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Tips and gifts

irm

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What do you think of tips and gifts? I've been on only one date with an independent SP. On a $450 session I rounded donation up to $500 and brought a bottle of wine which we shared.

Is this overdoing it? Not enough?

On a $350 session is $360 an insult? $375? I see some SP's mention gift cards. Is a $10 too little? Or is it OK because it's really the thought that counts?

What do you think about adding a tip to an SP's donation? How much should it be? Does it matter if she is an independent or if she is from a service?

Thanks for any ideas you can give me.
 

IM469

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On a $350 session is $360 an insult? $375? I see some SP's mention gift cards. Is a $10 too little? Or is it OK because it's really the thought that counts?
If they think $10 is cheap, they will think you are a prince after I visit. I rarely tip and certainly not if they are collecting $350.
 

bolt.upright

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So close and yet so far.
No tip should be seen as an insult, IMO (unless you leave a loonie, lol). There's countless threads on the topic, and just as many differing opinions.
Okay, now you're picking on me! Lol!

Seriously, as I said in my "Worst Tip Ever" thread yesterday, I have never tipped. However, I have given gift cards on appropriate occasions (Valentines and birthday with my SP, Christmas at the MP), and have rounded up on occasion ($100 instead of 90, or 140 instead of 130 for example). I never considered any of these tips, in my mind anyway. Although, after yesterday, I do now!
 

thumper18474

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I went over the top ..once
Session fee ... $700
Tip...................$300
Total cost of gifts bought.. $200
Experience....Priceless..

But usually.. I tip $50
 

Combat Shock

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NO TIP from me, if it was good I might come back for more.
I do round-up if I don't have exact amount, so that will be 10$ extra. In Europe where I grew up nobody tips, not at the restaurant and not when you go to an escort, than there is always the guy who wants to show off. But do what you feel comfortable doing.
 

thumper18474

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I think every lady here will say that
Tipping is never expected but always appreciated...same as gifts which is why they will name some of their favorite things to receive..
Showing off?
Not sure who that was directed at
The OP asked for some examples and suggestions..as well as opinions
In a nutshell give what you want...she has received payment for services rendered already so never feel obligated to .."top It up"
 

bobistheowl

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I've tipped only when I didn't have exact change, like if the donation is $250, and I only have $20 dollar bills; I would find it a bit gauche to ask an Escort to make change. I'd also never include a five dollar bill in an envelope, and seldom a ten.

I have brought gifts many times, sometimes very inexpensive, but always carefully chosen. For one lady in Mississauga, for example, I brought her a Mississauga bus route map, so she could give travel instructions to clients arriving by public transport. I've brought DVD movies a few times, or T-shirts where I made the design on the front.
 
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