Weird Feeling (May need help)

[bdking]

Ok so I go visit this SP all the time. For the past few days I just cant stop thinking about her. I am even getting dreams at night of her. VERY Weird I KNOW.
I dont really know what to do. I know there's probably nothing that can be done. Still I would like some inputs of my fellow terbites.

Thanks

 

[DB123]

see someone else NOW

Trust me, 99 times out of 100 (or 2 out 3 in my case ) nothing good can come from this

 

[John Connor]

Ouch! Sounds like you have separation anxiety. My advise is to see other SP's who have the same general look or services, or get a regular civilian... friends with benefits if you will. Because things always happen in this business, and she may retire all of a sudden with no fair warning.

Just my opinion.

 

[peter4025]

As was said before go see someone else now. Don't see her again for a while or you will be calling for trouble.

 

[bdking]

I agree with you guys. But I have tried seeing someone else and divert my mind. But to be honest it never feels the same.

 

[raspberries]

I agree with you guys. But I have tried seeing someone else and divert my mind. But to be honest it never feels the same.

I had that with a stripper. There was somethng about her. She ruined strip clubs for me because I couldn't get the reaction with other girls. I just stopped going to strip clubs. In the end I saved lots of money.

 

[nofrills]

Don't be stupid enough to fall for a SP. It's a business transaction and only thing they like about you is your size of wallet $$$$$$.

 

[gdurham]

Don't be stupid enough to fall for a SP. It's a business transaction and only thing they like about you is your size of wallet $$$$$$.

you are infatuated with this one SP. see someone different or just take a break. go spend your money on something else for a while.

had the same thing with an SP about 5 years ago. ended up seeing her twice a week for some time.

 

[op12]

You are over-estimating the attractiveness of the object of your desire. Its a classic trick that your brain is playing on you. To compensate try to think of the ways in which she is not the perfect woman that you are fantasing about. For instance, she only sees you for money.

 

[workhardplayh]

Nothing good is going to come out of this. Some MP's and SP's will see you outside of work, so find another one to compensate for t his one

 

[lookingman69]

Move out of your mothers basement and get a life.

This is a HOBBY and if it becomes your life then something in you life is very lacking.

Try POF and get a date if love is what you are looking for. You may even get some for free.

The point of a SP is to get something quick and easy by paying to get rid of all the hassles for trying to score sex. If it becomes anymore you have a problem with the rest of your life.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I had that with a stripper. There was something about her. She ruined strip clubs for me because I couldn't get the reaction with other girls. I just stopped going to strip clubs. In the end I saved lots of money.

I was just going to tell the OP that at least he had sex with his dream girl. Not like me who fell in love with a stripper too (that was about 6-8 years ago).

 

[GPIDEAL]

Move out of your mothers basement and get a life.

This is a HOBBY and if it becomes your life then something in you life is very lacking.

Try POF and get a date if love is what you are looking for. You may even get some for free.

The point of a SP is to get something quick and easy by paying to get rid of all the hassles for trying to score sex. If it becomes anymore you have a problem with the rest of your life.

From accountant to psychologist now (just kidding).

I had a hard time to try to shake a stripper I fell in love with (we went out as friends) a few years ago. Joining Terb and seeing other girls was the answer for me. It doesn't necessarily mean that the rest of this guy's life is in trouble. Perhaps he's just overwhelmed by good service. Maybe it's just lingering after glow. And yes, maybe he should start seeing other hot (or hotter) women.

My own personal advice. He should visit the night clubs in Havana.

 

[aussie9]

Don't be stupid enough to fall for a SP. It's a business transaction and only thing they like about you is your size of wallet $$$$$$.

Yep and the donation can be from $20 to $50,000 and then she'll find a guy for $50gees a year.

 

[freestuff]

Ok so I go visit this SP all the time. For the past few days I just cant stop thinking about her. I am even getting dreams at night of her. VERY Weird I KNOW.
I dont really know what to do. I know there's probably nothing that can be done. Still I would like some inputs of my fellow terbites.

Thanks

Tell her that you don't want to see her as a SP anymore but want to date her in real life and see what happens.

 

[lookingman69]

Tell her that you don't want to see her as a SP anymore but want to date her in real life and see what happens.

Make sure you get that on Youtube.

 

[jc39111]

agreed, ask to date her in real life, you will be blocked quicker then you know it...hey atleast it will show you what you're worth to her lol, cash my friend, cash, make sure you bring the cash!

 

[todd2]

you are in a lot of trouble, the most powerful emotion in the world. Your SP probably gives a great GFE.
If she is a good SP she will recognize the problem. Then she will total cut you off.
That's the best thing that can happen.(Your not going to cut your self off)
You will suffer for a few months. Think about all the bad things she does in the meantime.
Then you can carry on with your life. Good luck.

 

[Mikediamond]

Quit while you're ahead. These things never end well.

She is who she is, and you have to ask yourself if she's the type of lady you'd want to settle down with, assuming she would even want to. She's going to expect her income to remain the same, so it's either you're footing the full tab, or she's still a working girl. Can you live with knowing what she's doing to make a living? Be honest with yourself. I'd wager most guys would be uncool with it, if not now, later.

If you're looking for love, this ain't it.

 

[Davenash2]

Ok so I go visit this SP all the time. For the past few days I just cant stop thinking about her. I am even getting dreams at night of her. VERY Weird I KNOW.
I dont really know what to do. I know there's probably nothing that can be done. Still I would like some inputs of my fellow terbites.

Thanks

Buddy you are a "regular" Maybe more i don't know.
SP love regulars. Your probably nice to her in may ways. Regulars are good for her, she probably trusts being with you and it make for better sessions.

Has she expressed how she feels about you? What do you want? Be very careful! It can be very enjoyable for sometime. But everything ends at some point. If you don't know what she is thinking or wants, you might get hurt.

If you are an emotional guy, do what everyone is saying and stop! or see others. If you can handle the ride....enjoy while it lasts.