This thing is still bothering me. So here we go. It happened last 2 weeks ago in a legit spa in Scarborough, no sexual activities there, just solid legit massage. I always see a very pleasant lady in her mid 30s who was my regular and I always tip her very well. The spa closes at 9 daily. When I called in around 7 ish for my 8 pm appointment, the receptionist said they're not busy that day and going to close at 8 but would ask the lady whether she would take my appointment or not. She called back and confirmed Yes.
I was there on time and when the lady came into the room she greeted me with a big smile but at the same time told me she wouldn't have taken the appointment if she knew it was me because she knows I was her regular and I will be back regularly anyways. She was hoping to get a new customer I guess. She does look alright and didn't seem tired but I told her I can come back the next day if she's feeling tired and wanted to go home early. She said its ok and we go for $60 one hr massage as usual.. I even told her I was there just to relax, she can just sit down, chit chat and will still get paid as usual if she's tired. She said she would feel bad to do that.
The receptionist left after that, but there was another lady still working on another customer in another room. We started our session and it was all cool and having fun chit chatting about her life. 20 minutes into my massage and the phone rang. She said she was expecting an important call and went out to answer the call. Two min later she came back and told me it was just a customer call. I told her to bring the phone with her if she is expecting a call. She said she did. 2-3 min later another call came in and she answered the call. I thought it was her important call she was waiting. It was not. It was just another customer inquiring about the services, prices, locations and such for a bout 5 min, and she kept going . I lost my cool a bit and waving my hands to hurry up. She kept on going a min or so and as soon as she finished with her call she told me I was so rude to rush her on the phone. I told her I let her bring the phone in to answer her important call she was expecting but not the regular customer calls. I also told her it was very unprofessional to do so while customer is with her. She said she did that cuz she considered me as a friend and told me I talk too much. WTF? I am there to relax but that has killed my mood and hers as well. I just told her I am no longer in the mood to continue our session and just paid her 100 bucks and left.
I always treat the ladies with respect, kind, gentle and has always tip well. I really like her massage and the way she treated me in the past. She has fixed up my bad shoulder joints very good. I could barely move my left arm up before I met her. I can move quite well now without pain. She is better than RMTs I had seen. Now I am at a lost in this case whether I was rude or not? Should I apologize to her and go back to see her again? Do I deserve an apology from her? She is already busy enough so I don't think she cares much about losing a customer or two.. I am all confused. To be honest, I feel more like a sucker for sweet ladies. lol.
I was there on time and when the lady came into the room she greeted me with a big smile but at the same time told me she wouldn't have taken the appointment if she knew it was me because she knows I was her regular and I will be back regularly anyways. She was hoping to get a new customer I guess. She does look alright and didn't seem tired but I told her I can come back the next day if she's feeling tired and wanted to go home early. She said its ok and we go for $60 one hr massage as usual.. I even told her I was there just to relax, she can just sit down, chit chat and will still get paid as usual if she's tired. She said she would feel bad to do that.
The receptionist left after that, but there was another lady still working on another customer in another room. We started our session and it was all cool and having fun chit chatting about her life. 20 minutes into my massage and the phone rang. She said she was expecting an important call and went out to answer the call. Two min later she came back and told me it was just a customer call. I told her to bring the phone with her if she is expecting a call. She said she did. 2-3 min later another call came in and she answered the call. I thought it was her important call she was waiting. It was not. It was just another customer inquiring about the services, prices, locations and such for a bout 5 min, and she kept going . I lost my cool a bit and waving my hands to hurry up. She kept on going a min or so and as soon as she finished with her call she told me I was so rude to rush her on the phone. I told her I let her bring the phone in to answer her important call she was expecting but not the regular customer calls. I also told her it was very unprofessional to do so while customer is with her. She said she did that cuz she considered me as a friend and told me I talk too much. WTF? I am there to relax but that has killed my mood and hers as well. I just told her I am no longer in the mood to continue our session and just paid her 100 bucks and left.
I always treat the ladies with respect, kind, gentle and has always tip well. I really like her massage and the way she treated me in the past. She has fixed up my bad shoulder joints very good. I could barely move my left arm up before I met her. I can move quite well now without pain. She is better than RMTs I had seen. Now I am at a lost in this case whether I was rude or not? Should I apologize to her and go back to see her again? Do I deserve an apology from her? She is already busy enough so I don't think she cares much about losing a customer or two.. I am all confused. To be honest, I feel more like a sucker for sweet ladies. lol.
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