The selfish session

[Sisyphus]

I don’t know about you guys but I find it very difficult to be sexually selfish. It is not natural to think purely about one’s own pleasure if you are a guy. I find my sex drive is strongly designed to give pleasure. I have a strong need to DATY ,to massage a woman, to engage in foreplay like ingering and rubbing the clit or even simply kissing etc. I am always concerned about what she thinks. This is particularly true with MPAs even though it doesn’t make sense. I have been trying to train myself to be more selfish sexually. Lately I have been going for the nude only service. I always feel too shy to ask for the topless because I am afraid of looking too cheap even though I really shouldn’t have any concern as to what she thinks. After all I am paying for my pleasure and not hers. Most of the time when I ask for this they will say no touching and I agree and tell them that I am not interested. Sometimes I ask the girls if they want to keep their clothes. I must admit when they are fully clothed it is even more of a turn on. I do get turned on being the only nude person in the room. Has anyone else tried this out?
In civi life I find it disappointing when you DATY and you give it your all and a woman treats you like she did you a favour. Anyone else ever felt this way?

 

[dondada]

many moons ago when i was more actively going to massage parlours...one of the more popular places had girls who pigeonholed clients...i (as the mpa told me) was a romantic...i wanted to kiss her and kinda work my way through the session as maybe a boyfriend and girlfriend would...there was absolutely no kissing or anything else remotely romantic about the session...she was beautiful both facially and physically but emotionally she was barren...and i never ever went back there or saw her...i've had amazing sessions and abnormal (by my standards) sessions...

let it go and move on...if you are there to pleasure her...your wallet has done that already...some women are just more sexual than others...but working in this industry doesn't require having prerequisites on sexuality...

 

[Ladyraven]

If that is how you enjoy yourself . then that in a way is selfish right? its all in how you look at things..your not a rude arrogant jerk.. your selfishness is a turn on for both parties involved. if you want and desire to please the woman you are with then thats what you do..

 

[Sisyphus]

your selfishness is a turn on for both parties involved.

Has any client ever done this with you? How did it make you feel? Does the thought of being fully clothed and not touched turn you off or on? Do you simply assume the guy is cheap?

 

[Ladyraven]

your selfishness is a turn on for both parties involved.

Has any client ever done this with you? How did it make you feel? Does the thought of being fully clothed and not touched turn you off or on? Do you simply assume the guy is cheap?

Hun I have many different requests . and I do not judge anyone . I am providing a service and enjoy what I do.. as long as its safe and clean then its all good

 

[burt-oh-my!]

You 'unselfishness' is just evolution telling you that the longer you 'warm up' a woman the better the chance of her orgasming, which has been shown to improve chances of conception.

 

[fuji]

I've found that a lot of women just want to be wanted, and if you let yourself go and do whatever it is that makes you feel good, that makes them feel good too.

I've never seen a woman cry because she couldn't have an orgasm, but I have seen women cry if for whatever reason I didn't have one.

 

[Sisyphus]

Hun I have many different requests . and I do not judge anyone . I am providing a service and enjoy what I do.. as long as its safe and clean then its all good

Way to not answer the question.

 

[Ladyraven]

Way to not answer the question.[/QUO

by it being a turn on for both is the fact that your selfishness is the fact that you enjoy pleasing a woman.. and that makes you happy.. nothing wrong with that