is soooooo wimpy & woosy. That alone would get any normal adult woman to say no. It is SOOOOO jr. high!!! Do adult men really do this at clubs & singles meet-ups???? Many of us short guys are NOT shy about introducing ourselves to women. When I was in University my taller male friends admired my guts. I could never understand their fear. I guess by then I was already numb to rejection. Shame is our confidence means SQUAT. They still see SHORT GUY & brush us off. Even the polite ones, you can tell.... ALL in the body language.

 

[69Shooter]

Swallowme you are right on. I would NEVER , NEVER get a guy to do my introductions. That is soooooo wimpy & woosy. That alone would get any normal adult woman to say no. It is SOOOOO jr. high!!! Do adult men really do this at clubs & singles meet-ups???? Many of us short guys are NOT shy about introducing ourselves to women. When I was in University my taller male friends admired my guts. I could never understand their fear. I guess by then I was already numb to rejection. Shame is our confidence means SQUAT. They still see SHORT GUY & brush us off. Even the polite ones, you can tell.... ALL in the body language.

Unbelievable... hardly any negative, self-loathing, "poor pitiful me" tone in this post at all!

 

[wazup]

There has to be some sort of eye contact to prove that she was attracted to him. She's not a bitch, she just didn't want him.

 

[sleazure]

Why does someone dress up to go out then just sit there ?

Are you talking about the girl, or talking about your friend?

Could be that she hated you both.

 

[cute-bald]

All the girls in hot cum-fuck-me dresses are NOT there at any guys disposal. I know ALL to well as a short guy that they are busy dodging & shaking off the short guys, no matter if they are or are not sluts. I have known many of these girls & if they had slept with every guy they knew & wanted to sleep with & all that was left , new to sleep with, were the short guys, they still would not.

 

[fuji]

Because you and your buddy aren't her type.

Hello?

 

[DocOdd]

Why does someone dress up to go out then just sit there ?

There are endless possible reasons. Some just like to show off. Since it was a singles dance, it's less likely that she wasn't looking for anyone, but could be any number of reasons she wasn't looking for your friend. How is there even a mystery here?

 

[mojak]

Why does someone dress up to go out then just sit there ?

Toronto women are have this reputation all over Canada!
Don't know if they realize.

Go back to your friend after and say, the cunt is frozen

Now that's "cold." LOL

 

[danmand]

all the girls in hot cum-fuck-me dresses are not there at any guys disposal. I know all to well as a short guy that they are busy dodging & shaking off the short guys, no matter if they are or are not sluts. I have known many of these girls & if they had slept with every guy they knew & wanted to sleep with & all that was left , new to sleep with, were the short guys, they still would not.

stfu

 

[sleazure]

Go back to your friend after and say, the cunt is frozen

Hehe, say Maggie Cho on cable last night, talking about how she'd like to do Sara Palin.

...but with a frozen cunt like hers, she'd be afraid of her tongue getting stuck, just like licking a steel post on a cold winter day.

 

[afterhours]

Go back to your friend after and say, the cunt is frozen

that sums it up well

 

[Moraff]

All the girls in hot cum-fuck-me dresses are NOT there at any guys disposal. I know ALL to well as a short guy that they are busy dodging & shaking off the short guys, no matter if they are or are not sluts. I have known many of these girls & if they had slept with every guy they knew & wanted to sleep with & all that was left , new to sleep with, were the short guys, they still would not.

There ya go 69Shooter... didn't have to wait long at all.

 

[afterhours]

Toronto women are have this reputation all over Canada!
Don't know if they realize.

my friend who spent a lot of time in the states claims that Toronto is the worst place in this respect
according to him even New York is much better
how did I end up in this godforsaken hole is beyond me

 

[Ceiling Cat]

She is waiting for Pierce Brosnan to dash in and sweep her off her feet. What I want to know is how the 15 to 20 girls at every dance will split up poor old Pierce.

 

[cute-bald]

^^^ Growing trend. I know a group of 5 women who routinly go out, pick up 2 or 3 tall guys & share them that nite. They tell me they know other groups of women that do the same. Average height guys can get some action but the obsession with tall guys & lack there of neccessitates women to share them. More & more women seem to be willing to do this. 10 years ago SHORT guys had a very slight chance in dating. NOW it seems there is no possibility unless fat & ugly is the short guys choice. LOVE to hear from the tall guys as it seems they have no problem hooking up 3somes & 4somes as it is becoming mainstream with women today.

 

[simon482]

^^^ Growing trend. I know a group of 5 women who routinly go out, pick up 2 or 3 tall guys & share them that nite. They tell me they know other groups of women that do the same. Average height guys can get some action but the obsession with tall guys & lack there of neccessitates women to share them. More & more women seem to be willing to do this. 10 years ago SHORT guys had a very slight chance in dating. NOW it seems there is no possibility unless fat & ugly is the short guys choice. LOVE to hear from the tall guys as it seems they have no problem hooking up 3somes & 4somes as it is becoming mainstream with women today.

god your boring.