I know this topic has been discussed before but here goes, bit of a backstory, in my sheer few minutes of madness I decided hey wouldnt it be fun to be a sugar daddy and have a girl who you dont have a serious relationship with, but go out and have sex often. I posted on Craig's List stating my preferences and that I was looking to pay a weekly allowance to a girl. The responses have been interesting ranging from wacky to unreadable to total pro/escort fishing for more business, but a couple of girls have answered back and do look interesting. Has anyone had experience in this area and can provide insight and advice to a newbie.
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Ive done it before... The good ones are the nervous ones that are doing it for the thrill 
The sex is great but they usually chicken out after a few meetings. I currently have 2 on the side that are fantastic.
I covered their UofT school books and they let me pop in every now and then for a quickie.
Been going strong for a about a year now.
The other nice difference is that there's no clock... but of course every girl is different.
The sex is great but they usually chicken out after a few meetings. I currently have 2 on the side that are fantastic.
I covered their UofT school books and they let me pop in every now and then for a quickie.
Been going strong for a about a year now.
The other nice difference is that there's no clock... but of course every girl is different.
Oh sorry wetnose its all clear now, anyways to clear things up I am NOT looking for a serious committed relationship or have any illusions of doing so. Like a couple of posters have already stated I am looking for the ones that are searching for a thrill and some extra side cash, I got a couple of interesting replies from the ad, and plan on meeting up with them just for coffee to test out the waters.
Always remember: play it safe. That means getting a pay as you go cell, first few meetings at a hotel, and setting up a throwaway mail account. Use your middle name, just in case. Set the ground rules early in the relationship. Find out exactly what she wants out of the arrangement too.
CL is not an option anymore, where else can I find SB ?
I used CL for few good years and found few good girls there (still seeing one of them once a month or so) but now I'm looking for new girls...
I used CL for few good years and found few good girls there (still seeing one of them once a month or so) but now I'm looking for new girls...
my suggestion is that if you are looking for a sugar baby, try and work out a deal of some sort with your regular sp.
I dont think it is so much about being "exclusive", as it is the type of relationship that you have. I have had a few different ones over the years and they are all different. It is more an understanding of how the relationship works. It is more like a gf/misstress without the bull shit. They take care of you in some way whether it is presents, trips, financial aid and you take care of them in whichever emotional or physical needs that they have. Part of the trick to being a sugar baby/sugar daddy is not admitting that is what it is, you both know but dont admit. I think that if you are actively searching for someone to be your SB then you will get someone that is a gold digger and will try to milk it for all its worth. Where as if you have already established a relationship with an sp then take it to the next level with a certain understanding you are far less likely to be taken advantage of.
I have had these arrangements from time to time. Prefer them actually, open to one now. I have yet to have a bad ending or bad experience.
I do agree w PP that every situation requires a specific understanding that may evolve through the course of the arrangement. Setting expectations and respecting each other seems to me as necessary. There is only really one thing that spooks me and that is a feeling of my being taken advantage of, if i even get a sniff of that vibe, I will exit immediately. I make clear that my friend should do the same.
I do agree w PP that every situation requires a specific understanding that may evolve through the course of the arrangement. Setting expectations and respecting each other seems to me as necessary. There is only really one thing that spooks me and that is a feeling of my being taken advantage of, if i even get a sniff of that vibe, I will exit immediately. I make clear that my friend should do the same.
I might as well add my 2 cents in this discussion, to the guy who is asking about "sugar mommies" please do not hijack this thread with that, you want to create a new topic then go do so, right up there with hot women who look for male escorts. Also if you are an sp please please please do not pm me, I am not interested in your services. if I was I would be going straight to the source then. Anyways this is proving to be a very interesting social experiment, got a few messages most of them fakes, women who are pros or not what I was looking for, and I been in contact with a couple of girls by email. One has already backed out of a coffee meet up, I am interested in the girl next door type looking for a thrill or to make some extra money, hence why I dont go the sp route, which is financial suicide and really where is the challenge?
enough pros advertising here also. I know of at least 4 sp's that I have seen that are on that site.
interesting topic... here is an article i read recently: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/...nt-college-students_n_913373.html?view=screen
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