Strange question

[2times]

Hey guys

I am a person on a wheelchair who is only interested in a erotic massage from an SP.
[Without mentioning any names] I contacted an escort agency about two month ago stating the above. The two SP that I was interested in, said they are not comfortable seeing me although I know that one of those SP catered to a person on a wheelchair before!
Also I contacted an independent SP and she said she does not serve the Mississauga area!

My question is: is it a strange thing to ask an SP for just an erotic massage?

What do you guys think? Should I skip mentioning that I am only interested in a massage until the SP comes over?!!

 

[DistantVoyeur]

Why not try branching out to outcall masseuse's as well. There are some independants that may give you a higher quality massage to boot.
Not everyone is comfortable around differently-abled people. The person that did it before may have found it uncomfortable and something they do not want to repeat.
Your request is not strange, and I'm sure they hear stranger requests every day (no, not from me ). Just have to find the right person.

 

[snowleopard]

Given some of the truly bizarre fetishes that are out there, I don't think that is a strange request at all. These days, one can find an SP who provides just about anything. I suppose SPs are no different than anyone else when it comes to our social discomfort around people with disabilities. However, I'd be very surprised if there wasn't one who would be willing to give it a try.

Your question is certainly valid, and hopefully it will attract some interest.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I used to have a client who was in a wheelchair, I did not have a problem with that but I did find that it was murder on my back helping him in and out of the chair,,,,,,??

 

[LKD]

just show up to your MP of choice, and threaten to sue their asses if they discriminate DD

ppl in wheel-chairs need their 'erotic' massage too

 

[S.C. Joe]

Just totally guessing but maybe they are thinking since you want less than full service you be reluctant to pay the same as for F/S.

Or the thought is you are not really in to this game.

Yeah, I would wait until U see her in person but be sure to mention you are in a wheelchair and find out what fee (if any) they would like if you and her don't seem to click.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Yeah, I would wait until U see her in person but be sure to mention you are in a wheelchair and find out what fee (if any) they would like if you and her don't seem to click.

I disagree entirely. Be upfront and honest with her, you are booking an SP not an MP and if she doesn't want to offer massage as a part of her services than that's her choice. It does no good to have a parade of women come by and keep cancelling them because it's not working out, spend the time to let them know what your interests are and what your expectations are and find the right person the first time. If you are not honest about it to begin with then you are setting yourself up for disapointment.

By the way it very well might not be the wheelchair that makes the girl uncomfortable, as you mentioned the one girl has seen at least one other client in a wheelchair that you know of. Rather you are trying to book SP's for MPA calls, this is something they do not normally do and despite what people often think about it being easier money it's still someone else's job that they have not been trained for so it's not actually easier.
It's as if you are asked to go in and work at your coworkers desk for the day, sure you could do it but you could do your own job much easier and if given the option you'd probably just stay at your desk because you don't have to worry about making mistakes and embarassing yourself in public (which is even worse when you work naked for strangers who review you on public forums).
There are a ton of other reasons why girls might not wish to offer massage but that's one example that I thought would illustrate well.

 

[2times]

" Just totally guessing but maybe they are thinking since you want less than full service you be reluctant to pay the same as for F/S."

when I called the agency, that's exactly what I thought too ! I thought to myself that the agency probably did not think I am serious about my request or I'm trying to pay less!
About six months ago I called about a dozen of massage parlors to ask if they offer out call services but they all said no!
However if you guys know of any out call massage parlors please let me know!