When I started doing this business I would answer to every single troll (there is a thousand of them out there), but with time I've learned to ignore it. My usually answer to a guy trying to get it off by harassing me (and any SP) is usually the good "Stop texting me, have a good day sir" and the instant block after adding the number to the "black list." But we all have our limits, right?
I've never had a bad review that would damage my business, and by that I don't mean YMMV, I mean the bad stuff you read here sometimes... Drug user, texting during the session, late responses, rushed and fake pictures. The first and the last one, for me, are the worst ones.
I've been working as an SP since 2014 and I've never, ever used fake pictures. I just don't see the point! Why would I use Kim K's picture if when you arrive at my door you will see that I definitely don't have that huuuuuuugeeeeeee ass that she does - I do have one but it's quite nothing compared to hers
I've also learned that I don't have to meet everyone that texts me. If you are a true indy, you gotta take care of yourself and be careful with people you are going to meet. So, at least with me, if I don't feel comfortable while communicating with you, I will politely pass the meeting and I hope that you - as a gentleman - will understand. With that in mind, read the following and help me with something:
Client: Can I please see you
(I usually don't like this kind of approach, might be picky of me, but I like to start with "Hi, how are you!" "What are your rates and restrictions?" Because, yes, you probably can meet me, but what if you can't afford/location isn't an option for you/I dont provide what you are seeking/you don't agree with my restrictions?)
Giselle: Do you have my rates and restrictions? Location?
C: All I know is West end?
G: No.. I'm in Gatineau
C: Even better! We were supposed to meet downtown once but you were late, on Cumberland I think, but I really want to see you, you have an insane body
G: *text with the rates/restrictions/location* I was late? I never hosted any services on Cumberland. You've got the wrong girl...
C: Weird, same pics.
(Now hold for a second, if you are an active Terb member and have seen threads about me you are probably a little familiar with my pictures, and if you check my ad now you will notice that they are not the same as they were before. As much as I loved them, I had to change because someone else in Ottawa was wrongfully using them as well and providing "no restrictions" services. The current pictures were taken no more than three weeks ago. I've also got a few small tattoos this year and retracted them from the new pictures. I also have been hosting in Gatineau since late 2014 = it's impossible that the current pictures were the same when I used to host downtown - but again, never on Cumberland.)
G: How's the same pictures if I took them 3 weeks ago? I also never provided outcalls, so I wouldn't be "late"... Weird information from you, I will pass. Have a good day!
C: "No, I came to you." "Listen, maybe you were a different Gisele." "Who knows, but the second last picture looks familiar." "The name is the same." "Can I see you or not. I'm serious, I don't play games."
G: I will pass, the information you gave doesn't not match with me... Have a good day!
C:"Information doesn't match????" "I remember going to Cumberland st to meet a Gisele that for some reason the third pic on your ad looked familiar" "I made a mistake and took you for someone else that's all" "Doesn't make any sense..." "Unless...." "Why are you so damn difficult"
(yes, every message he sent was a different text, so at this point I have at least 10 messages from him after saying I would pass the meeting)
G: Stop texting
C: "I thought you were a SP" "Flagging your ad then, you're obviously using fake pics and pics that aren't yours"
(you can be nice and ignore as many trolls as you can, but 'I thought you were a SP' is such a bullshit and ridiculous argument! Do I have to meet everyone that messages me and clearly does not take a no for an answer because I'm a sex provider? And also, flagging my ad - that sh*t is not free guys, it does cost money - because a moron thinks I'm using fake pics? Ugh.)
G: So what! I don't have to meet everyone that texts me! If I don't feel comfortable, I pass. I have been doing this for over two years, sweetheart. You are obviously a rookie! I don't use fake pictures! Check TERB for me before you talk sh*t! I will blacklist your number
C: "No. I'm not at all." "Just a normal SP don't give me such a hard time" "And listen, if you are the same Gisele that posted the same body (different pictures) for over two years, we did have a date, on Cumberland st, we set a time" "I drive there, and you said you walking, and you were close... For over an hour" "You said you'd do it for 1/2 price later but you never made good on the deal and frankly, I don't believe it's you in the pics"
(Now again, I never made anyone wait, maybe 5 minutes top. But over an hour? And I was "walking"? Walking from where if I do in calls? From the kitchen to the door? Sounds legit! If I was the type of girl that make clients wait and never show up, there would be A LOT of info in this forum)
G: I never provided any services on cumberland! Didn't you get that part?? I never, never ever bailed on any client either!!
C: Listen, you did... You had the same pics, including the second last pic in your recent ads for months
(Some rant between both of us went over for a few minutes and it's not necessary)
G: I took the pictures three weeks ago! I'm a fabulous time traveller then...
C: "Re read what I said" "I didnt say you have the same pics" "I said you used the same pics (back then), which included the second to last pic in your recent ad" "That pic I know for sure was NOT taken three weeks ago" "You are obvious not serious" "And not good with costumer service"
Now, I know I should have not answered and fed the troll, but as the title of this thread says: there is a thin line between good costume service and not taking sh*t.
I've seen recent threads here about other SP's and how the handle their "social media rants", girls posting the screenshots of conversations showing phone numbers and how some of them deal with, let's put it this way: "costumer approach". I won't mention any names because I'm not throwing shade at anyone, I honestly don't care. But that SP in particular got a lot of bad feedback here because what she saw as indelicate way to contact her, some users saw it as drama from her part and so on...
So my question after all is:
Don't I have the right to pass a meeting because your communication doesn't make any sense to me whatsoever?
