UK Muslim career women willing to 'share husbands' because of a lack of suitable men

alexmst

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Muslim career women in Britain are choosing to become involved in polygamous relationships because of a lack of suitable men.

Some of them even choosing to become second or third wives to married men, according to the Islamic Sharia Council.

The charity, based in Britain, gives legal guidance to Muslims and has said it is receiving a high number of queries from women struggling to find suitable partners.

Many of the women have also said they would prefer to hold down high-profile jobs rather than look after their husbands.

Taking more than one wife is illegal in the UK but men marry again in a nikah religious ceremony, allowing them to take up to four wives.

Mizan Raja, 35, who organises Muslim marriages around the world, told the Sunday Times, that he has had hundreds of calls in the past six months from women asking about becoming second wives.

Mr Raja said: 'The demand for these relationships is led by the women, not the men
. In one generation women have become educated, entrepreneurial and professional.

'The Muslim community is struggling with this, how do you cope with women who wear trousers?'

He said that many Muslim men just wanted a 'homemaker' and to come home to a clean house and a plate of food on the table.

He added the Muslim men didn't want the 'headache' of being in a relationship with a professional woman.

It is thought the Muslim women are also actively seeking out married men because they do not want the hassle of having to cook for their husbands after a hard day at work and are quite happy to have part-time relationships.

One woman who spoke to the Sunday Times, and asked not to be named, had an affair with a married man after divorcing her first husband.

When he offered to leave his wife she preferred to become his second wife because she did not want him 'under her shoes 24/7'.

It is thought about 12,000 traditionally-minded brides are brought to the UK by Muslim men.

The resulting decline in available husbands has become such a problem it is now referred to as the 'Muslim spinster crisis'.

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Seems to me this is a UK culture thing. The men bring over a bride from the old country who wants to be a housewife and cook for them, then they have kids, and the kids go to UK schools and develop much the same way as non-Muslim UK kids, and the boys want a stay-home wife and many of the girls want to have a career and not be a stay-home wife. So if the boys import brides from the old country, what happens to all the born in the UK Muslim girls - thus the 'Muslim Spinster Crisis'. Of course native Brits also have this issue in most women want a career. So who does the cooking? Answer is everybody gets take-away Indian food or sushi on the way home from work lol as nobody wants to spend 2-3 hours cooking when they get home from work at 6pm.
 

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Seems to me this is a UK culture thing. The men bring over a bride from the old country who wants to be a housewife and cook for them, then they have kids, and the kids go to UK schools and develop much the same way as non-Muslim UK kids, and the boys want a stay-home wife and many of the girls want to have a career and not be a stay-home wife. So if the boys import brides from the old country, what happens to all the born in the UK Muslim girls - thus the 'Muslim Spinster Crisis'. Of course native Brits also have this issue in most women want a career. So who does the cooking? Answer is everybody gets take-away Indian food or sushi on the way home from work lol as nobody wants to spend 2-3 hours cooking when they get home from work at 6pm.
Doubtless you are correct.

However, it is also a matter of culture in that if a Jew or Christian converts their family may not want to talk with them, but no one is likely to put out a murder contract on them. On the other hand if a Pakistani ancestry woman meets an otherwise perfectly likely English, Scots, Welsh or Irish man unless he converts to Islam she literally risks her life.
 
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