Just stumbled upon this guy, what a show. I feel like many on here can relate on the topic. "My wife and I can't agree on how often to have sex." The whole thing is good, the ending is gold. You're welcome <3
The Best Interview I've Watched in a While...
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Just stumbled upon this guy, what a show. I feel like many on here can relate on the topic. "My wife and I can't agree on how often to have sex." The whole thing is good, the ending is gold. You're welcome <3
No time to watch the whole thing, but scanned thru a bit and also watched the end. A couple comments
1. The whole need vs desire thing. Totally get it, wanting sex with someone, desiring them is way more sexy than fulfilling a “need”. However at some point, when there is a very low frequency of sex, it does become a need.
2. Also get “I love it when you hold my hand, do this dishes, touch my knee etc….” The problem is when these things become regular, then sometimes it’s not enough. It’s just every day life now. Then the “I love it when you” items kinda can become a bottomless pit for lack of a better term.
3. Very low frequency sex leads to some feelings of resentment, which leads to pulling back from doing those “I love it when you…” things, and on the flip side, the “I love it when yous” start to be seen as trying to have sex by the recipient.
It’s a tough problem, and do appreciate some of the perspectives in the video, even if I didn’t get to see all of it.
1. The whole need vs desire thing. Totally get it, wanting sex with someone, desiring them is way more sexy than fulfilling a “need”. However at some point, when there is a very low frequency of sex, it does become a need.
2. Also get “I love it when you hold my hand, do this dishes, touch my knee etc….” The problem is when these things become regular, then sometimes it’s not enough. It’s just every day life now. Then the “I love it when you” items kinda can become a bottomless pit for lack of a better term.
3. Very low frequency sex leads to some feelings of resentment, which leads to pulling back from doing those “I love it when you…” things, and on the flip side, the “I love it when yous” start to be seen as trying to have sex by the recipient.
It’s a tough problem, and do appreciate some of the perspectives in the video, even if I didn’t get to see all of it.