Also,is it bad costumer service? Cuz if I was looking for a good SP and after contacting her she said she would not want to meet me, I think I would just let it go? And stop pushing? It is easy for me to have a SP p.o.v, buy maybe it looks different from the client's p.o.v...
I've never had a bad review that would damage my business, and by that I don't mean YMMV, I mean the bad stuff you read here sometimes... Drug user, texting during the session, late responses, rushed and fake pictures. The first and the last one, for me, are the worst ones.
I've been working as an SP since 2014 and I've never, ever used fake pictures. I just don't see the point! Why would I use Kim K's picture if when you arrive at my door you will see that I definitely don't have that huuuuuuugeeeeeee ass that she does - I do have one but it's quite nothing compared to hers
I've also learned that I don't have to meet everyone that texts me. If you are a true indy, you gotta take care of yourself and be careful with people you are going to meet. So, at least with me, if I don't feel comfortable while communicating with you, I will politely pass the meeting and I hope that you - as a gentleman - will understand. With that in mind, read the following and help me with something:
Client: Can I please see you
(I usually don't like this kind of approach, might be picky of me, but I like to start with "Hi, how are you!" "What are your rates and restrictions?" Because, yes, you probably can meet me, but what if you can't afford/location isn't an option for you/I dont provide what you are seeking/you don't agree with my restrictions?)
Giselle: Do you have my rates and restrictions? Location?
C: All I know is West end?
G: No.. I'm in Gatineau
C: Even better! We were supposed to meet downtown once but you were late, on Cumberland I think, but I really want to see you, you have an insane body
G: *text with the rates/restrictions/location* I was late? I never hosted any services on Cumberland. You've got the wrong girl...
C: Weird, same pics.
(Now hold for a second, if you are an active Terb member and have seen threads about me you are probably a little familiar with my pictures, and if you check my ad now you will notice that they are not the same as they were before. As much as I loved them, I had to change because someone else in Ottawa was wrongfully using them as well and providing "no restrictions" services. The current pictures were taken no more than three weeks ago. I've also got a few small tattoos this year and retracted them from the new pictures. I also have been hosting in Gatineau since late 2014 = it's impossible that the current pictures were the same when I used to host downtown - but again, never on Cumberland.)
G: How's the same pictures if I took them 3 weeks ago? I also never provided outcalls, so I wouldn't be "late"... Weird information from you, I will pass. Have a good day!
C: "No, I came to you." "Listen, maybe you were a different Gisele." "Who knows, but the second last picture looks familiar." "The name is the same." "Can I see you or not. I'm serious, I don't play games."
G: I will pass, the information you gave doesn't not match with me... Have a good day!
C:"Information doesn't match????" "I remember going to Cumberland st to meet a Gisele that for some reason the third pic on your ad looked familiar" "I made a mistake and took you for someone else that's all" "Doesn't make any sense..." "Unless...." "Why are you so damn difficult"
(yes, every message he sent was a different text, so at this point I have at least 10 messages from him after saying I would pass the meeting)
G: Stop texting
C: "I thought you were a SP" "Flagging your ad then, you're obviously using fake pics and pics that aren't yours"
(you can be nice and ignore as many trolls as you can, but 'I thought you were a SP' is such a bullshit and ridiculous argument! Do I have to meet everyone that messages me and clearly does not take a no for an answer because I'm a sex provider? And also, flagging my ad - that sh*t is not free guys, it does cost money - because a moron thinks I'm using fake pics? Ugh.)
G: So what! I don't have to meet everyone that texts me! If I don't feel comfortable, I pass. I have been doing this for over two years, sweetheart. You are obviously a rookie! I don't use fake pictures! Check TERB for me before you talk sh*t! I will blacklist your number
C: "No. I'm not at all." "Just a normal SP don't give me such a hard time" "And listen, if you are the same Gisele that posted the same body (different pictures) for over two years, we did have a date, on Cumberland st, we set a time" "I drive there, and you said you walking, and you were close... For over an hour" "You said you'd do it for 1/2 price later but you never made good on the deal and frankly, I don't believe it's you in the pics"
(Now again, I never made anyone wait, maybe 5 minutes top. But over an hour? And I was "walking"? Walking from where if I do in calls? From the kitchen to the door? Sounds legit! If I was the type of girl that make clients wait and never show up, there would be A LOT of info in this forum)
G: I never provided any services on cumberland! Didn't you get that part?? I never, never ever bailed on any client either!!
C: Listen, you did... You had the same pics, including the second last pic in your recent ads for months
(Some rant between both of us went over for a few minutes and it's not necessary)
G: I took the pictures three weeks ago! I'm a fabulous time traveller then...
C: "Re read what I said" "I didnt say you have the same pics" "I said you used the same pics (back then), which included the second to last pic in your recent ad" "That pic I know for sure was NOT taken three weeks ago" "You are obvious not serious" "And not good with costumer service"
Now, I know I should have not answered and fed the troll, but as the title of this thread says: there is a thin line between good costume service and not taking sh*t.
I've seen recent threads here about other SP's and how the handle their "social media rants", girls posting the screenshots of conversations showing phone numbers and how some of them deal with, let's put it this way: "costumer approach". I won't mention any names because I'm not throwing shade at anyone, I honestly don't care. But that SP in particular got a lot of bad feedback here because what she saw as indelicate way to contact her, some users saw it as drama from her part and so on...
So my question after all is:
Don't I have the right to pass a meeting because your communication doesn't make any sense to me whatsoever?
Also,is it bad costumer service? Cuz if I was looking for a good SP and after contacting her she said she would not want to meet me, I think I would just let it go? And stop pushing? It is easy for me to have a SP p.o.v, buy maybe it looks different from the client's p.o.v...
