What do SP's think about when they're at work?

[Tip-Drill]

I've often wondered about what goes through the mind of an SP when she's spending an hour or two with a client. What do they think about to pass the time? With this question in mind, I always remember an interview with a stripper on a TV documentary program about the sex trade and she mentioned that while she's immersed in her lap dance she would typically be thinking about what to buy for her boyfriend's or child's birthday, etc.

I can certainly accept that some SPs will find some clients physically hot, personable and desirable and that they will be able to fully immerse themselves in the moment and fully enjoy the physical and mental experiences. However, what about the rest of us? I find it hard to believe that any SP could possibly enjoy the experience with the majority of her clients, let alone with all of them. What about those clients whose bodies have undergone the ravages of time, those clients who have had average or sub-average looks ever since were young, those clients who are well "over the top" with regards to age, etc. Personally speaking, I could not get physically excited about being with a 60-year-old lady even though I'm that age myself and obviously that must work both ways. It seems to me that the often talked about "YMMV" phenomenon is closely tied up with matters such as these(?)

I'd be very interested to know how SP's handle their regular meetings with clients who are not hot young studs and whose bodies have seen better days. What do they think about when they're on the job with these clients? If you think about all of these issues you will soon realize that the job of an SP is a much more difficult one than we may often realize.

 

[Damondean]

I don't know about you guys... but when an SP is with me she is thinking what a handsome and charming guy I am and how lucky she is to be spending time with me.

I know because the ladies have told me so. )

 

[MeJack]

it has nothing to do with a guys looks or his shape, or his age. the only time i ever think about i cant wait to leave is when i meet a guy who is a jerk. lucky for me thats only a small percent of guys. But believe it or not i love to meet lots of people and hear about their life! It's like any other job where you deal with people, u can have a bad attitude and be not friendly or you can be nice to people and they will be nice back to u!! I just treat any appointment like im going to visit my friend and see whats up in their life...

Ahhhhhhhhh, that is so nice. I wish I'd seen you when you visited Ottawa.

 

[luv4lust]

i'm thinking what a fucking god he is to make me cum over and over






then i hand him 50% of my rate lol

 

[calloway]

SP's probably think about the same things the rest of us do when we're at work. When is it over?

 

[Kubrickfan]

It is a fantasy, but if I think a lady doesn't want to be there, there's no way I could go forward with a visit. I do everything I can to make her feel welcome and, well ... safe. I'm interested in their background and story (whether its real or not) and that usually goes a long way to getting them to reciprocate.

Jasmine's explantion makes a lot of sense ... an SP probably expects they're not usually going to be spending a lot of time with god's gift to manhood, and much more important in the overal sense and feel of the visit -- "is the client treating me well ... is he interested in me ... and am I having at least an OK time?" Frankly, if I think they are having fun, they are more likely to be paying attention to the matters at hand, and that makes all the difference in the world to me.

 

[castle_79]

On a seperate note lets see a show of hands for those who think Jasmine Jazz should plan a trip to Ottawa in the near future!

 

[hodderbk]

When I'm with a client, I am totally engaged in the experience and in fulfilling the needs of the other person. It's not harder when I'm with an older person or a person who the world might consider to be less attractive - it simply requires a different mindset. For example, in the case of older clients (and my oldest is 79), I think about how much the experience means to them, and how wonderful it is that they are still so full of life as to desire intimate relations. I almost treat them as if I am therapist, and I want the experience to be as good for them as it possibly can, even if their mobility or libido is limited.

I've had quite a few virgins come to me (not just people who have never seen an escort before, but actual never-had-sex virgins), and those experiences are of a particular joy. What a responsibility to be the formative first experience! I'm honored that they trust me in that capacity, and so I'm focused on making the experience really great so that it has a positive affect on the rest of their sexual life.

I think the moral of the story here is that I put myself in the other person's shoes and try to figure our what it is will make them happy.

 

[stevieray]

It can work both ways. From the client`s pov, there are a few sp`s who aren`t exactly physically perfect either. But from my experience, some of the best encounters I`ve had have been with these women. As long as they can make you feel `special`, comfortable, relaxed, make you feel like you are THE man in their life for that hour or so, then so what if they have a few bulges, or wrinkles, etc.

 

[drrogers]

It all boils down to one thing

K-Ching K-Ching!

 

[romanesque]

Look at the ceiling and think of England.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

On a seperate note lets see a show of hands for those who think Jasmine Jazz should plan a trip to Ottawa in the near future!

JJ knows I'm always UP for a visit from her

 

[bjsk90]

I've often wondered about what goes through the mind of an SP when she's spending an hour or two with a client. What do they think about to pass the time? With this question in mind, I always remember an interview with a stripper on a TV documentary program about the sex trade and she mentioned that while she's immersed in her lap dance she would typically be thinking about what to buy for her boyfriend's or child's birthday, etc.

I can see that working in a stripper's case, it's a quiet communication-less 3 minutes of work. An SP or MP will have much more time than that, so she can't simply cut herself off from a client, as the client is there to communicate with her quite a bit. It's a different job.

 

[dummy]

SP's probably think about the same things the rest of us do when we're at work. When is it over?

This is so funny and most of the time very true...

Calloway, you got my vote.

 

[Robio]

I find it odd that more guys post what they think SP’s think about during work then SP’s

This could use a poll were SP’s answer and post and others answer different poll questions and post

 

[alexxxis]

I think if a poll were posted you'd get some really honest answers with the SP still being able to remain annonymous.

I second that motion...

 

[techtwelve]

Ask yourself what do you think about when you're at work...assuming you work

 

[toughb]

Now...

i'm thinking what a fucking god he is to make me cum over and over






then i hand him 50% of my rate lol

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That is a real fantasy...

 

[The Lurker]

Ask yourself what do you think about when you're at work...assuming you work

Yikes!!! That's not fair. I hate my job big time. Mind you the clients are great, but still no fair. Also one of the ladies should start the poll otherwise a guy would know who posted for what option.

I nominate AT or JoyfulC, they have the stories to be able to put some interesting options up.

 

[Tip-Drill]

..... one of the ladies should start the poll otherwise a guy would know who posted for what option. I nominate AT or JoyfulC, they have the stories to be able to put some interesting options up.

There have been some very interesting and elucidating comments here, especially from the ladies themselves. I don't think the work of an escort can realistically be compared with a regular nine-to-five sort of job where you're working (or supposed to be working) continuously and where the mind inevitably tends to wander. It's a job which requires paying special attention to a particular person (often a stranger) for a relatively short period of time (typically one hour), so it's probably more analogous to attending an important committee meeting or delivering a lecture. I recall that my mind used to wander a lot during those activities but I learned how to keep up appearances!

Creating a poll would require knowing or assuming the answers to the questions before asking the questions themselves. As noted by The Lurker above, only an experienced lady would possess that sort of knowledge. I can certainly understand why some ladies would prefer to retain anonymity in this matter.

There have been some very helpful, thoughtful and encouraging comments here from some well known and highly respected escorts. One can therefore conclude that the large majority of escorts take their work seriously and have their clients' well-being at heart. I must say that I was particularly encouraged by Barbara's comments regarding the age of her oldest client!

Without a doubt, the most important thing to most if not all clients and escorts is being treated in a kind, friendly and respectful way so that the clients' fantasies can be fulfilled and remembered with pleasure.