I noticed one sign is if they ask you to pay right away once you arrive in the door.
What other signs do you have to look out for sps who are scammers?
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There are really two levels of scams, those that are not even likely SP's, fake ads that ask for etranfers or gift cards/prepaid visa etc. Then there are ladies that are real, might not have real pictures or might have, but don't actually provide the services provided, such as Jaayda and Nikki XXX etc. I myself always pay the lady up front, I beleive that is just good manners, but yes when a lady goes out of her way to insist that you pay her, that is a warning sign.
I really hate the ones that hide behind the door when they open it. Once you’re inside and see that they look nothing like the pics you’re kind of trapped.
I've had a girl not give services advertised, which especially sucks since you don't find out about that one until too late.
“I’m new to the industry.”
No reviews of her anywhere.
No reviews of her anywhere.
I remember seeing a LL girl advertise for Ottawa and at the bottom, same girl listed for Cornwall and somewhere in Southern Ontario, all with the same date. So best to check the history where possible.
Yes I always check the bottom of LL ads, same ads in different cities on the same day is certainly going to lead to a "gift card scam", if I even text these my first question is "do you take cash when we meet?" that usually ends the conversation right there...
I ask for reviews? The response that I get is “I’m new”, or “don’t know where to post those”. If they want legit business than a Twitter account or onlyfans is a good indication.
It’s all subjective. For me it’s:
No black
Young
Party girl followed by snow emojis
Minimal phrases and poor grammar
Excessive use of the word “No”.
The last one, it’s understandable to list your restrictions but what I mean is the ones thattake up most of the add in bullet form saying what they don’t do. That’s always indicative of a bad time in my eyes. She can list all the no’s during text conversations. But again that’s purely subjective on my part.
No black
Young
Party girl followed by snow emojis
Minimal phrases and poor grammar
Excessive use of the word “No”.
The last one, it’s understandable to list your restrictions but what I mean is the ones thattake up most of the add in bullet form saying what they don’t do. That’s always indicative of a bad time in my eyes. She can list all the no’s during text conversations. But again that’s purely subjective on my part.
I try to stay away from party girls and those with unverified pics. It sucks because options become very limited and I am sure at least some of those without verified pics are legit. Just too many scammers these days. I also tend to stay away from those that look too close to being underage. Mid to high twenties or early 30s works well. If a lady says she is 35+, you can likely add 5 to 10 years to be more accurate, but a 27 year old has little to no reason to lie. Lastly, pics that show everything are a flag for me too. Maybe that is a preference thing for me but having a good sense of what the lady looks like but still leaving a bit to the imagination gives off a good vibe.
How about those that you think are being pimped? I have had a baaaaaad experience once.... just saying..... a little gun shy so to speak for a while now. I am looking to get back into the hobby but too afraid. Does anyone know which ones to avoid that they know of right now due to scams or pimps strong arming hobbiests???
best way to avoid pimps to avoid cheap motels, pimps don't pay for nice Hotels or private houses...
Everything mentioned here is great advice. Personally, red flags for me are: unrealistically low rates for unbelievable services; area codes that are clearly not local; pictures that look obviously staged or are immediately recognizable as porn stars (Natasha Nice especially, crops up quite often); the sp's name changes even within the ad (on one line she's Mia, on the next Kristy); bad grammar/spelling as mentioned below. Reviews are critical, you can learn a lot from others' experiences.
Poor grammar/spelling, and no online presence (Twitter, website, OIC, Terb).
Depends what you call scam. For me it’s to pay money and not to get any service. Been scammed twice. The signs are next:
1. New add, new phone number, no reviews.
2. After you came to hotel/motel (some times good expensive one) you are not provided with room number but SP calling you and telling room number - very bad sign. For your safety you can play “not hearing clear” and ask to text you room number.
3. Split room with internal door in between rooms.
4. If you already paid money there is few ways for SP to finish you off.
- offering you towel to take shower, then you end up alone at the room and after 3 min if you will not leave yourself pimp will show up and pretend that it’s his room and questioning you how you get in here
- offering you to leave to another floor “when a real girl is waiting for you”
- kicking you out from the room straight (what you are doing here? Will call friend, police, etc)
5. Of course no gifts cards, no e-transfers before you in the room.
1. New add, new phone number, no reviews.
2. After you came to hotel/motel (some times good expensive one) you are not provided with room number but SP calling you and telling room number - very bad sign. For your safety you can play “not hearing clear” and ask to text you room number.
3. Split room with internal door in between rooms.
4. If you already paid money there is few ways for SP to finish you off.
- offering you towel to take shower, then you end up alone at the room and after 3 min if you will not leave yourself pimp will show up and pretend that it’s his room and questioning you how you get in here
- offering you to leave to another floor “when a real girl is waiting for you”
- kicking you out from the room straight (what you are doing here? Will call friend, police, etc)
5. Of course no gifts cards, no e-transfers before you in the room.
Another disturbing thing that you can't predict is that, even after several successful encounters, you can get scammed or jerked around. A "manager" gets ahold of the phone and sends you to a wrong location and then laughs at you. I guess they do this for entertainment, or to exercise control over their worker, or maybe they are just double booked. Not hard to see that the person answering the texts has changed.
"Barely legal/just turned 18"
"Party girl"
"No black gents"
These aren't necessarily outright scams, but they are signs that it's not going to be a good experience.
"Party girl"
"No black gents"
These aren't necessarily outright scams, but they are signs that it's not going to be a good experience.
I'm trying to vet a lady right now and I have a question. When asking for a verification pic over text, I assume you ask them to personalize it in someway, correct? Otherwise they could just be sending you a pic they pulled from the same place they got their ad pics from, right?
The lady I'm trying to TOFTT with sent a couple pics but when I asked for a pic with my phone number and her face in it she declined (she sent multiple face shots and her ad has face shots so). This is suspicious, right?
The lady I'm trying to TOFTT with sent a couple pics but when I asked for a pic with my phone number and her face in it she declined (she sent multiple face shots and her ad has face shots so). This is suspicious, right?
100% yes, face pics and declining a request for a pic with say a phone number or a gesture like thumbs up is a huge red flag
