Weirded out: Need your opinion...

[BLSLover]

Here's what happened...

I scheduled an appointment with a regular incall of mine over the weekend. When I finished my evening early, I ended calling her 2 hrs early. I told her I'm finished early and would be there in 1/2 hr, she said no prob. When I got there, I parked, and walked in to buzz her, when this guy was in front of me and buzzed her too. She said hello, and opened the door. As soon as he walked in, I walked out. I figured she thought I was him and told me it was ok to come by.

Here's the weird part. I don't consider myself a bad looking guy, women have told me I'm very handsome, I'm a little overweight, but I keep myself well groomed and I dress very well. The guy who went ahead of me was not a good looking chap at all. Shorter than me, very overweight, dressed like a tow truck driver, and not what you would consider sexually attractive in a man. I was immediately turned off by the prospect of being intamately after where he was before.

Now don't get me wrong. He's probably a nice guy, I don't slight her for being open to looks. I hold no malice to her or him, I think what I'm experience is an instinctual thing. I'm not sure. Maybe it's got some vanity on my part, maybe I was turned off by thinking about sloppy seconds, I'm not sure.

Perhaps you could provide some input on this, as I am still somewhat perplexed. I appreciate any constructive insight.

BLSLover

 

[Fatume]

Are u kidding me buddy. It's a date for $. What makes u better tnan the next guy. If u hadn't seen the guy u would have still been after him and got sloppy seconds or thirds or fourths. By the way the women that have told u that u are very handsome, obviously don't find u handsome enough to go to bed with u, otherwise why would u be paying?

 

[imhot73]

sounds like someone is falling for her!
they are a dime a dozen!
snap out of it!

 

[Thousand]

You give handsome guys like me a bad name.

 

[tboy]

I think what BL is trying to say is that while we "know" we're all just horny guys in a long line of horny guys and most of the ladies we see have probably had 2 or more guys before us we don't, or at least I don't, want to be reminded of it. I especially don't want to see the previous guy leaving or the next guy coming in....

 

[xarir]

It's a business transaction between the lady and the guy. Get over it. (Not always easy to do though ...)

 

[joebear]

You give handsome guys like me a bad name.

lmao!

 

[secret_touch]

By the way the women that have told u that u are very handsome, obviously don't find u handsome enough to go to bed with u, otherwise why would u be paying?

That is just plain ignorant!!

There are many, many reasons as to why men hobby.............not being able to get laid w/out paying is the least likely of all reasons!

Some men do not want the hassles of having an affair; limted time to spend w/woman; dont want a relationship; dont get what they need from wife (whether it be a hug, kiss, sex, etc); and so forth.

Furthermore, why dont you tell us all why YOU pay for women?

 

[secret_touch]

Imo

Here's what happened...

Here's the weird part. I don't consider myself a bad looking guy, women have told me I'm very handsome, I'm a little overweight, but I keep myself well groomed and I dress very well. The guy who went ahead of me was not a good looking chap at all. Shorter than me, very overweight, dressed like a tow truck driver, and not what you would consider sexually attractive in a man. I was immediately turned off by the prospect of being intamately after where he was before.

BLSLover

Hmmm shallowness? As well a reminder that YOU are not the only person she is sharing intimacy with.

 

[Jade4u]

The best thing to do is try to avoid this problem entirely. Sometimes men book a time with me "great" and then after that call say they are running half an hour late, "fine." I always try to leave some time in between and then they show up even late after that time leaving tight squeezed sessions. If you call specify who you are and do not call only once if you are still running late. When you get to a place call and ask if it is still alright.

Lots of men are great at letting an sp know what is happening and are understanding in this matter, but why put pressure on an sp or on other men that could be after you and yourself. Who really likes to get an explanation upon arriving at the door and an sp saying we better go in right away no time for chit chat and then begging you to just get dressed and to leave. Then you leave the sp rushing like crazy to clean up best she can.

I have had one time that one guy was running late and another was running early. In the beginning I did not realize I was speaking to two different men that evening. I thought for sure I would still have about an hour to re do myself between the two, but later realized by one guys words when he called back a second time they were not the same man. I quickly said ok, I have to make a phone call. I am thinking he is wondering wtf is going on. lool I called the other guy and asked him is it ok instead of coming earlier you come later. He said why I just spoke with you so I figured honesty was the best policy and let him in on the truth. Luckily he was very co-operative.

