By closing your mind to seeing white women only, Asian women only or black women only, you are potentially preventing yourself from getting a great experience.
Same for the folks saying they don’t want to meet anyone who isn’t
. I have a lot of things to say about that but for the sake of this thread I’ll just say that booking someone who is able to rent a car (25 and older) isn’t going to hurt you especially if you are above 45, what difference does it make? A 30 year old woman is still already 15 years younger than you. Would a woman 15 years younger respond to your flirts if you approached her in a bar?
Start progressively, if you’re always looking for a 110 lbs woman, start looking for a 115 lbs. if you’re always looking for a 19 year old, start looking for a 20 year old.
TLDR: Keep an open mind, having a narrow vision and being too focused on finding the perfect woman will keep you away from amazing experiences.
You're not viewing this clearly.
Delving into this arena is a lot like selecting a porn video to purchase. The average male mind needs to have some criteria by which to winnow down the zillions of possibilities in a big hurry... to get down to a workable handful from which to select the final purchase.
So invariably they narrow the vast search by selecting between the standard categories out there, at times eliminating 30-75% of the possibilities with one new self-realized criterion.
If a porn star moves in next door to (us)...
(and somehow we are fortunate enough to figure it out)... well then that might narrow-down the selection process like nothing has before. (the same is absolutely true if YOU moved in next door, re: who we select in this arena)
You are taking all of this personally when it has precisely zero to do with you,
OR with any of your human traits.
The internet has made this arena much better for all involved...
Do
YOU really want to return to a world where the
only thing which represented you in this business was a black silhouette next to a phone number in the yellow pages??
If you still don't get it. Consider the scenarios where you (would have been) sent to an outcall, with no details given, and then had to endure the discomfort and/or rejection by those for whom you were
not what they expected.
Then be glad that you now have the luxury of being visited only by those who
want to visit
you.
And PS - You can quite typically rent a car in far-away vacation destinations when you're just 21.
PPS - The part about who would
respond to flirting in a bar has zero to do with any of this. In case you've not figured it out, the $$$ involved tends to give men the confidence to
expect/anticipate that the would-be (woman in the bar)
won't say "no".
(when he approaches with that confidence, it doesn't matter anywhere near as much TO him even if she does say "no")
None of this has anything to do with "narrow vision" or a lack of "focus".
In large part, people who aren't used to having very many
true prospects at all... suddenly need to find a way to process hundreds of prospects (while presently, or soon to be
thinking with the little head). It is nothing personal and has zero to do with 'you' as an individual.
but it works!
