Stressing out too much

[TownHall]

Pretty sure it happened to others to some extent, but I find myself stressing out really badly every time I'm going to see a SP if booked in advance. Overthinking too much I guess.

Does anybody else have a similar problem and how do you deal with it? I just don't want to hedge my performance with Viagra or Cealis, as I'm worried about becoming dependent and I'm still pretty young.

I always have a sense I'm offending a SP by not appearing physically excited

 

[koreanjames]

Have you slept with women before in your civilian life ?

Pretty sure it happened to others to some extent, but I find myself stressing out really badly every time I'm going to see a SP if booked in advance. Overthinking too much I guess.

Does anybody else have a similar problem and how do you deal with it? I just don't want to hedge my performance with Viagra or Cealis, as I'm worried about becoming dependent and I'm still pretty young.

I always have a sense I'm offending a SP by not appearing physically excited

 

[realthing69]

You just have to over come it by facing it head on....keep seeing SPs

Its happen to me a few times...I tell the SP its me not her but keep trying the next time. Unless of course you don't find her attractive etc.

 

[studentjohn]

The only reason to stress is if you forgot your wallet; other than that man the fuck up

 

[kumamake]

remember you paying her to service you not the otherway around, so dont worry about pleasing her.

 

[TownHall]

Have you slept with women before in your civilian life ?

Yeah. Been married a few years back. Have kids too....

I generally have no issues when it's rather spontaneous; it's that pre-planned encounter that derails me

 

[koreanjames]

Yeah. Been married a few years back. Have kids too....

I generally have no issues when it's rather spontaneous; it's that pre-planned encounter that derails me

Just bury yourself in work + family life and other normal day to day routine + activities.... and when the day arrives you jusr end up doing what you have to do.

I think you are over thinking and over glorifying the experience (not that it’s not great and fun) to the point u are creating your own anxiety

 

[TownHall]

Fair points. Thanks all

 

[Mr Deeds]

I love the feeling before I see an sp I havent seen before. Its exhilarating

 

[sempel]

Sounds like standard nervousness/anxiousness. Not sure if there's anything you can do about it. I remember performing when I was a kid in front of people - no matter how much I practiced and knew what I was doing, I still would get nervous and sweaty. Same thing with tests - I might have the stuff down pact but I hardly get good sleep the night before.

The OP hasn't indicated if this is with new SP's or ladies he's already seen so I don't know if that's part of it. But it's not the worst problem and if you explain it properly, I don't think it's an issue.

 

[deezed]

I love the feeling before I see an sp I havent seen before. Its exhilarating

My sentiments exactly Mr Deeds !

 

[xmontrealer]

I love the feeling before I see an sp I havent seen before. Its exhilarating

Me too! It takes me back to the old 1970's "blind date" days, when I would get fixed up by a friend or whoever, anticipated the event for a few days leading up to it, and then a little nervously stood there at the girl's door waiting for her to open it, while wondering what she looked like, and if we would hit it off! (I kind of get that feeling now the first time I see an SP, the same "standing at the door until they open it anticipation feeling".)

Almost non-existent today, what with Facebook, Tinder, etc. giving people a pretty good idea of who they're going to meet that first time, well in advance of their actual first meeting.

 

[explorerzip]

Most of the ladies out there should know how to deal with an anxious client especially if they're softer than normal. Book at least 2 hours to reduce that stress a bit. Then you have extra time to warm up to the lady and she has time to warm up to you. And if things end quickly, you should have enough time for another round.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

I can recommend an SP that will be very easy going and will make you very comfortable (if that will help).

 

[TownHall]

I can recommend an SP that will be very easy going and will make you very comfortable (if that will help).

Always appreciate suggestions