What traits do providers look for in their clients?
- Thread starter Hucknall
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In my experience the greatest guarantor of amazing experiences is compliance with the rules and preferences established by an individual provider.
ie. read their website/twitter/advertisement, make contact in the recommended way, provide whatever material is requested in advance, don't ask about things they tell you not to ask about (or if you're unsure, ask if you can ask). I don't know how you would summarize that as a "trait"... professionalism? Patience? Attention to detail? It's a mixture of multiple qualities.
In terms of, like, personality traits once you're at the point of actually meeting up.... being funny, chill and self-deprecating gets you a long way with people (in almost all interactions with other humans, not merely during bookings).
ie. read their website/twitter/advertisement, make contact in the recommended way, provide whatever material is requested in advance, don't ask about things they tell you not to ask about (or if you're unsure, ask if you can ask). I don't know how you would summarize that as a "trait"... professionalism? Patience? Attention to detail? It's a mixture of multiple qualities.
In terms of, like, personality traits once you're at the point of actually meeting up.... being funny, chill and self-deprecating gets you a long way with people (in almost all interactions with other humans, not merely during bookings).
Simple :
-Clean
-Respectful
-On time
-Read website
-Clean
-Respectful
-On time
-Read website
M o n e y first. Respect her rates, no negotiate, bonus if tip involved, and of course clean, respectful, polite and listen well.
They are running a business, definitely not a charity.
Let us be real M O N E Y talks.
They are running a business, definitely not a charity.
Let us be real M O N E Y talks.
I've always found what works:
-Treat them with respect
-Be genuine
-Don't be a dick
-Don't be an idiot
-Treat them with respect
-Be genuine
-Don't be a dick
-Don't be an idiot
Yeah, stay inside their comfort zone. If you asked a girl to do what Ciera Ryan does, you'd be kicked out the door, but if you didn't allow Ciera to do what she does, she wouldn't be as happy being with you.
Once you meet them, you will probably figure out what they like as a little extra gift, and bring that along. You can usually look around the room, and see what alcohol they consume, or what ever else they have. Be aware, and next time, bring them that item. It's nice if you can surprise them, with something that they do actually like, than to have to ask them for that information. For a first meet, a bottle of red, and a bottle of white (to cover both tastes) would probably never be refused. It is really only about $25 extra dollars for a couple of bottles of wine, and I usually find that they will open it and share a glass with you, without that being the intention, and have an extra 10 min chat before the session starts.
If it's early, it is nice to offer to stop for a coffee and a breakfast sandwich on the way for the lady. Try to get the order correct. I find that women have much more complicated Tims orders than my simple double/double lol. All of these "s shot of this, dusting of that", or special teas that I have never heard of. Anyway, it's just a nice gesture, and if the lady is more comfortable with you early on, she will probably be able to enjoy the meeting a bit more. If anyone ever goes to see Alyssa in Gatineau, nice milk chocolate and red wine will definitely be well received!
Once you meet them, you will probably figure out what they like as a little extra gift, and bring that along. You can usually look around the room, and see what alcohol they consume, or what ever else they have. Be aware, and next time, bring them that item. It's nice if you can surprise them, with something that they do actually like, than to have to ask them for that information. For a first meet, a bottle of red, and a bottle of white (to cover both tastes) would probably never be refused. It is really only about $25 extra dollars for a couple of bottles of wine, and I usually find that they will open it and share a glass with you, without that being the intention, and have an extra 10 min chat before the session starts.
If it's early, it is nice to offer to stop for a coffee and a breakfast sandwich on the way for the lady. Try to get the order correct. I find that women have much more complicated Tims orders than my simple double/double lol. All of these "s shot of this, dusting of that", or special teas that I have never heard of. Anyway, it's just a nice gesture, and if the lady is more comfortable with you early on, she will probably be able to enjoy the meeting a bit more. If anyone ever goes to see Alyssa in Gatineau, nice milk chocolate and red wine will definitely be well received!
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