Ashley Madison

To the married men of TERB

Yes I'm married and ..

  • I do wear my wedding band when playing with an SP, MPA or stripper.

    Votes: 53 48.2%
  • I do NOT wear my wedding band.

    Votes: 57 51.8%

  • Total voters
    110

On_the_side

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Nov 27, 2007
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I'm curious. To hobbyists who are married, do you keep your ring on when you visit an SP, MPA or stripper? I don't see any reason to hide it but was curious what your thoughts on the matter are.
 

papasmerf

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When I was married and hit a strip club the ring was always on and that seemed to attract the dancers.

After getting divorced and the ring was off I noticed a reduction in the attraction......The ring seems to suggest a safe mark for the ladies.
 

to-guy69

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Mar 28, 2004
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SPs know that over 80% of their clients are attached so it makes no difference.
 

trisket

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I'd guess it's closer to 50/50 but no one really knows.
I can't see why dancers or escorts really care if you're married either. It gives them a topic to talk about or avoid, depending on you.
 

Bear669

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Although...

to-guy69 said:
SPs know that over 80% of their clients are attached so it makes no difference.

... a gal told me that she got a bit disturbed when she realized she was doing a Catholic priest:eek: !

(better than the choir boys IMHO)
 

Dodger

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Aug 17, 2001
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I don't care one way or the other if they know if I am married.

I sometimes remove my wedding ring, and a couple of others that I wear so as not to distract the lady, but I generally don't care and am not afraid to admit that I am married.

Now if I forget to put it back on and the wifey sees that I could be toast and that I AM AFRAID OF. She notices right away anytime I am missing rings.

"Honestly Honey I took them off at the gym because they get in the way of the workout and I forgot to put them back on. I mean you noticed how sweaty I was when I came home right!"
 

RTRD

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Sep 26, 2003
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Not directly related to the question...

...but I can ABSOLUTELY say I got hit on more often by women when I wore a wedding ring...both times.
 

sc dave

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Dec 23, 2003
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If you take it off she'll see the white ring mark on your finger anyways so why bother?
 

great bear

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Apr 11, 2004
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papasmerf said:
When I was married and hit a strip club the ring was always on and that seemed to attract the dancers.

After getting divorced and the ring was off I noticed a reduction in the attraction......The ring seems to suggest a safe mark for the ladies.
Did it hurt when you took the ring out of your nose?
 
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JessiMae

great bear said:
Did it hurt when you took the ring out of your nose?
What about when it came out of your butt? (sorry i just couldn't resist)
 

great bear

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JessiMae said:
What about when it came out of your butt? (sorry i just couldn't resist)
And I thought it was our secret? Jessi, so you kiss and tell?
 

papasmerf

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great bear said:
And I thought it was our secret? Jessi, so you kiss and tell?
I am pretty sure she still has the video on her phone
 

Don

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papasmerf said:
When I was married and hit a strip club the ring was always on and that seemed to attract the dancers.

After getting divorced and the ring was off I noticed a reduction in the attraction......The ring seems to suggest a safe mark for the ladies.
Yeah it's like when you are at a bar or a party with your gf/wife and get more interest from the ladies because they take it as "someone likes him so he must be ok" vs being alone "why is he single, what's wrong with him"?
 

fuji

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More like, "some woman picked him, so he must have money, and he's married, so he's probably looking to spend it on a dancer"
 

blackmoon69

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Feb 3, 2007
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its ok if you dont wear your ring as long as you tell the truth that you are married. nothing to hide at all.
 

train

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I took my ring off right after the ceremony and have not worn it since. I hate the feel of rings - they drive me nuts. Same with chains or any other form of male jewlery
 

On_the_side

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Diode said:
Ahhh..Terb morality...It's ok to cheat on your wife as long as you are honest with your escort.
lol.

thanks for the feedback guys ... to be honest I'm surprised it's this close. i thought the majority of guys would've responded that they kept their ring on.
 
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