Stupidity

[xtreme88]

This will be my first and last post on here.

I made the mistake a long time ago of thinking that a certain red head on this board actually liked me and that we could have something outside of work.... I was wrong.

Here I am making the same mistake. I thought this person was different since we seemed to share the same ideas and thoughts. The first time I saw them outside of work things ended badly. I felt like such an idiot, but they told me they were sorry and it wouldn't happen again. Well here I am feeling like an even bigger idiot. My point is this: Don't ever forget that we are paying for a service and time spent. Your an idiot like me if you think youre special.

 

[Eli]

Yep...The GFE only goes so far and so long.

Christ I remember in my early days of DJing strip clubs...Man I use to fall big time over some of the girls I met at work. If I only accepted the situations as the short rendezvous they were instead of trying to believe they were something more...Man I coulda saved myself some grief.

Actually...that advice works for all relationships.

 

[Eryck65]

We all want to feel special, and I guess the one thing to remember is that part of what we pay these girls for is their acting ability. We want them to be exerything WE want in a GF, but usually assume that thats what they want too. Been there done that myself so I understand, but its defintely one of those unspoken rules. Sometimes a relationship is possible, but if its love you are looking for this kind of "date" is not gonna do it 99% of the time.

 

[calloway]

I made the mistake a long time ago of thinking that a certain red head on this board actually liked me and that we could have something outside of work.... I was wrong.

Those damm redheads eh? Don't beat yourself up too much... this is a business. You may have been interested in a relationship... but was she? It does takes two.

In your comment you said "they told me they were sorry and it wouldn't happen again". Who are they? Was this a series of SP's you were trying to have a relationship with? If so... you're a gambling man and the odds of success are very rare.

Since this was posted in the KW section... we can only hope this means Red Jenna will be coming back. Bad news for you perhaps... but great news for the rest of the male and female population living in Southern Ontario.

By the way... Xtreme88 sounds like he could be 8.5"

 

[papasmerf]

Have you ever had a relationship that started out where you were all consumed? Only to discover later you and she had little in common?
Well, lust plays a huge role in this. But lust alone will not sustain a relationship. You need a balance on comonality differences. We tend to love to introduce others to what we like (both in and out of the bedroom). So don't go around pissed that things did not work out. Rather consider it just another steeping stone in life.