Verification rules vs privacy

[OldNerd]

Question for the fellow terbites..

I assume that many/some of you have SO, have a good corporate/government jobs or public jobs (doctors, lawyers etc).
Are you OK to share you linkedin, copy of your driver license or be subject to any other very invasive form of verification?
If not, how you get around it, or just skip high end providers all together.

I can see such requests from practically all high-end SPs, and I am fully understand why they ask.
Despite the fact that I met many great ladies who take the privacy seriously. there is still a risk the information can be exposed.

Your take?

 

[DDDCash]

I also fully understand why these SPs are asking for this, but I would never share it.
Too much risk, even with a very highly reputable SP.

Do you think these SPs are giving you their real name? Provide you with a copy of their driver's license?
Absolutely not, same reason.
Just to risky.

You may end up missing some great sessions with some amazing SPs though.

 

[Bigbigguy]

I also fully understand why these SPs are asking for this, but I would never share it.
Too much risk, even with a very highly reputable SP.

Do you think these SPs are giving you their real name? Provide you with a copy of their driver's license?
Absolutely not, same reason.
Just to risky.

You may end up missing some great sessions with some amazing SPs though.

I won’t share such information and I actually don’t understand what the request is achieving - when they ask for a picture of your driver’s license with the name & date of birth blurred out what are they getting - other than a picture of someone’s photo identification that is possibly not even the ID of the person who is texting them - they have no way of knowing

I understand that it is being used as a way to weed out the time wasters from serious AND if something bad occurs they have a picture of the offender (if said offender share a real ID) but what are they really getting from this????

I hope someone here can explain - maybe a provider. It won’t change my resistance to sharing such information but it will help me to understand

 

[TheRiddlerMan]

I would never do that. Once you share that kind of information, it's out of your control forever.

 

[@madelineklaire]

I require verification from first-time clients because, as an independent provider who works alone and from a private residence, ensuring my safety is a top priority. Should anything ever go wrong, having basic identifying information is a reasonable precaution.

Additionally, screening helps filter out time-wasters, as well as individuals with harmful intentions. I understand that privacy is a concern for many, but discretion goes both ways, I take my clients’ confidentiality as seriously as my own safety. Those uncomfortable with verification always have the choice to seek alternative arrangements that better align with their comfort level.

 

[Robbull]

Question for the fellow terbites..

I assume that many/some of you have SO, have a good corporate/government jobs or public jobs (doctors, lawyers etc).
Are you OK to share you linkedin, copy of your driver license or be subject to any other very invasive form of verification?
If not, how you get around it, or just skip high end providers all together.

I can see such requests from practically all high-end SPs, and I am fully understand why they ask.
Despite the fact that I met many great ladies who take the privacy seriously. there is still a risk the information can be exposed.

Your take?

Probability is, some are also foreign spies out to gether intel for blackmail purposes while generating higher than average income in the field. At least that's what I tell myself because I'm cheap and value my limited privacy.

 

[massman]

There are many (many, many….) threads on this topic. Everyone has their reasons. I understand the reasons from the girls’ side, but at the same
time I’m not comfortable mixing my personal ID or professional identity with this world. That’s my own rule to keep me safe and comfortable. If a provider must have this info to book, and offers no alternatives (eg board handle, references), I’ll simply move on. We all need to set our own limits in this world, based on your personal tolerance of risk.

 

[@madelineklaire]

There are many (many, many….) threads on this topic. Everyone has their reasons. I understand the reasons from the girls’ side, but at the same
time I’m not comfortable mixing my personal ID or professional identity with this world. That’s my own rule to keep me safe and comfortable. If a provider must have this info to book, and offers no alternatives (eg board handle, references), I’ll simply move on. We all need to set our own limits in this world, based on your personal tolerance of risk.

Know your limits and play within them

 

[Broughtonboy]

I treat escorts same as anyone else, no issues with sharing personal info with agencies or their girls or indies I know. That said, don't share with random Leolist or completely unknown folks where ever in society. My wife and family expect honesty .. NOT sainthood Haha LOL !

 

[Assblaster]

As the old saying goes think with your big head. If you have to think too much and ponder about something you probably know what to do, never go against your own judgement. I've never been asked for such information and wouldn't give such information either.

We are all grown adults and of you're that horny and needy to drain the lizard that bad you have to do what you have to do lol.

 

[Assblaster]

I also fully understand why these SPs are asking for this, but I would never share it.
Too much risk, even with a very highly reputable SP.

Do you think these SPs are giving you their real name? Provide you with a copy of their driver's license?
Absolutely not, same reason.
Just to risky.

You may end up missing some great sessions with some amazing SPs though.

You hit all the nails on the head

 

[prettypennyc]

It goes both ways I miss out on a lot of opportunities because I don’t take deposits (I like to protect my identity as well). I used to have a girlfriend who would accept etransfers in her account for me but it was getting complicated

 

[Alison_xox]

I take etransfer deposits and it has worked well for me so far.
I’ve been doing that for years.
Ottawa is full of time wasters & scams. Last min cancellation is also a big problem.
Since I am asking for deposits , I have erased that problem completely..

I am well established and I think everyone knows that I wouldn’t jeopardize my reputation over 100$
That would be the dumbest move ever …

Stay safe

Kisses
Ali

 

[BlissinOT]

I have to agree to that ! So many times wasters . If you follow me out of curiosity on twitter just stay that way ! Do yourself a favor and don’t contact me if you want to waste my time or you don’t have money !
Sometimes they want to test our limits ! I just show them their place.

I am not sub provider .
Ottawa is so worst for this industry !

You will read them everyday talking about SPs or MA I will be glad to read what SPs think of them too ! Just so we have a balance .

 

[OldNerd]

I take etransfer deposits and it has worked well for me so far.
I’ve been doing that for years.
Ottawa is full of time wasters & scams. Last min cancellation is also a big problem.
Since I am asking for deposits , I have erased that problem completely..

I am well established and I think everyone knows that I wouldn’t jeopardize my reputation over 100$
That would be the dumbest move ever …

Stay safe

Kisses
Ali

It's not about your or other provider reputation. Once information is stored in the bank or phone it can hacked, stolen, seized etc..

 

[William St]

It's not about your or other provider reputation. Once information is stored in the bank or phone it can hacked, stolen, seized etc..

I keep as low a profile as I can, but people still attempt to scam or defraud me or hack my accounts every day by means of phishing texts or emails. I protect my personal information and never release so much as a picture if I don't absolutely have to. No-one is completely trustworthy, there are just varying degrees of risk.

 

[Alison_xox]

I get it.
I don’t ask for pictures or ID cards .. I also don’t mind when they contact me with a text app. I also use a text app. I have the same number on TextPlus for years …
The only thing I ask for is, is a etransfer and I am almost certain that when I accept it, the client can see my name. At this point , it is mutual trust.
I think the clients & providers have to both give in a little and build trust.
Anyways , if a client send a transfer , it means he’s serious.

I respect all the providers screening process.
Everyone has their own process that makes them feel safe and it is the same thing for the clients.

Kisses
Ali

 

[Desiree_]

I am well established and I think everyone knows that I wouldn’t jeopardize my reputation over 100$
That would be the dumbest move ever …

Amen .