Warning to all SPs/MPs

[hodderbk]

Be careful who you see, ladies. I just got stiffed by a guy who I thought was going to be ok, but turned out quite the opposite. His story - his name is Jason, he lives in the Mooney's Bay area, and he's a student, so he'll try to negotiate with you. He is 6 ft tall, 210lbs and claims to be a student of nursing. He arrived high on marijuana and extasy. He likes to play a little rough but claims he won't hurt you. And then, he leaves and curses at you and laughs.

Ladies, please be careful. I've never been treated like this before, and I'm a bit shell-shocked right now. Don't let this happen to you.

 

[travlinman]

Hope your OK. I'm sorry that that happened to you. You are too nice a person to have this happen. Rather, this should never happen to anyone but especially you!!

 

[alexxxis]

What does he look like besides height and weight?
hair color? glasses? style of dress...?
i doubt he would use "jason" again ... but who knows.
poor u.
how did he reach u? email? cell phone? pay phone?
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[hodderbk]

He had a buzz cut - dark brown hair. Brown eyes. Definately sounds a little "off" on a the phone - and he called from a phone/cell phone, not a pay phone. He wore a long sleeved black tshirt and jeans. And he left his sports drink here when he ran out...the thought of dna testing crossed my mind...

 

[Ladyluvr69]

What a jerk. Hope you are ok. Have a V8 Strawberry-Kiwi Splash it will make you feel better ;-)

 

[hodderbk]

Wow, um, ok! Must be a pretty good drink! Nah, when I need to feel better I just go for a ride on the Harley.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

Its delicious. Yeah I know us people who dont drink alcohol are boring LOL.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

do a reverse lookup with his number and find a really big gay biker dude to go show him a good time. LOL

Its risky for both sides in this and it sucks when this happens but dont let him destroy you.

 

[hodderbk]

Hi Alexa,

Thank you so much for your kind words and sympathies. This happened as an incall appointment. You know what? Yes, it was bad, and I'd rather it didn't happen, but honestly it could have been a lot worse. I've never done drugs (of any kind), so when he get in the door and told me he was on extasy and that he'd smoked a joint on the way over here, I got a little leary. But he seemed mellow enough, and actually he was pretty mellow - he was just stronger than me when I tried to detain him for non-payment.

I'm just going to let this one roll off my back and not bother me. I've been working for over a year, and this is only the second time something like this has happened (my first was Mark McCaskill, don't even get me started), so I consider myself fortunate. Sure, I was insulted and my feelings were hurt, but he can't hurt the parts of me that really matter. I'm stronger than that.

 

[alexxxis]

personally - i kinda hope he does try this again, preferably on ME and i'll show him what a woman's wrath feels like.

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[rachelle]

Hi Alexa,

Thank you so much for your kind words and sympathies. This happened as an incall appointment. You know what? Yes, it was bad, and I'd rather it didn't happen, but honestly it could have been a lot worse. I've never done drugs (of any kind), so when he get in the door and told me he was on extasy and that he'd smoked a joint on the way over here, I got a little leary. But he seemed mellow enough, and actually he was pretty mellow - he was just stronger than me when I tried to detain him for non-payment.

I'm just going to let this one roll off my back and not bother me. I've been working for over a year, and this is only the second time something like this has happened (my first was Mark McCaskill, don't even get me started), so I consider myself fortunate. Sure, I was insulted and my feelings were hurt, but he can't hurt the parts of me that really matter. I'm stronger than that.

Barbara, you and I have not met yet, but we do both work the Ottawa scene. This business can be great, and at other times it can be VERY scary. I agree with what Alexa said, if you have a bad feeling about someone, 99% of the time your gut feeling will be right. I had an expierience with a young man that seems to be very close to what you expierience. We did the deed, and he finished very quickly, when he was done he sat on my bed basically just saying how he did not want me to tell anyone about our encounter, I was quick to let him know that his secret is safe with me. He continued to just sit there, I got a feeling he was deciding what to do with me...it seemed like he was considering harming me.He then demanded that I give him half of the donation back because he had finished so fast, not wanting a confrontation I gave some money back because he had finished withen 2 minutes. When he booked this appointment I had a bad feeling because he kept asking for a half hour rate, knowing that I have a 60 minute minimum. It may or may not be the same person, although your description is dead on.
The point is always go with your gut feeling...it's almost always right!v I hope the resgt of your week is better.

 

[bjsk90]

Hey Barb, I hope you're alright. Wish there was some way for the rest of us clients to filter these guys away from the girls, but obviously there isn't. Maybe even a client committee on proper behaviour, but of course the ones that really need this won't be the ones showing up to these things.

 

[tdeem3]

There is a way, a bad client listing. Something that should have been done in Ottawa a long long time ago

 

[tdeem3]

Be careful who you see, ladies. I just got stiffed by a guy who I thought was going to be ok, but turned out quite the opposite. His story - his name is Jason, he lives in the Mooney's Bay area, and he's a student, so he'll try to negotiate with you. He is 6 ft tall, 210lbs and claims to be a student of nursing. He arrived high on marijuana and extasy. He likes to play a little rough but claims he won't hurt you. And then, he leaves and curses at you and laughs.

Ladies, please be careful. I've never been treated like this before, and I'm a bit shell-shocked right now. Don't let this happen to you.

I don't know you at all Barbara but I know you are a very nice lady by reading your posts. You made a couple of mistakes here and hopefully some of the other ladies can see them so it does not happen to them.

First of all NEVER see a client under the influence of any substance, they are too unpredictable. Second of all never try to detain a non paying client, follow them outside and get thier license plate number and keep in mind how they look and then call the police. you were in fact robbed and the person who did it was not a "bad client" but a thief plain and simple.

personally - i kinda hope he does try this again, preferably on ME and i'll show him what a woman's wrath feels like.

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You're an idiot, what happens if when you are showing your "wrath" the creep beats the shit out of you, or pulls and knife or a gun. Stop acting like a big shot, it's terrible advice to give to any lady in this industry

 

[alexxxis]

wow who pissed in your cornflakes?
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[tdeem3]

wow who pissed in your cornflakes?
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It was a dumb comment and you know it. The first thing the police say in case of an armed robbery "do not resist" and you want to act like Hulk Hogan with someone that could be carrying a gun.

I wouldn't even want to see you hurt Alexxxis

 

[alexxxis]

well it was said in light humor.
Obviously i dont want to see myself or anyone else HURT!
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[Ladyluvr69]

NEVER confront someone who is high. Especially on Shrooms. trust me I have seen people on that and they get f****d up in the head and you are in real danger.

So if someone is high just run.

 

[slyjohn]

I am sorry for the incident Barbara... glad that you are okay.

Let me know if you need some TLC... I will provide!

Take care.
xoxo

 

[Bluenose]

Some indy SP's call or pretend to call a friend/colleague/"pimp"/boss once their customer has arrived like the agency girls do.

Good advice. Most of these creeps are true cowards who wouldn't risk a confrontation with a male of undetermined size and meanness.