At 31, you might be a mother everyone would like to be with, but you are just a young and sexy thing.
Remember, technically a 13 year old can be a MILF. But you are a babe first and foremost, and I mean that in the hot babe sense.
I'm not terribly shy, but here's my little reason for not usually attending the parties. As I have posted many times, I'm a bit of a rocker chick. My daddy was a singer and I grew up sitting on the speaker columns during rehearsals. As such, now in a loud setting I have a hearing problem. No one would notice it in bed with me, but I did stand someone up inadvertently this week when I didn't hear him knock at the door. So, getting to know new people in a crowded and loud bar is difficult. But Aurora has promised to not let me look like a moron standing off in the corner if we can both make our schedules work to get to the party.