Too Emotional

[LadysMan10]

This question is directed more-so to the ladies of this board, have you ever been so emotionally attached to someone that you cried after having sex with them?? Obviously this would mean having sex with someone you care about, therefore not as part of this hobby.

I know the type of jokes and commentary this topic can produce here, but I'm more interested in the serious responses. For this reason, let me clarify a few points; it was not physically painful, the sex is good, I am not "bad" in bed and there were no feelings of guilt.

I'm curious if this is a common occurance or if this is a case of being way too sensitive or too emotional. I for one, cannot understand it, but I'm trying to. So far, its happened to me three times with two different women. Any thoughts??

LM10

 

[stinkynuts]

Never heard of such a thing before.

 

[Jade4u]

I cannot see it unless for some reason the woman had her hopes up for something more like a longer term relationship.

 

[LadysMan10]

I cannot see it unless for some reason the woman had her hopes up for something more like a longer term relationship.

Well, I can tell you that I'm still with her and we have spoken about our future.

LM10

 

[Jade4u]

Then I would say it then boils down to something is on her mind. hmmmmm Maybe she is scared of being hurt again, you remind her of something in her past etc...

 

[stinkynuts]

Maybe she was disappointed by your performance.

 

[LadysMan10]

Maybe she was disappointed by your performance.

Lol.......I guess someone had to say it.

 

[Eli]

But really why even think about it? Does it really matter if she cries after sex? just be thankful she's not emotionally unattached.

 

[Edifice]

I've heard of men cry after having an orgasm.

 

[secret_touch]

It has happened to me.

Sometimes the emotions of how you feel for the person just become overwhelming.