I’ve been to club 4M here in Toronto a few times. Just be chill and patient. It’s very common for a woman to show up who wants a gang bang. If you’re not shy about fucking in public, you take your number and take your turn. The women range in looks from 5s to 9s for this.
It’s not very common, but every now and again you have a cuckold couple show up and they may invite you to play in private. I’ve been lucky enough to have that happen a few times. In terms of looks, the women were usually in the 6-u range (which is about where I sit in looks) managed to get with a 9 once who was slumming it. Always fun.
Very rarely you just have a woman come up and invite you to fuck. At least it’s rare for me, but I’m not that pretty. You may do better.
Long story short, if you are patient and willing to play with real people instead of supermodels, even as a single guy you can have some fun.
One other note, you will encounter women (and sometimes their partners also) with cum fetishes; they want your cum in them. I try (and usually succeed) to resist this temptation. I have on occasion given in when the woman was very hot. I had a 9 offer it to me once. It was a weird situation. I was in the sauna at Oasis in Winnipeg (on my own) and this petite bottle blonde comes in and sits down. She had great tits. We do a little awkward small talk, and she asks if I’d like to go back to her room. I say yes, and off we go. We get to her room, and her boyfriend is there. I’m a bit weirded out, but she says, “He wants to watch”. At this point I’m so hard I could walk into a wall and not bump my nose, so I agree. She positions herself for doggy, looking her man in the eye. I start to unwrap a condom, and she tells me not to, and that she wants my cum in her. I make a token protest about that being a bad idea. She was very insistent, I could either put my cock in the rubber, or I could put in her, but not both. I know it’s a bad idea, but I’m too far gone to care. I start doing her doggy, and she is fucking me back fiercely, all the while telling her man words to the effect that it’s her pussy and she will put what she wants in it. I wasn’t going to argue. It doesn’t take me long to go.
Once I’m done, she slides off and puts her man on his back and just starts to cowgirl the living daylights out of him. She’s slamming him so hard I’m watching my goo get forced out of her so hard that it’s squirting onto her man’s knees. I’ve never though a woman could hate fuck a man, until I saw the look on her face and the way she was slamming onto him. I watched this for a few minutes while I caught my breath, and then slipped out of the room. If they noticed me go, they gave no sign. I went and had a good long piss and hot soapy shower.