Swinger Club Question

[dannixo]

Looking for some feedback .. Looking to explore a visit to a swinger club with my girlfriend .. We are in are early 30's .. Not sure if we are ready to dive right in and participate with other couples and what not .. but we both are interested to see what the clubs are all about ..


Looking for suggestions on which club would be ideal for our first time exploration ..

Which club would have a cool setting for a bar and dance floor .. Are there any clubs that have private rooms that couples have access to if they do not want to participate in the 'open room' ?

Ty

 

[Goodoer]

I think you're looking at either Oasis or M4.

Good luck on your journey.

 

[dannixo]

1. CLUB M4

2. OASIS AQUALOUNGE

3. THE X CLUB

Need help deciding .. any insight would be appreciated.

 

[james t kirk]

1. CLUB M4

2. OASIS AQUALOUNGE

3. THE X CLUB

Need help deciding .. any insight would be appreciated.

I think you're probably too young for M4.

While they are a very welcoming club, and they are not going to turn anyone away from the door for not being beautiful enough, the crowd there is (or at least was) a 40 and up crowd.

 

[dannixo]

I think you're probably too young for M4.

While they are a very welcoming club, and they are not going to turn anyone away from the door for not being beautiful enough, the crowd there is (or at least was) a 40 and up crowd.

We are a beautiful couple .. but that's not too encouraging .. Would the suggest a different club ?

 

[star001]

We are a beautiful couple .. but that's not too encouraging .. Would the suggest a different club ?

i was looking to explore the same few days back…i am dating a girl who is quite open and we r in 30s too. will be interested in what u find.

 

[dannixo]

i was looking to explore the same few days back…i am dating a girl who is quite open and we r in 30s too. will be interested in what u find.

I'll keep u posted if we end up trying one of those clubs .. My girl is pretty open as well .. so that's the thought process of wanting to explore a club.

 

[Akila Besos]

I may be biased but I'd go with Oasis as the sex club to visit

It's got a laid back atmosphere plus they have one room all the way upstairs in the back that is for individuals who aren't comfortable performing infront of others. Cool thing about that tiny ass room is that you can lock the door while doing the deed ^-^


Hmm oasis has a stripper pole on the main floor^-^

 

[dannixo]

I may be biased but I'd go with Oasis as the sex club to visit

It's got a laid back atmosphere plus they have one room all the way upstairs in the back that is for individuals who aren't comfortable performing infront of others. Cool thing about that tiny ass room is that you can lock the door while doing the deed ^-^


Hmm oasis has a stripper pole on the main floor^-^

Thanks for the feedback .. Do you happen to know if Oasis is fully open now ? Are there restrictions cuz of Covid etc ?

 

[Zipperpants]

I recommend Oasis

M4 tends to be for the older crowd.

 

[MelissaRose]

I recommend Oasis

M4 tends to be for the older crowd.

Agreed !

I have been to both sex clubs, and I have found that Oasis has more of a chilled vibe to it. M4 has more of a sex dungeon feel to it, with alot more older people

 

[Ponderling]

Also a club at 407 Speers in Oakville, NXY Lounge.

Exit QEW at Dorval and head south, west once under the railway grade separation.

Never inside, but my kid was teaching at the swim school next door when a brouhaha from concerned moms broke out in the local paper.

That such a place be allowed to exist in the fair town of Oakville.

 

[Chevy_guy_007]

A regular SP of mine used to go to Oasis all the time, just so she could be naked and chill by the pool and be around her SP friends; usually during the day when it wasn't busy. She always wanted me to go with her until one Friday night we did and was nervous about it but she was very good and made me feel comfortable. We ended up watching lots of people fuck and got all horny and joined in on the red couch (if it's still there).. Some creeps there but most people are very polite and ask "Hey, can we watch or join in ...."

I wouldn't mind going back when things go back to normal and cases are down.

 

[Andreiboris01]

A regular SP of mine used to go to Oasis all the time, just so she could be naked and chill by the pool and be around her SP friends; usually during the day when it wasn't busy. She always wanted me to go with her until one Friday night we did and was nervous about it but she was very good and made me feel comfortable. We ended up watching lots of people fuck and got all horny and joined in on the red couch (if it's still there).. Some creeps there but most people are very polite and ask "Hey, can we watch or join in ...."

I wouldn't mind going back when things go back to normal and cases are down.

Just go on the weekends when they allow couples only. That gets rid of all the creeps. Check out schedule prior off their website

 

[star001]

Just go on the weekends when they allow couples only. That gets rid of all the creeps. Check out schedule prior off their website

but u need a partner too…isn’t it

 

[Andreiboris01]

Yup. If you did not bring a partener you would not be a couple yourself either, correct? Entrance denied then.

 

[star001]

i need a company, can’t bring my partner yet… girls who can be my partner…is oasis open again?

 

[dannixo]

Just a quick f/up ..

Ended up checking out Oasis Club.

As noted with some of the comments. It's a great vibe with little to no pressure on what you choose to do or not. We were approached very casually to join others but being our first time we did stick to ourselves most of the night and never felt pressured.
Was taken a back at first with the open concept and the several rooms where people are just openly having sex but didn't feel all that awkward.
Took a little courage and perhaps a few drinks in me but we both joined in on the fun. Little extra focus on trying not to focus others watching us but that soon fades away.

Loved the pool .. Great chill vibe and an opportunity to just relax in a cool setting.

 

[Luna_x]

I like Oasis. I got to go with a SP once and got to go upstairs which to my knowledge is blocked off if you go solo. I usually post up by the bar or sit around by the pool.

 

[coolmanfever]

When you bring a sp to oasis, do you pay sp the same hourly rate they would normally charge as if seeing you alone? Which sp is down for visit to oasis ?