Anyway my point is when given a time try to keep it best you can. Thankfully I have had men say they are running early and they ask if it is ok I say no and they say no problem I will go get coffee etc... and come at my appointed time. I doubt very much this sp you speak of wanted to put you or herself through this?

Did you still show for your regulary timed appointment?

 

[newinottawa]

The same thing happened to me in Ottawa, except that I walked in on the act. A regular SP of mine told me to just walk in, she would be waiting for me. When I got there, she was in the middle of the act with a really dirty looking guy. She heard me and ran out to me. Told me she got confused with the boking, but if I hung around, I could shower with her after the current guy left. I took off and never went back.

 

[C Dick]

I had a similar experience. Just recently I was visiting an incall I go to, and it appears that another customer was coming in too, like he had got the time wrong. I am a good looking guy, I drive a tow-truck, and the ladies love the tough-guy image that tow-truck drivers have. But the other guy was all manicured and metro-sexual, yet not in shape. It freaked my out to think of her being with a soft guy like that. It made me realize that I am just one of many customers, and that the way I see myself may not be the way others do.

(Just kidding, no offence intended to anyone).

 

[skypilot]

Hey, you are lucky you didn't follow me. That would be like having a steak after visiting a slaughterhouse.

 

[Macator2003]

I'm just here for the Alessandra Ambrosio pictures...........WHAT A BABE!!

 

[rick dickulous]

What about the environment at a busy multiple girl/incall location? You see other hobbyists there at the bar or in the public room don't you? What's so bad about that?

 

[Questor]

I had a similar experience. Just recently I was visiting an incall I go to, and it appears that another customer was coming in too, like he had got the time wrong. I am a good looking guy, I drive a tow-truck, and the ladies love the tough-guy image that tow-truck drivers have. But the other guy was all manicured and metro-sexual, yet not in shape. It freaked my out to think of her being with a soft guy like that. It made me realize that I am just one of many customers, and that the way I see myself may not be the way others do.

(Just kidding, no offence intended to anyone).

lol Well done!

 

[goalie000]

With a Lady I see regularly, I always text her to let her know I'm on my way about 40min or so ahead of our appointment. She will let me know then if we are on time or not, and I can let her know if I'm running late. Seems to work out alright so far. have never actually met anyone close to her door upon arriving or leaving, but did pass one in the parking lot one time as we had run a little over time. Didn't really phase me at all.

 

[danmand]

Here's what happened...

I scheduled an appointment with a regular incall of mine over the weekend. When I finished my evening early, I ended calling her 2 hrs early. I told her I'm finished early and would be there in 1/2 hr, she said no prob. When I got there, I parked, and walked in to buzz her, when this guy was in front of me and buzzed her too. She said hello, and opened the door. As soon as he walked in, I walked out. I figured she thought I was him and told me it was ok to come by.

Here's the weird part. I don't consider myself a bad looking guy, women have told me I'm very handsome, I'm a little overweight, but I keep myself well groomed and I dress very well. The guy who went ahead of me was not a good looking chap at all. Shorter than me, very overweight, dressed like a tow truck driver, and not what you would consider sexually attractive in a man. I was immediately turned off by the prospect of being intamately after where he was before.

Now don't get me wrong. He's probably a nice guy, I don't slight her for being open to looks. I hold no malice to her or him, I think what I'm experience is an instinctual thing. I'm not sure. Maybe it's got some vanity on my part, maybe I was turned off by thinking about sloppy seconds, I'm not sure.

Perhaps you could provide some input on this, as I am still somewhat perplexed. I appreciate any constructive insight.

BLSLover

Here is how to get over it: sing the old Shel Silverstein song: "When you have had steak too often, neans taste good."

 

[RTRD]

Lol...

Are u kidding me buddy. It's a date for $. What makes u better tnan the next guy. If u hadn't seen the guy u would have still been after him and got sloppy seconds or thirds or fourths. By the way the women that have told u that u are very handsome, obviously don't find u handsome enough to go to bed with u, otherwise why would u be paying?

...this was so dead on on so many levels....

 

[RTRD]

What if...

Yet I can't understand why an SP would do that to a regular since they do make-up a good portion of an escort's business ( well, mine anyways). She could have called you back and said told you that she couldn't see you until the time you both had originally scheduled. Maybe she basically winged it knowing that you were on your way and maybe the other would get there after and he would be the one to lose out.

I suppose double-booking is how some women conduct their business but it could tick off the wrong person at some point.

..they were both regulars? How doesw she decide who to tell to pound sand?