I just want to address the number of threads that have been locked and pulled recently. A lot has been said here and there is some substance to some of them, but there is also some misinformation in others.
Firstly I want to address locked threads. Let's remember gents that if a thread gets out of hand that the mods will lock it. Secondly, if it's started by someone who shouldn't, chances are it will get locked, as they have no right to be bitching. The mods leave it in place for us to read and make our own judgement call on what is said.
Secondly; Threads that get pulled. It is well within the mods right to do so, if said thread gets way out of hand and discusses things that are no nos. That being said, if it could affect a ladies ability to work, false allegations, then that thread should be pulled.
I myself got caught up in both recently. the second one, a thread pulled, I should not have. I have been informed by a party that in that case, it is quite possible that someone else was working the phone, making promises of certain services that are not available. On top of that, they also have an issue with a stalker type person. Both are bad, but the later could prove to be harmful in a bad way. In this case the mods are right in pulling said thread. No one should read such thread because of that.
Durham has issues with finding good ladies, let's not turn it into a soap opera section. There are good ladies, they may have many reviews, but gents, review them again and again, keeping the intel fresh.
I know I started a thread quite some time ago about Durham being a wasteland. It was more of a lament for the old days, the hey days Durham had. There will be more and it would appear that there is a glimmer of hope with a few ladies that have good reviews here. Don't stop good intel on bad providers, but also, don't stop the good intel on well reviewed providers either.
Review the hell out of them, that's what keeps them here and that's what attracts new ladies as a vibrant scene is paramount.
Firstly I want to address locked threads. Let's remember gents that if a thread gets out of hand that the mods will lock it. Secondly, if it's started by someone who shouldn't, chances are it will get locked, as they have no right to be bitching. The mods leave it in place for us to read and make our own judgement call on what is said.
Secondly; Threads that get pulled. It is well within the mods right to do so, if said thread gets way out of hand and discusses things that are no nos. That being said, if it could affect a ladies ability to work, false allegations, then that thread should be pulled.
I myself got caught up in both recently. the second one, a thread pulled, I should not have. I have been informed by a party that in that case, it is quite possible that someone else was working the phone, making promises of certain services that are not available. On top of that, they also have an issue with a stalker type person. Both are bad, but the later could prove to be harmful in a bad way. In this case the mods are right in pulling said thread. No one should read such thread because of that.
Durham has issues with finding good ladies, let's not turn it into a soap opera section. There are good ladies, they may have many reviews, but gents, review them again and again, keeping the intel fresh.
I know I started a thread quite some time ago about Durham being a wasteland. It was more of a lament for the old days, the hey days Durham had. There will be more and it would appear that there is a glimmer of hope with a few ladies that have good reviews here. Don't stop good intel on bad providers, but also, don't stop the good intel on well reviewed providers either.
Review the hell out of them, that's what keeps them here and that's what attracts new ladies as a vibrant scene is paramount.





